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Author:  bartm [ Sat Oct 22, 2016 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  why do some girls like men that are taken
some girls get horny knowing that a guy is married or has a girlfriend and he is having an affair with her.
one latina told me straight up "i like men that are taken, i am not interested if you're single."

I am just trying to figure out the psychology behind this, why do some girls get horny knowing that they are fucking another woman's man? and what does this say about the girl? what type of girls do this? are they mostly crazy? should one avoid them like the plague?

and yes, I did try googling but all i found is articles written by women who didn't know what the hell they are talking about. i figured the folks here would have more practical answers.
Author:  Antharion [ Sat Oct 22, 2016 8:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: why do some girls like men that are taken
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some girls get horny knowing that a guy is married or has a girlfriend and he is having an affair with her.
one latina told me straight up "i like men that are taken, i am not interested if you're single."

I am just trying to figure out the psychology behind this, why do some girls get horny knowing that they are fucking another woman's man? and what does this say about the girl? what type of girls do this? are they mostly crazy? should one avoid them like the plague?

and yes, I did try googling but all i found is articles written by women who didn't know what the hell they are talking about. i figured the folks here would have more practical answers.
Bitches everywhere. That is the only explanation.
Author:  Herne [ Sat Oct 22, 2016 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: why do some girls like men that are taken
The cats are very competitive with each other and despite their smiles--secretly most women hate the sight of each other, so steal the man is a big thing for their egos
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Oct 22, 2016 9:55 pm ]
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Bart have you done anything to improve your situation since like last
Month ? Lol. Terrible
Author:  nr32 [ Sun Oct 23, 2016 4:34 pm ]
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Preselection
Author:  bartm [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 1:49 am ]
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The cats are very competitive with each other and despite their smiles--secretly most women hate the sight of each other, so steal the man is a big thing for their egos
oh shit, that explains so much. you know, i always thought women are fake around each other but i thought i am just being paranoid and interpreting the situation wrong.

"omg! your hair looks so nice." (actually thinking: "bitch, i hope she dies")

that explains so much man.
cock blockers: she doesn't want her best friend to meet a great guy.
social proof: "she is so lucky, look how much he is flirting with her, I wish I could have him"
social proof: "this guy is alone, therefore i dont want him either"
all the drama, all the jealousy.
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Bart have you done anything to improve your situation since like last
Month ? Lol. Terrible
how do you know that i have or haven't to be judging?
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Preselection
this is also true, but the first answer was more enlightening to me.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 2:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: why do some girls like men that are taken
because you usually have some weird story. This time it's bones and no meat.
Author:  bartm [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 2:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: why do some girls like men that are taken
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because you usually have some weird story. This time it's bones and no meat.
lol, you're kind of right.

you want weird? ok, I will give you weird. last night i was at a department store that sells clothes. I noticed this girl who was in one of the isles looking at something, shirt? pants? i dont remember.

I was in that state of mind where i am all in my head and nervous and i go over what i am going to say to her. so I decided "fuck it, I am just gonna say whatever comes to my mind at that moment"

I went up to her and said "do you shop here often?"
she said "why?" (at this point i could tell english is not her first language)
I said "because i like you" and I extended my hand to shake hers.
she said "sorry no" and continued looking at the clothes.
I said "why not?"
she said "I have a boyfriend" (this was the most ingeuine, unauthetic, fake i have a boyfriend i have ever heard. it was so forced.)
I said "your boyfriend is gay"
she said "you go fuck yourself"
i said "bye" and left
Author:  Curtis72 [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 3:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: why do some girls like men that are taken
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I said "your boyfriend is gay"
she said "you go fuck yourself"
i said "bye" and left
:lol:

Why does it matter if she has a boyfriend or not, there's no point trying after she's said that. The message is the same; not interested. You should have accepted it after that.

I think you should have delayed saying that you liked her (I personally wouldn't say that outright at all, I'd sooner give a compliment to state my intent, but whatever works for you I guess). It seems a lot like you took her by surprise which is why she might not have been very receptive towards you.
Author:  bartm [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 3:12 am ]
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I said "your boyfriend is gay"
she said "you go fuck yourself"
i said "bye" and left
:lol:

Why does it matter if she has a boyfriend or not, there's no point trying after she's said that. The message is the same; not interested. You should have accepted it after that.

I think you should have delayed saying that you liked her (I personally wouldn't say that outright at all, I'd sooner give a compliment to state my intent, but whatever works for you I guess). It seems a lot like you took her by surprise which is why she might not have been very receptive towards you.
thanks, you're right about your suggestions. I thought the exact same things afterwards.
there is no doubt that this approach was done all wrong.
Author:  Curtis72 [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 7:25 am ]
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thanks, you're right about your suggestions. I thought the exact same things afterwards.
there is no doubt that this approach was done all wrong.
At least you DID approach and learned from it which is the main thing.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 1:34 pm ]
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thanks, you're right about your suggestions. I thought the exact same things afterwards.
there is no doubt that this approach was done all wrong.
At least you DID approach and learned from it which is the main thing.
Lol you haven't been around long enough to know Bart but you'll learn something too ;)
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: why do some girls like men that are taken
Have you had a woman yet Bart? Just checking.
Do you still want one?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 8:28 pm ]
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This isn't limited to women.

And this is an age old question that has been answered on this forum a countless amount of times.

Not only do we all want what we can't have/not suppose to have, but we all want whats seemingly desired by others. If you walked into a restaurant and everyone in the restaurant was ordering the same exact dish; you would become curious as to whats so special about that dish.

If you walked down the street and saw a line a mile up the street to eat at one restaurant, but the restaurant next door was completely empty and available; which restaurant would you be more curious about eating at? With a little critical thinking we can answer a lot of our own questions. But the laziness of bart resurfaces again.
Author:  Curtis72 [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 11:17 pm ]
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This isn't limited to women.
To an extent, I'd say it is. Women generally seem to follow pre-selection which is why the guy who'd been with all the girls they know is the most attractive. On the other hand, us guys tend to reject the "village bike" as a long-term possibility.
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