I will always add, only text me if you're up for going out for drinks or something along those lines.

majority of the time they will text, i will do some "rapport" building, finding out where they work, with a bit of qualification. The responses are always hot and cold, regardless of topic.

And then...Why are you doing extra stuff when you've clearly told them to only text you if they are up for going out for drinks?

When i go for the number close i usually ask a girl to take my number, for one simple reason. This to me gives the girl a perfect opportunity to never have to speak to me again if she chooses not to. I will always add, only text me if you're up for going out for drinks or something along those lines.

I know a lot of people will moan and say you should be asking for her number, but the results a pretty similar, but marginally better when they text you

majority of the time they will text, i will do some "rapport" building, finding out where they work, with a bit of qualification. The responses are always hot and cold, regardless of topic. When it comes to the date, i try and get them on the phone or ask for the date, and puff The classic silence happens. Still don't get why its happening so much. And i get that girls live in the moment, but its all a bit too frequent.

I find it worse when they give a crappy excuse after, that makes no possible sense, id rather them hit me with the cold truth like you're boring as fuck you're ugly, or I've found someone hotter, whatever their feelings may be.