PUA Forum :: Don't do pick up before a big holiday?

Ok, so I knew I was going to be busy through the holiday weeks, but I sarged on a bunch of women in the mall and just around the city about 3 days ago. I was able to get around 10 numbers, but I noticed a pattern.

There are some women that still reply to me because I told them I would message or call them up after Christmas and set up plans with them and they agreed with the idea. Only a few women didn't reply to me, but I was busy on Christmas eve, Christmas day and the day after due to an end of the year company dinner party.

Anyway, due to all this I wasn't able to message a lot of these women back until today. Of course, as I expected, I lost more along the way while a small handful are still replying.

There is one that is acting a bit annoying. I'm about to move on, but I wanted to ask if anyone has dealt with a woman like this. So when I texted her this afternoon saying I will call her, she messaged me "Ok" so then when I tried calling she didn't pick up. Of course, she could just be busy and meant I can call but not at that particular time. Anyway, I texted her a couple hours ago mentioning that I will be outside the local train station and to meet me tonight. She didn't reply. Then I later message her that we can chat more tomorrow and say goodnight...then she finally replies...just saying goodnight wtf? Is she just shy, being distant, doesn't know what to say? When I sarged on her a few days ago, she was really into me and was happy to give me her contact info, but I realize that a few days time is enough for a woman to go cold.

Anyway, I just started to feel that hitting on women during the holidays or anytime when everyone is busy is probably not the best time to sarge. Has anyone else experienced this before?

There is one woman that is still replying to me often though, but the rest are being full-on/semi flaky probably due to the days that went by without contacting them.

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You messaged this girl too much, may have put her off.

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You messaged this girl too much, may have put her off.

Yes, I was thinking that, but she was busy the first time. I only messaged her three times but with a lot of time in between the first and last two messages. I guess some women have a one/two message per day limit they set for guys.

I should have just messaged her once and when she just replied "Ok" I should have said nothing.

Author:	Johnny Utah [ Tue Dec 27, 2016 1:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Don't do pick up before a big holiday?
Ok, so I knew I was going to be busy through the holiday weeks, but I sarged on a bunch of women in the mall and just around the city about 3 days ago. I was able to get around 10 numbers, but I noticed a pattern. There are some women that still reply to me because I told them I would message or call them up after Christmas and set up plans with them and they agreed with the idea. Only a few women didn't reply to me, but I was busy on Christmas eve, Christmas day and the day after due to an end of the year company dinner party. Anyway, due to all this I wasn't able to message a lot of these women back until today. Of course, as I expected, I lost more along the way while a small handful are still replying. There is one that is acting a bit annoying. I'm about to move on, but I wanted to ask if anyone has dealt with a woman like this. So when I texted her this afternoon saying I will call her, she messaged me "Ok" so then when I tried calling she didn't pick up. Of course, she could just be busy and meant I can call but not at that particular time. Anyway, I texted her a couple hours ago mentioning that I will be outside the local train station and to meet me tonight. She didn't reply. Then I later message her that we can chat more tomorrow and say goodnight...then she finally replies...just saying goodnight wtf? Is she just shy, being distant, doesn't know what to say? When I sarged on her a few days ago, she was really into me and was happy to give me her contact info, but I realize that a few days time is enough for a woman to go cold. Anyway, I just started to feel that hitting on women during the holidays or anytime when everyone is busy is probably not the best time to sarge. Has anyone else experienced this before? There is one woman that is still replying to me often though, but the rest are being full-on/semi flaky probably due to the days that went by without contacting them.

Author:	AltaiDuckq [ Tue Dec 27, 2016 1:29 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Don't do pick up before a big holiday?
You are overthinking and caring too much about the outcome. Any day is a good day to sarge.

Author:	Ricardo999 [ Tue Dec 27, 2016 2:13 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Don't do pick up before a big holiday?
Quote: Ok, so I knew I was going to be busy through the holiday weeks, but I sarged on a bunch of women in the mall and just around the city about 3 days ago. I was able to get around 10 numbers, but I noticed a pattern. There are some women that still reply to me because I told them I would message or call them up after Christmas and set up plans with them and they agreed with the idea. Only a few women didn't reply to me, but I was busy on Christmas eve, Christmas day and the day after due to an end of the year company dinner party. Anyway, due to all this I wasn't able to message a lot of these women back until today. Of course, as I expected, I lost more along the way while a small handful are still replying. There is one that is acting a bit annoying. I'm about to move on, but I wanted to ask if anyone has dealt with a woman like this. So when I texted her this afternoon saying I will call her, she messaged me "Ok" so then when I tried calling she didn't pick up. Of course, she could just be busy and meant I can call but not at that particular time. Anyway, I texted her a couple hours ago mentioning that I will be outside the local train station and to meet me tonight. She didn't reply. Then I later message her that we can chat more tomorrow and say goodnight...then she finally replies...just saying goodnight wtf? Is she just shy, being distant, doesn't know what to say? When I sarged on her a few days ago, she was really into me and was happy to give me her contact info, but I realize that a few days time is enough for a woman to go cold. Anyway, I just started to feel that hitting on women during the holidays or anytime when everyone is busy is probably not the best time to sarge. Has anyone else experienced this before? There is one woman that is still replying to me often though, but the rest are being full-on/semi flaky probably due to the days that went by without contacting them. You messaged this girl too much, may have put her off.

Author:	Johnny Utah [ Tue Dec 27, 2016 2:26 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Don't do pick up before a big holiday?
Quote: Quote: Ok, so I knew I was going to be busy through the holiday weeks, but I sarged on a bunch of women in the mall and just around the city about 3 days ago. I was able to get around 10 numbers, but I noticed a pattern. There are some women that still reply to me because I told them I would message or call them up after Christmas and set up plans with them and they agreed with the idea. Only a few women didn't reply to me, but I was busy on Christmas eve, Christmas day and the day after due to an end of the year company dinner party. Anyway, due to all this I wasn't able to message a lot of these women back until today. Of course, as I expected, I lost more along the way while a small handful are still replying. There is one that is acting a bit annoying. I'm about to move on, but I wanted to ask if anyone has dealt with a woman like this. So when I texted her this afternoon saying I will call her, she messaged me "Ok" so then when I tried calling she didn't pick up. Of course, she could just be busy and meant I can call but not at that particular time. Anyway, I texted her a couple hours ago mentioning that I will be outside the local train station and to meet me tonight. She didn't reply. Then I later message her that we can chat more tomorrow and say goodnight...then she finally replies...just saying goodnight wtf? Is she just shy, being distant, doesn't know what to say? When I sarged on her a few days ago, she was really into me and was happy to give me her contact info, but I realize that a few days time is enough for a woman to go cold. Anyway, I just started to feel that hitting on women during the holidays or anytime when everyone is busy is probably not the best time to sarge. Has anyone else experienced this before? There is one woman that is still replying to me often though, but the rest are being full-on/semi flaky probably due to the days that went by without contacting them. You messaged this girl too much, may have put her off. Yes, I was thinking that, but she was busy the first time. I only messaged her three times but with a lot of time in between the first and last two messages. I guess some women have a one/two message per day limit they set for guys. I should have just messaged her once and when she just replied "Ok" I should have said nothing.

Author:	Ricardo999 [ Tue Dec 27, 2016 3:33 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Don't do pick up before a big holiday?
Quote: Quote: Quote: Ok, so I knew I was going to be busy through the holiday weeks, but I sarged on a bunch of women in the mall and just around the city about 3 days ago. I was able to get around 10 numbers, but I noticed a pattern. There are some women that still reply to me because I told them I would message or call them up after Christmas and set up plans with them and they agreed with the idea. Only a few women didn't reply to me, but I was busy on Christmas eve, Christmas day and the day after due to an end of the year company dinner party. Anyway, due to all this I wasn't able to message a lot of these women back until today. Of course, as I expected, I lost more along the way while a small handful are still replying. There is one that is acting a bit annoying. I'm about to move on, but I wanted to ask if anyone has dealt with a woman like this. So when I texted her this afternoon saying I will call her, she messaged me "Ok" so then when I tried calling she didn't pick up. Of course, she could just be busy and meant I can call but not at that particular time. Anyway, I texted her a couple hours ago mentioning that I will be outside the local train station and to meet me tonight. She didn't reply. Then I later message her that we can chat more tomorrow and say goodnight...then she finally replies...just saying goodnight wtf? Is she just shy, being distant, doesn't know what to say? When I sarged on her a few days ago, she was really into me and was happy to give me her contact info, but I realize that a few days time is enough for a woman to go cold. Anyway, I just started to feel that hitting on women during the holidays or anytime when everyone is busy is probably not the best time to sarge. Has anyone else experienced this before? There is one woman that is still replying to me often though, but the rest are being full-on/semi flaky probably due to the days that went by without contacting them. You messaged this girl too much, may have put her off. Yes, I was thinking that, but she was busy the first time. I only messaged her three times but with a lot of time in between the first and last two messages. I guess some women have a one/two message per day limit they set for guys. I should have just messaged her once and when she just replied "Ok" I should have said nothing. Yep.

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Author:	Johnny Utah [ Tue Dec 27, 2016 5:34 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Don't do pick up before a big holiday?
Do you think it is possible with some women I could "balance" my over-texting today by not texting her at all tomorrow or maybe only say something simple like "Did you enjoy your day?" I will move on if I don't hear from her soon, but I always wondered if over/under texting can be balanced this way? I realize that for women that are completely scared-off/turned off, it is impossible but for women that aren't completely ignoring me (still texting good morning. goodnight, sending cute emojis, etc) would it be possible to pull them back into conversation and get things going with them? If this woman is over it, she doesn't need to waste her time texting me "goodnight" or anything at all for that matter, so there must be a small chance to pull her closer.

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