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| Author: | franklin1993 [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 3:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85Ig1AKRV2c He has a very muscular aesthetic body. If I have a body like this. Will picking up girls be easier? |
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| Author: | PUALearning2PUA [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 3:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Of course it will, assuming everything else about you is together. It won't be the whole answer to the question though. |
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| Author: | Desmon333 [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 4:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Of course it will make it easier. Being financially secure(having money) will make it even easier. |
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| Author: | B Daygame [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 5:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Quote: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85Ig1AKRV2c
If your looking for a one night stand without having to do any talking, then yes but dont expect anything more. Just because you have a awesome body doesn't mean you'll be good with girls. Women love ‘real’ guys because they’re sick and tired of inauthentic guys. Inauthentic guys believe that in order to meet women they have to act like a big shot or show off. They have to show off what they have or own. But they’re just doing that for attention and to impress females. Women are tired of this. So many men never express their genuine intentions because they’re terrified of any rejection. They instead hide behind an indirect (inauthentic) façade and never say what they’re feeling. Their egos are too delicate.He has a very muscular aesthetic body. If I have a body like this. Will picking up girls be easier? In theory if you don’t believe in yourself – why should she? There’s a difference between improving yourself and pretending to be someone else. So don’t be a fake even if it takes days, weeks, months, or years to improve. It took me a very long time to get where I am, but now if a woman ever ‘rejects’ me I just dust myself off and keep going. Sure, I’ll still feel a sting sometimes (for about 10 seconds!), but it’s a small sting because there really is no rejection for me – just exploration. When I approach a woman and I’m being myself, I’m checking to see if she’s a match for me. If she’s not interested in me, she’s not a match. Why the hell would I want to invest my energy into a woman that doesn’t even want to talk to me? I only like women who like me – or at the very least, are open minded enough to talk to me for a minute or two. It’s as simple as that. Just because shes attracted to you doesn't mean it's a instant yes. (also a lot of what I wrote is quoted from the daygame bible.) |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 7:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Quote: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85Ig1AKRV2c
He has a very muscular aesthetic body. If I have a body like this. Will picking up girls be easier? Yes, it's a huge advantage as long as you also improve in other areas. |
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| Author: | Autoregressive [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 7:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Sigh.. it'll help if you're meeting women shirtless. So if you live near the Equator, go for it. Otherwise, the effect will be minimal... except: better defined face if you were really overweight, better shoulder/waist or chest/waist ratio assuming your genetics are V-taper friendly. How the hell you're going to show off your muscularity while dressed up, otherwise, is beyond me. Note: lots of women consider guys who are showing off to be tools. When you're strolling around shirtless, that's what you're doing. Try actually asking a few dozen women if you don't believe it. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 8:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Quote: Sigh.. it'll help if you're meeting women shirtless. So if you live near the Equator, go for it.
Yes, because the only way you can tell a guy is well built is if he's shirtless. Quote:
Otherwise, the effect will be minimal... except: better defined face if you were really overweight, better shoulder/waist or chest/waist ratio assuming your genetics are V-taper friendly.
That's hardly "minimal". Quote:
How the hell you're going to show off your muscularity while dressed up, otherwise, is beyond me.
Sure, selfies in the gym make you a tool. But the impact of having a good body has more to do with your subconscious rather than the opportunities to show it off. Note: lots of women consider guys who are showing off to be tools. When you're strolling around shirtless, that's what you're doing. Try actually asking a few dozen women if you don't believe it. You'll be more confident. And as such, you'll have an easier time. Simple as that. |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 8:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Quote: Otherwise, the effect will be minimal... except: better defined face if you were really overweight, better shoulder/waist or chest/waist ratio assuming your genetics are V-taper friendly. How are those things "minimal"? If you want to attract fit, beautiful women, you should be fit. And everyone is V-taper friendly. Most just choose a couching lifestyle and don't work on it. Quote: How the hell you're going to show off your muscularity while dressed up, otherwise, is beyond me.
Because muscles make your shirt bulge, or you simply "fill" your shirts better. Or when a woman touches your chest or shoulder (they love to do this, even strangers) they feel solid, tight mass.Women pick up on this right away. Quote:
Note: lots of women consider guys who are showing off to be tools. When you're strolling around shirtless, that's what you're doing. Try actually asking a few dozen women if you don't believe it.
I agree shirtless walks is showing off and a put off. But more often than not, women love muscles. It makes them feel feminine and gets them wet. However, its a rare thing these days. Men are becoming wimpier and more feminine, embracing a couching/video game lifestyle. This makes me stand out a lot in social circuits and I use to my advantage (bartenders, dancers, hostsesses and others in the service industry melt over muscles because they see so many slobs). |
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| Author: | Charity_ [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 8:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Quote: Sigh.. it'll help if you're meeting women shirtless. So if you live near the Equator, go for it. As a woman I can tell you that you are off on how you think we perceive a guy with a body like the guy put in the post. You know how you can look at a girl and tell that they have a nice body even though she's not in a bikini? We can do the same with guys. That guy on the video would be even sexier fully dressed with nice fitting clothes because I would be imagining him shirtless. Even if he came up to me and started talking to me and I didn't like what he had to say and nothing happened between us I would still kick myself every once in a while for letting him get away.
Otherwise, the effect will be minimal... except: better defined face if you were really overweight, better shoulder/waist or chest/waist ratio assuming your genetics are V-taper friendly. How the hell you're going to show off your muscularity while dressed up, otherwise, is beyond me. Note: lots of women consider guys who are showing off to be tools. When you're strolling around shirtless, that's what you're doing. Try actually asking a few dozen women if you don't believe it. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 8:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Quote: Sigh.. it'll help if you're meeting women shirtless. So if you live near the Equator, go for it.
Otherwise, the effect will be minimal... except: better defined face if you were really overweight, better shoulder/waist or chest/waist ratio assuming your genetics are V-taper friendly. How the hell you're going to show off your muscularity while dressed up, otherwise, is beyond me. Note: lots of women consider guys who are showing off to be tools. When you're strolling around shirtless, that's what you're doing. Try actually asking a few dozen women if you don't believe it. Ok this kinda post just makes me think you're in denial about the world or trolling. |
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| Author: | Autoregressive [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 6:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
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Yes, because the only way you can tell a guy is well built is if he's shirtless.
Well shit, do you seriously think that the majority of guys are going to get Arnold arms and look buff in normal fitting clothing? You’re kidding yourself.That's hardly "minimal". And the effect won’t be minimal if you’re going from extremely overweight / butterface to normal BMI/body fat range. Quote:
How are those things "minimal"? If you want to attract fit, beautiful women, you should be fit.
Everyone is definitely NOT v-taper friendly. Do you sell fitness advice on the internet or what? And everyone is V-taper friendly. Most just choose a couching lifestyle and don't work on it. Good luck getting a heavily endomorphic (large waist) or ectomorphic guy (narrow upper body) a large chest/shoulder to waist ratio. Genetics are going to determine a lot – bone structure and width of the clavicles/shoulders, etc. Come on man, don’t spray the snake oil. Quote:
Because muscles make your shirt bulge, or you simply "fill" your shirts better. Or when a woman touches your chest or shoulder (they love to do this, even strangers) they feel solid, tight mass.
Yeah, like I told R.C, good luck getting muscle so big that they are going to make anything bulge. Anything shy of amazing genetics isn’t going to cut it. Large bone structure is almost a must (seen Casey Butt’s research?). Almost no one can look like that guy in the video. Women pick up on this right away. I’m a short, mesomorphic build plus barrel chested… probably reached 90% of my muscular genetic potential. Unless I was wearing a tight t-shirt, nothing is going to be “bulging.” My chest can stand out a decent amount in a button-down shirt, but that’s just me winning the chest genetics jackpot. Quote:
I agree shirtless walks is showing off and a put off. But more often than not, women love muscles. It makes them feel feminine and gets them wet.
Your fantasies about wet whatever aside, call your parents and thank them for your amazing genetics if your muscles are like that of the guy in the video. However, its a rare thing these days. Men are becoming wimpier and more feminine, embracing a couching/video game lifestyle. This makes me stand out a lot in social circuits and I use to my advantage (bartenders, dancers, hostsesses and others in the service industry melt over muscles because they see so many slobs). Quote:
As a woman I can tell you that you are off on how you think we perceive a guy with a body like the guy put in the post. You know how you can look at a girl and tell that they have a nice body even though she's not in a bikini? We can do the same with guys. That guy on the video would be even sexier fully dressed with nice fitting clothes because I would be imagining him shirtless. Even if he came up to me and started talking to me and I didn't like what he had to say and nothing happened between us I would still kick myself every once in a while for letting him get away.
You’re missing the point completely. Even if you had a body like that, being able to show it off under normal circumstances is tricky if not almost impossible. Quote:
Ok this kinda post just makes me think you're in denial about the world or trolling.
This thread makes me wonder if people are still capable of basic critical thinking...
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| Author: | Charity_ [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 6:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Quote: You’re missing the point completely. Even if you had a body like that, being able to show it off under normal circumstances is tricky if not almost impossible. You are telling me that when I see a guy in a nice pair of slacks and a button up shirt and I think to myself that he has a really nice body I'm not really seeing that? You underestimate what we can tell. That guy has a nice body and I would be able to tell that he did in normal circumstances. It's easy to see so don't be naive to what a woman can and can't notice.
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 8:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Quote: You’re missing the point completely. Even if you had a body like that, being able to show it off under normal circumstances is tricky if not almost impossible.
What reality do you even live in?
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 8:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Couple of years ago I started working out and developed a really cool nice looking body. I went to this part island in Croatia for the summer, where there was a lot of drinking and partying going on. I thought now that I have the body, surely I will get girls easily. It turned out to not be the case. I was walking through the beach, showing off my masculinity to girls who, to say the least, didn't give a shit about my body. I realised that it was something else, it was the confidence and the charm that truly gets women. If you can be the kind of a guy who is so comfortable around them, approach them and engage them - your body doesn't matter. To give you an example, as I was on that party beach, women around everyone, guys showing off their buff bodies and stuff...I see a fat guy walking proudly, with 2 hot blondes under his arm. I first thought he was rich or something like that, but then my friend told me about him. He wasn't rich, handsome nor had a great body. But somehow he was able to be the guy women loved. Why? Not to go too deep, what I've noticed with most guys is most of them have outside confidence, which means they depend on their car, or their money, or their looks for their confidence. But some guys have inside confidence, meaning their confidence comes from something on the inside, and it's not attached to anything outside. So the fat guy was walking with a certain sense of freedom, he approached women and engaged them. Even if at first they weren't into him, he'd just have that approach that would bring down their barriers. So to conclude, all those things like body, money or cars CAN and will help you, but they are NOT the determining factor in whether or not you get the girl. The determining factor is your confidence - is it outside or inside? EDIT: Because the amount of negativity and scepticism from some of the guys here is incredible, I want to show you a video of a guy doing pick up as a fat guy. Enjoy. [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7PAYhmoKkA[/youtube] Hope this helps, |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 8:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Will having a body like this make getting girls easier? |
Quote: your body doesn't matter.
That's just not true.
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