If you still like her ask her when she is free to meet up, if your dating a nicer girl just ignore her.

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Even though Moose was right, you shouldn't be taking his advice at all. He recently had a 15 page thread about an "ex" and took no advice.

She's just testing the water. Do you still have her on Facebook? I'm curious because it's likely that in the last/next few weeks you'll notice something very similar to:

1. She likes something you share
2. She comments on something you share, maybe responding to somebody elses comment
3. She likes a picture you're tagged in
4. She comments on a picture of you
5. She messages you

..get the idea? She's basically doing the real life equivalent of this anyway lol. I'd ignore it, in all honesty.

Even though Moose was right, you shouldn't be taking his advice at all. He recently had a 15 page thread about an "ex" and took no advice.

I don't even think Moose is right on this. People break up for a reason. Even though something may happen that causes an ex to think about you, even miss you, and reaches out to you...that reason is still there despite that need for a momentary comfort or realization that a certain need that they have is not being fulfilled. Once the craving for that comfort or need has been appeased, their thinking becomes normalized again and whatever the original problem that led to the breakup will come into focus again. Can things work out? Maybe. But what is more likely easier...breaking up, which will be easier a second time or working through the issue?

I'm not saying that he's right on the whole trying to get her back thing... I'm just saying that if he was trying to get her back then I believe the best way to do so is to wait for her to reach out like she has and then set a date. I don't agree with the whole getting back together thing because people don't particularly change unless they're putting in insane work to do so... like the guys who last more than a month on this forum. But I'd say the likelihood of an ex girlfriend coming back after spending months on a dating forum is slim to none lol.

Again though, I just meant that it's the best way to go about building attraction, if that's what he was aiming for. You never know, he might wanna pork her.

Broke up in February, wasn't pretty, it was more her decision than mine but in the long run I have benefited from it the most. I haven't been in touch or heard from her since February, I basically completely cut her out of my life. I have improved A LOT and currently living the life of my dreams.

It was my birthday yesterday. She text me today:

"Hey, Hope you had a nice birthday and all is going well for you. Seem like your (it really irks me when people don't use your and you're correctly) getting on great in Riverview. Jenny"

She had no reason to text me as I was blatantly ignoring her since February. Two questions I have:
Is it her attempt at trying to reconnect?
Should I even text back?

I am very curious if there's more to that text but am also wondering if it's a smart decision to engage in it at all.

I actually had it typed but never went through with it. Decided it's best not to open that wound again.