yo yo yo! I met a girl out clubbing a few weeks ago, but after two dates she stopped answering my texts. This has happend far too many times to me and i am pissed of as i am frequently told i am very good looking, which makes it worse because i feel i should be doing a lot better, sending me on a downward spiral confidence wise.
The last time this happend to me the girl seemed overly into me when we were out clubbing the first night, her and her friends were all saying how hot i am, she couldn't stop taking selfies with me and kissing me. After we went our separate ways when the club had closed she called me when she got in. We were on the phone for over two hours and she was clearly loving every minute being with me/calling me that night. Long story short I met up with her twice after that and all of a sudden she went cold. This pissed me off even more because i genuinely liked this girl.
Essentially i know in my own heart i am beta/afc/akward when sober and also very boring, essentially my inner game is dreadful, however i feel that when girls are drunk they do not see this in me. When we are both sober they then start to realise who i really am. I saw a thread on this forum essentially going over the troubles this good looking guy was having and everyone said that your personality and game does not match your looks which throws girls off. I am looking for some much needed advice on specifically how to match looks to personality and also any genuine inner game tips that you may feel will help, whether that be books or just techniques or advice. Thanks for your help in advance!
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