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Author:  Jason. [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 3:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Advice on getting back in the game after a long relationship
hey guys, i just broke up a 2 year old relationship and feel like my life is not set up right to meet new girls anymore.
Any advice on what to do after a break up to make it a productive experience and getting back into the game?
Thanks!
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 4:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
What do you think your life needs to be in order to meet new girls?
Author:  DJ_Z [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 4:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
Unless you are facing a long term jail sentence, hospitalization or homelessness, you can make the choice right now to talk to the next ten women you find attractive.
Author:  Jason. [ Sat Oct 29, 2016 12:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
the thing is i stoped going out and the friends i have now dont like going out to clubs and stuff that much, i only go to bars, one in particular, and i dont find the girls in that place atractive.

I like high value, fit, beautiful women, and i dont meet them on a regular basis.

I also dont have anyone to go out doing day game. my friends are not aware of the game, not that im ashamed but i just didnt share it with them.

Should i start yoga, or something like this?

thanks!
Author:  Hunty [ Sat Oct 29, 2016 5:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
I was in a similar situation. I was engaged and ended up calling the wedding off. Its really weird but when you are in a relationship you don't give two shits about what girls think and flirting almost becomes easier. But when you break up right away it feels like you don't really know what to do.

The best way to get back into the game is by exposure. I started with improving myself, going back to the gym, getting some new clothes, then just going out and getting rejected. The first month I would get rejected by girls that were far below my league. After getting rejected and exposure to flirting as a single man again, I started to develop my flirting abilities again.
Author:  Jason. [ Sat Oct 29, 2016 1:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
What about your post breakup social circle? I feel like none of my friends are into going out, we are all about bars and home parties and in neither of those places do i find the women i like. Do i have to start developing a new social corcle? And how?
Author:  itchybrother [ Sat Oct 29, 2016 2:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
Just have to rebuild. It's black or white. Stay miserable or go rebuild. Rebuild while you're miserable...it won't be productive, but the ball is rolling at least.
Author:  Hunty [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 8:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
You should give those scenes another try. But you can always go out by yourself. I will pick up women anywhere I go. A mall, target, bar, airport, book store, uni. Just go where they go.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 9:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
Get your shit back together. Make yourself as desirable as possible. And don't waste any time.... start talking to new girls right away. No sitting around feeling sorry for yourself.
Author:  Clocks [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 10:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
Quote:
Get your shit back together. Make yourself as desirable as possible. And don't waste any time.... start talking to new girls right away. No sitting around feeling sorry for yourself.
Dude I actually thought that was Thor as your profile pic but from your video it seems like it's you lol
Author:  DJ_Z [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 10:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
OP

If you go to one bar more often than any other, and hot women aren't there, go to another bar. If you want to meet hot women, you have to find them. More importantly, you have to be willing and able to go out alone. Otherwise, you are entirely reliant on the whims of your friends to dictate your ability to meet women.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 10:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on getting back in the game after a long relation
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OP

Otherwise, you are entirely reliant on the whims of your friends to dictate your ability to meet women.

Which in itself is beta behavior.
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