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| Author: | HockeyFan987987 [ Wed Dec 07, 2016 7:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Gynophobia |
I think I realized my problem. Gynophobia - an irrational fear of women. If I can cure arachnophobia, then I should be able to cure this. What am I scared of? I've seen millions of them. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Dec 07, 2016 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gynophobia |
Quote: I think I realized my problem. Gynophobia - an irrational fear of women.
An arachnophob would face his fear by covering himself in spiders...... so I suggest planting your face directly in a vagina is your goal.If I can cure arachnophobia, then I should be able to cure this. What am I scared of? I've seen millions of them. Kidding aside, what are you afraid of? It's not even women. It's rejection that gets your knees all wobbly I bet. How old are you, and how many successes have you had? |
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| Author: | HockeyFan987987 [ Wed Dec 07, 2016 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gynophobia |
I'm 29. I've slept with a decent amount, but paid for most. I've had very little success in the real field any time in recent years. I also have crippling anxiety. For example, I was just in a bar drinking water down town and there was a girl sitting next to me. I said nothing. I wanted to, but I didn't. Your goal doesn't sound too bad. Sounds pretty realistic. |
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| Author: | Curtis72 [ Thu Dec 08, 2016 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gynophobia |
How about chatting to women you don't want to have sex with so you know so there's nothing to be afraid of. Then build up to 5's and 6's... |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Thu Dec 08, 2016 8:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gynophobia |
Quote: How about chatting to women you don't want to have sex with so you know so there's nothing to be afraid of. Then build up to 5's and 6's...
Old wives tale. All that does is reinforce to guys that hot women are different. It's a way to learn bad habits. Just dive in.
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| Author: | HockeyFan987987 [ Thu Dec 08, 2016 8:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gynophobia |
Believe it or not, there are times when I can chat with 10's, but chatting is not getting laid. How do I transition from chatting to getting laid? My complete lack of conversation skills was apparent last night when I went to a strip club. There, the girls approach you and try to start a conversation. I still couldn't get past the boring talk. Is there something I'm doing wrong or am I overthinking it? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Dec 08, 2016 9:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gynophobia |
Quote: Believe it or not, there are times when I can chat with 10's, but chatting is not getting laid.
Talking isn't near as important as listening. Listen with real interest. While you sitting there staring into her baby blues, think about every dirty thing you would do to her if you could. look from her eyes to her lips.
How do I transition from chatting to getting laid? My complete lack of conversation skills was apparent last night when I went to a strip club. There, the girls approach you and try to start a conversation. I still couldn't get past the boring talk. Is there something I'm doing wrong or am I overthinking it? |
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| Author: | HARDBALLPLAYER [ Sun Dec 11, 2016 7:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gynophobia |
Your fear has become an object. Now you think of "your fear of women" and address it like it is a physical thing you can touch and that affects you. That effectively takes the control out of your hands and leaves you feeling helpless. You are not helpless. YOU'RE A GODDAMNED MAN So change it. Start here.. What do you want? To not be afraid of women? Wrong goal. Why? Your fear will exist as long as you think about it. Shift your focus. Whatever you think, you become. Positive or negative. "Don't fuck up" is the best way to fuck up. So shift your focus by making your goal "sleep with 10 women". Pretty soon you'll look up after 3-4 women into your 10 women quest and think to yourself "Hey...I'm not afraid anymore". So just shift the focus. Never make fear the focus. |
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| Author: | HockeyFan987987 [ Sun Dec 11, 2016 7:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gynophobia |
"Just sleep with a woman" is not an easy task for me unless we're talking prostitutes. I'm still struggling to maintain conversations and keep eye contact. |
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