logistics for after the date. What's the best was I can get invited to her place after the concert.

Hey all,

Scored two tickets to a live d.j. set tomorrow and wanted advice on bring a girl i'm seeing there. This would be my third date. I invited a close friend but he can't make it. So I have an extra and invited her. She said she was down. My thing is... logistics for after the date. What's the best was I can get invited to her place after the concert.

Concert is chill wave music, live dj sets from several artist. Was gonna keep it chill in there. How should I act with her in the concert. Never brought a girl to a concert before.

Does she live alone? With roomates? With parents? How far away is she?

How far have you gotten with her?

Escalation as has been mentioned is key. Get her hot. Don't go all the way - promise her more later.

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Slept with her a couple times so far. Haven't seen her in a few days since our date last Saturday. She wanted to come by for dinner on Tuesday night, but I couldn't make it plus she was running an event as she does event planing and marketing. Then when I got tickets I invited her to this show since all my close friends couldn't make it.

She text me this morning "Hey! Looking forward to seeing you later" This was before I sent her the venue info. She lives across town where as I live out the city so I would have to drive to her place or back home which is 45min away. My car will be parked at a private garage during the show for safety.

I can escalate with her no problem. This show is going to be popping too. I think she will really enjoy it. I was gonna go alone actually but figured why not just invite her, she's a cool girl.

Escalate hard during the concert. After the concert, say, "Let's go" and bring her straight to your place or motel.

Keyword: escalate.

You cannot pull this off if you cannot escalate.

Dude if you've already slept with her just do what Heywood said. If she says anything about roommates ask if any of them are hot and if they're down for a threesome.

Jokingly. Or not. Either way works.

I get what you're saying, but may you detail something here?
Where I live, you always greet women with "kino" and stuff and you're usually touching her on her hips.
I've been through situations where women get bored of escalation. I've kissed, touched their knee and shit so much they don't even care so the talk part becomes more important. I guess you gotta time the shit and create tension and shiznit.

Help a brutha here, dawg