you dont understand how snobbish people in LA are. you have no fucking clue doug.

Lol. Jack lives in LA. Can't wait to hear his story

for example, she will talk to the barista because she wants coffee. that's a business transaction. she will talk to the mailman because her dildo was lost in the mail and she is wondering where it is. that's a business transaction. she aint talking to you just to talk.

being a white guy and picking up in East LA doesn't count
Jack needs to come to beverly hills or west hollywood and lets see how long it will take for him to get crushed. I am thinking minutes.

Part of me doesn't even want to respond to this because I already have a sense of the OP, who he is and how he represents himself. However, my name was brought up.

Bart, last night I went to a spot in DTLA for happy hour with one of my friends. I met a really cute (white) girl who at first didn't take any interest in me and I could have easily walked away and called her stuck up and doesn't like my race. Instead, I decided to bring her wall down by telling her that she didn't seem like she was having fun and after that, she made an excuse for her attitude and let her wall down. She ended up inviting me to her place where she had a bunch of roommates, but we did end up making out and we've made plans to see each other again on Sunday.

Bart, if we know anything about you, it is the fact that you are socially inept. Even Doug knows that and he doesn't have a fucking clue. You say weird shit and cause women to put their guard up and not let them down. Then you blame them because you are lacking. You are going to continue to fail until you fix this and quit making excuses.

girls go to "spots" to be picked up. it is expected.
here, I am talking about places where it is not expected that strangers will talk. the yogurtland. the street. the coffee shop. the mall.

Daygame requires more social awareness, which you don't have. However, since you know that girls go to "spots" to be picked up, then why are you unnecessarily ranting and instead going to those "spots"? Even Doug figured that out and he doesn't have a fucking clue.

Bart, I will pray for you every night starting now.

I dont know who this Doug is you keep referring to.
ok, I concede that I dont go to spots because I feel incompetent to pick up even at the easiest places.

Doug is the guy that doesn't have a fucking clue and you're the one that brought him into the conversation.

Back to the point. You recognize that you feel too incompetent to pick up women at the easiest places but try at the harder locations. I know who you are Bart. You are the guy that wants to pretend to put in the effort but really doesn't do it because of the fear of failure so you lie to yourself to protect your ego. You blame everything else except the person at fault because you really don't want this enough to set your fragile feelings aside and really immerse yourself into pickup and quit operating on a surface level.

WTF lol....I thought "doug" is just an expression like "pal" or "mate" it's not a real person

you're right about everything in your second paragraph. so since I don't want this bad enough, i should just stop? just like someone who doesn't want to be a doctor bad enough should not go to medical school?