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I have approached manny girls with manny of them not knowing what to say. Still I feel I got improved because they are looking at me differently now.

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I have approached manny girls with manny of them not knowing what to say. Still I feel I got improved because they are looking at me differently now.

The fact that you've gotten rid of your approach anxiety is huge. That's the Achilles heel for many guys. At this point you're going to have to just learn to have a fun and flirty conversation with a girl. I'm not sure what you're looking for from women as a goal, but I'd personally ask her a little bit about herself so you can get an idea of what she's about. Based on what she says you can start to drive the conversation from one topic to another. Carry the conversation into directions that you find interesting and you also think she will find interesting.

it lines up to pretty much what the quality posters would advise.

but I'd personally ask her a little bit about herself so you can get an idea of what she's about. Based on what she says you can start to drive the conversation from one topic to another. Carry the conversation into directions that you find interesting and you also think she will find interesting.

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it lines up to pretty much what the quality posters would advise.

You're implying that there's one or very few ways to tackle some of these issues that are presented by posters here. Of course, that's total bullshit that you're making up. There isn't one right prescription to resolve each issue.

just gave you a compliment and you want to make an argument out of that. And no, I never implied anything when it comes to the different types of ways to do things. I just said that was the best advice you've given so far and it goes with the majority of the guys that know what they're doing on this forum. If you want to assume what anyone here is implying, explain your implications...don't explain mine because each time you do you tend to get it wrong.

A small example of how to do this from a daytime pick up I recorded of myself meeting a girl in a shop yesterday... (The blanks are where I've cut out any information that could be considered personal, such as where we're both from).

https://clyp.it/pqdrq5un

Notice how I start to make assumptions about what she does based on the information she gives me, then when she tells me she likes fashion, I said "what do you think" as I took a step back so she could observe my outfit.

The key in opening is simply to get her attracted, there are many different ways to do this and different things she could be attracted to you for, but being able to move into an interaction from nothing so that you can attract her and be comfortable with it is a great skill to have.

I'm not opening that mystery link, but your written example is a good one.

Author:	Revoltec [ Sat Oct 22, 2016 4:57 pm ]
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Hello guys, I got introduced to the game last summer when I read the book "the game". I started reading stuff online and every time I found myself in a dead end with a girl, I searched for solutions by reading stuff online. I attended to collage and I have partied like 2 times a week for 2 months. I have also met up with some guys from this forum and did night game in Copenhagen. We approached in pubs and on the street. Also, in this time I attended to RSD Julien's free tour and watched all his videos in "ten game" in one week. Now, after all of this I'm feeling that I'm stuck. I don't know what to do. I have approached manny girls with manny of them not knowing what to say. Still I feel I got improved because they are looking at me differently now. I want you to tell me what would be my next path, the approach anxiety is almost gone and I feel like there's some content out there, that I need to read to know a "path" I should be doing. How to take things from point A to B. Or am I wrong?

Author:	Finished [ Sun Oct 23, 2016 9:19 am ]
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First of all stop following RSD, most guys who follow RSD end up in this regurgitated cycle of mental masturbation and never actually get any tangible results. I would first start by setting some clear goals for yourself. For example - what do you want to achieve over the next 6 months with pick up? do you want to learn how to pick up girls in the daytime and have success with that? do you want to pull girls from clubs, or both? How many girls do you think you could of slept with over this time period? Then think about what is going to hold you back from getting these results... make a list one by one, then go out and fucking smash the things that you think are going to hold you back. Example - Being scared to approach in the daytime... go out on a weekend one day and tackle this fear. Another example - you get stuck after a few minutes of speaking to a girl and they usually tell you they have to leave now... come back onto the forum or ask somebody else you know who is good with girls how you can improve on this, and make the necessary changes.

Author:	kidfromcro [ Sun Oct 23, 2016 9:53 am ]
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don't overthink the theory,that's what gets you stuck,relax and have fun when going out,think later,not during,introduce yourself and keep talking,fuck canned openers

Author:	AlexanderTG [ Sun Oct 23, 2016 9:23 pm ]
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I literally watch RSD for the laughs!

Author:	Autoregressive [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 5:23 am ]
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Quote: I have approached manny girls with manny of them not knowing what to say. Still I feel I got improved because they are looking at me differently now. The fact that you've gotten rid of your approach anxiety is huge. That's the Achilles heel for many guys. At this point you're going to have to just learn to have a fun and flirty conversation with a girl. I'm not sure what you're looking for from women as a goal, but I'd personally ask her a little bit about herself so you can get an idea of what she's about. Based on what she says you can start to drive the conversation from one topic to another. Carry the conversation into directions that you find interesting and you also think she will find interesting.

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Author:	JackZero [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 5:36 am ]
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Quote: Quote: I have approached manny girls with manny of them not knowing what to say. Still I feel I got improved because they are looking at me differently now. The fact that you've gotten rid of your approach anxiety is huge. That's the Achilles heel for many guys. At this point you're going to have to just learn to have a fun and flirty conversation with a girl. I'm not sure what you're looking for from women as a goal, but I'd personally ask her a little bit about herself so you can get an idea of what she's about. Based on what she says you can start to drive the conversation from one topic to another. Carry the conversation into directions that you find interesting and you also think she will find interesting. I usually say auto gives shit advice but this is the best he has ever given and it lines up to pretty much what the quality posters would advise. But yeah...stay away from RSD. You'll get some quality out of them but you have to wade through too much shit to find a gold nugget.

Author:	Finished [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 5:54 am ]
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Quote: but I'd personally ask her a little bit about herself so you can get an idea of what she's about. Based on what she says you can start to drive the conversation from one topic to another. Carry the conversation into directions that you find interesting and you also think she will find interesting. A small example of how to do this from a daytime pick up I recorded of myself meeting a girl in a shop yesterday... (The blanks are where I've cut out any information that could be considered personal, such as where we're both from). https://clyp.it/pqdrq5un Notice how I start to make assumptions about what she does based on the information she gives me, then when she tells me she likes fashion, I said "what do you think" as I took a step back so she could observe my outfit. The key in opening is simply to get her attracted, there are many different ways to do this and different things she could be attracted to you for, but being able to move into an interaction from nothing so that you can attract her and be comfortable with it is a great skill to have.

Author:	JackZero [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 6:04 am ]
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Quote: Quote: it lines up to pretty much what the quality posters would advise. You're implying that there's one or very few ways to tackle some of these issues that are presented by posters here. Of course, that's total bullshit that you're making up. There isn't one right prescription to resolve each issue. I just gave you a compliment and you want to make an argument out of that. And no, I never implied anything when it comes to the different types of ways to do things. I just said that was the best advice you've given so far and it goes with the majority of the guys that know what they're doing on this forum. If you want to assume what anyone here is implying, explain your implications...don't explain mine because each time you do you tend to get it wrong.

Author:	Autoregressive [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 6:12 am ]
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Quote: just gave you a compliment and you want to make an argument out of that. And no, I never implied anything when it comes to the different types of ways to do things. I just said that was the best advice you've given so far and it goes with the majority of the guys that know what they're doing on this forum. If you want to assume what anyone here is implying, explain your implications...don't explain mine because each time you do you tend to get it wrong. Oh yeah, I believe all of that!

Author:	Finished [ Mon Oct 24, 2016 6:20 am ]
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Quote: I'm not opening that mystery link, but your written example is a good one. Just get over the AA and do it man!

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