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Author:  darrryll [ Thu Nov 03, 2016 11:38 pm ]
Post subject:  losing attraction
I went on a second date today with a girl, first date took us around 5 bars in town and this time we went for a small bite and some minigolf.

during the time in between she already invited me to meet up with her friends, so I figured I would be good tonight.

banter was ok, conversation was good, and she allowed any kino advances I made (hand on the back, hand on the knee, ... )
Untill the last half an hour (was out for 4 hours)...
I felt like she got bored and we ran out of things to say, she was no longer investing.

So in the end I felt like I had massive attraction before the date and it got lower towards the end. It feels like I should have swung for it, but I didnt :( The disintrest at the end also made sure a kiss didnt happen.

any tips on how to recover now, when to text/or wait a bit for her? when to schedule a third date and how to proceed there?
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Nov 03, 2016 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: losing attraction
Invite her over.
Author:  Nifty20 [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 3:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: losing attraction
probably paying too much interest on whether or not your advances are being allowed, just keep climbing the ladder until she stops you then move back down and try again.

to schedule a third date just first make sure its between you two and no friends. and tell her lets meet up for some coffee or like jack said invite her over or something. Maybe shoot a small text or two before setting it up so its not just blatant.
Author:  itchybrother [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 4:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: losing attraction
First date, 5 bars?? For 5 hours. Geez. You were being a tour guide, not a date. Get some variety in there.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 8:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: losing attraction
Five hours out is insane, lol. I have a one hour max date limit with new girls. 20-30 minutes in, if I'm interested, i invite them to my place. If they decline, I never talk to them again. Life is short.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Sat Nov 05, 2016 8:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: losing attraction
What you did there my friend is you didn't jump through the window when the opportunity arose. You mention
she was OK with kino advances, where is the kiss?

Women want a guy who is not afraid to ADVANCE things. You got to a certain level pretty quickly, and because
you stayed there and didn't move forward, she lost interest.

I'm not sure you can recover from this, but you can keep this in mind for next time - ADVANCE.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Nov 05, 2016 2:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: losing attraction
Quote:
What you did there my friend is you didn't jump through the window when the opportunity arose. You mention
she was OK with kino advances, where is the kiss?

Women want a guy who is not afraid to ADVANCE things. You got to a certain level pretty quickly, and because
you stayed there and didn't move forward, she lost interest.

I'm not sure you can recover from this, but you can keep this in mind for next time - ADVANCE.
+1 from me
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