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Author:  TSidds [ Mon Feb 06, 2017 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  What am I doing wrong?
So I try my game at parties, more so that I try to escalate at parties than i would each day that goes by in school, given the situations/place.
At my most recent party I made some observations to which I could hopefully get advice based off of.
The guys that got with a girl that night seemed to be rather drunk or to seem like they're not trying to get them (they didn't come across as if they were grafting). The girls I spoke to ended up getting pulled away by a friend that wanted them (to which I didn't know what to do, to try speaking to later or try and follow. I didn't necessarily know what to talk to them about, to get a long conversation. I never know when/how to escalate (somewhat fear of being rejected if I went in). I didn't seem to be with a group of people, more so going around trying to find people to speak to (am I being too available). Also, should you drink and how much?

Trying to get around all of the above due to my first kiss not being due to me escalating , more was somebody telling us to and we did

Any feedback on all this would be great,
Cheers
Author:  R.C [ Mon Feb 06, 2017 5:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
What do you mean "should you drink and how much"? You're at a party. Drink however much you want and have fun.

And again, you're at a party. You don't have long conversations at parties.
Author:  TSidds [ Mon Feb 06, 2017 6:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
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What do you mean "should you drink and how much"? You're at a party. Drink however much you want and have fun.

And again, you're at a party. You don't have long conversations at parties.
I thought long conversations were escalation? how do i get places with small conversations?
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Feb 06, 2017 7:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
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What do you mean "should you drink and how much"? You're at a party. Drink however much you want and have fun.

And again, you're at a party. You don't have long conversations at parties.
I thought long conversations were escalation? how do i get places with small conversations?

Right...but don't get shit faced man...terrible game at that point just get a nice buzz going. If you are getting shit faced at least do it during a game of beer pong or something. Long conversations aren't necessary for seduction. Talk and flirt. You have to learn a lot of things before you understand any advanced advice that long time players here will give you. How's your body language?
Author:  TSidds [ Mon Feb 06, 2017 8:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
Body language, Will retain eye contact when talking until they break it, will briefly break then aswell. When walking, I'm not a 'smiley' person, so will make eye contact, most times won't smile unless they do at me. Most part shoulders back, looking up/forward. Could possibly do advice with body language when in a group aswell.
Author:  TSidds [ Mon Feb 06, 2017 10:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
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What do you mean "should you drink and how much"? You're at a party. Drink however much you want and have fun.

And again, you're at a party. You don't have long conversations at parties.
I thought long conversations were escalation? how do i get places with small conversations?

Right...but don't get shit faced man...terrible game at that point just get a nice buzz going. If you are getting shit faced at least do it during a game of beer pong or something. Long conversations aren't necessary for seduction. Talk and flirt. You have to learn a lot of things before you understand any advanced advice that long time players here will give you. How's your body language?
Body language, Will retain eye contact when talking until they break it, will briefly break then aswell. When walking, I'm not a 'smiley' person, so will make eye contact, most times won't smile unless they do at me. Most part shoulders back, looking up/forward. Could possibly do advice with body language when in a group aswell.
Author:  R.C [ Tue Feb 07, 2017 8:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
Where did you learn that long conversation = escalation? escalation = escalation.

Your goal is to get physical, not into quantum physics.
Author:  TSidds [ Tue Feb 07, 2017 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
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Where did you learn that long conversation = escalation? escalation = escalation.

Your goal is to get physical, not into quantum physics.
So how do I escalate to a kiss from talking to a girl?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Feb 07, 2017 8:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
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So how do I escalate to a kiss from talking to a girl?
Lofty goal.

When target practicing do you aim for the bulls-eye, or just the outer edge and call it good?
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Tue Feb 07, 2017 9:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
lol didn't I call it. Focus on the fundamentals man, I can already see you being awkward about it
Author:  FaithfulRaider [ Wed Feb 08, 2017 10:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong?
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So how do I escalate to a kiss from talking to a girl?
When someone asks this, it's obvious they haven't done even a small amount of study. C'mon man... Nearly every book on pickup talks about this.

Many guys have already published many great resources on learning this stuff. Read some.

Besides, not knowing the answer to that question is kinda like a pilot taking off in a plane then asking someone else how to land it.
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