PUA Forum :: "I have to find my friends"

First you have to size it up and ask yourself if shes saying this because she lost interest and is trying to get away from you or if shes saying it because she has a legit need to find her friends (usually for a logistical reason).

If its the former its usually just best to let her go and then go find other women. If the latter you say "ok, lets go find them" and go with her.

How many times has this happened to you personally?

I notice a lot of guys come onto the forum asking questions about things they haven't encountered and may not encounter just for the hell of it. Or things that have only happened once during their first or second actual k close.

Also what was the goal of the k close? Were you just endlessly making out on the dance floor or did you actually have intention on things going somewhere?

Were you trying to extract her back to your place prior to her saying so? Seems like something a girl says when things begin drying up.

Yeah. I live 30 seconds from the club I go to, so I always mention how near I live while making out.

Author:	Curtis72 [ Tue Nov 08, 2016 1:25 am ]
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You've isolated the girl got a kiss close, she seems keen and is grinding and everything. But then she comes out with "I have to find my friends". How do you avoid/get around this?

Author:	Warped Mindless [ Tue Nov 08, 2016 4:35 pm ]
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First you have to size it up and ask yourself if shes saying this because she lost interest and is trying to get away from you or if shes saying it because she has a legit need to find her friends (usually for a logistical reason). If its the former its usually just best to let her go and then go find other women. If the latter you say "ok, lets go find them" and go with her.

Author:	Curtis72 [ Wed Nov 09, 2016 2:00 am ]
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Quote: First you have to size it up and ask yourself if shes saying this because she lost interest and is trying to get away from you or if shes saying it because she has a legit need to find her friends (usually for a logistical reason). If its the former its usually just best to let her go and then go find other women. If the latter you say "ok, lets go find them" and go with her. Groups of girls are generally less receptive to guys though and seem to dislike it more when their pals are getting with someone. Would you propose dancing with them or just let the girl do the talking?

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Wed Nov 09, 2016 9:12 pm ]
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How many times has this happened to you personally? I notice a lot of guys come onto the forum asking questions about things they haven't encountered and may not encounter just for the hell of it. Or things that have only happened once during their first or second actual k close. Also what was the goal of the k close? Were you just endlessly making out on the dance floor or did you actually have intention on things going somewhere? Were you trying to extract her back to your place prior to her saying so? Seems like something a girl says when things begin drying up.

Author:	Curtis72 [ Thu Nov 10, 2016 11:01 am ]
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Quote: How many times has this happened to you personally? Too many to count, to be honest. Since I started doing approaches this year, maybe 20-30 times. Quote: I notice a lot of guys come onto the forum asking questions about things they haven't encountered and may not encounter just for the hell of it. Or things that have only happened once during their first or second actual k close. I didn't really expect this to be a rare thing for guys to deal with. Quote: Also what was the goal of the k close? Were you just endlessly making out on the dance floor or did you actually have intention on things going somewhere? The intention is always a fuck Quote: Were you trying to extract her back to your place prior to her saying so? Seems like something a girl says when things begin drying up. Yeah. I live 30 seconds from the club I go to, so I always mention how near I live while making out.

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Author:	Eddie Fews [ Thu Nov 10, 2016 1:44 pm ]
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Quote: Yeah. I live 30 seconds from the club I go to, so I always mention how near I live while making out. Are you trying to extract them though? Saying " I live 30 seconds from here" and saying " Come on.. We're going to go to my place" while leading her by the hand out of the club are two different things. The first one sounds like you're looking for her to say " Ok. Lets go!" instead of you taking the bull by the horns and leading. The second is you pushing action, and getting it done.

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Thu Nov 10, 2016 4:44 pm ]
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You don't avoid it. You suggest it before she does. Pay attention to her body language... if she starts looking uncomfortable or seems to be searching around for someone, there's your cue to say "lets go find your friends." This way, YOU were the one who made the decision to move and not her. Meaning you don't look like a puppy dog little bitch following her back to her friends. You're the leader who made the decision for her. This also afford you to "accidentally run into your car" as you search, affording her the opportunity to come home with you should you choose to capitalize on her misfortune of "losing her friends."

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