Generally speaking we end up in this situation due to as you said lack of sexual escalation, however do you not think there is the opportunity to re-build attraction at a later point having identified your own personal short comings?

Hey guys,

There seems to be quite a lot of similar stories of LJBF and the likes as I look through the forum and it got me to thinking, have any of you guys turned the tide and reversed these scenarios?

If so how? Certain techniques used?

Interested to hear any stories of how you guys did it as I know we've all at one time or another been given the usual lines!

Bren

There seems to be quite a lot of similar stories of LJBF and the likes as I look through the forum and it got me to thinking, have any of you guys turned the tide and reversed these scenarios?

If so how? Certain techniques used?

Interested to hear any stories of how you guys did it as I know we've all at one time or another been given the usual lines!

Bren

There is a way.

However, you had to have received oral sex, or fucked the girl. If you have not, it's absolutely pathetic, needy and sad puppy behavior. Stop contacting her forever, and game other women.

If you did have sex with her, proceed.

1. Pull back. For months.

2. Hit the gym.

3. Show up near her with another girl (re-sexualizes you).

4. Text her, "hey, up to anything fun these days?" a week later. If she responds, arrange a meet within 3-4 texts. Escalate at the meet up.

rinse, repeat.

There is a way.

However, you had to have received oral sex, or fucked the girl. If you have not, it's absolutely pathetic, needy and sad puppy behavior. Stop contacting her forever, and game other women.

If you did have sex with her, proceed.

1. Pull back. For months.

2. Hit the gym.

3. Show up near her with another girl (re-sexualizes you).

4. Text her, "hey, up to anything fun these days?" a week later. If she responds, arrange a meet within 3-4 texts. Escalate at the meet up.

rinse, repeat.

Doesn't have to be a with a girl you ever had anything with. If the next time she meets you you're different it's chill. If the next time she sees you you're not different around her... then it makes no difference.

hile physical change is necessary, inner change is just as necessary (or even more so so you don't repeat past mistakes). When they can sense a change in you... it's often not just physical... this intrigue them as you being different... feeling like a different person. Yes physicality helps with that, but so does mindset, innergame, self-confidence. Hell you can even simply have a different wardrobe from a physicality stand point, this may make her think you have a different job or different world going on now.

OP..... Everyone's advice here is a bit wrong, simply because this situation is not the LJGF situation youve made it sound like. You dated a chick for a couple mths, had some issues with trying to fuck, she kissed a guy, you blew up and she ended things. Its not really a LJBF, its a dump. So hitting the gym and being near her isnt going to really work as its not a social circle thing. Maybe she sees you out one night which is highly unlikely. As Eddie said, she probably just moved to the new dude. All you can do is re initiate down the line over text and move on to other women. There was some very good advice, but this isnt a friendzoned situation, its a dump, and you refusing to move on.

Yes, it does make a difference, and no voodoo or "magic texting" will fix it.

Do you know how to tell when a woman really likes you? She gets on her knees and unzips your pants.

Unless that has happened, she's simply not that excited by you. Reality can suck sometimes. So go out and find a woman who is excited enough by you to unzip your pants, not friend-zone you. If you haven't even had oral sex and then you get friend-zoned, you FAILED. And if you continue to go after a woman who you didn't have sex with who friend-zoned you, you look clueless and perhaps creepy.





Who cares what she thinks though? We're talking about a woman who wasn't all that into you...to the point where she refused even a hand job then friend-zoned you.

That's an EPIC FAIL. Have some respect for yourself and game women who are excited by you. Guys who pursue this avenue look dopey as hell. There are a ton of attractive women out there, and they like to have sex on the first date. Find them instead of wasting time on this bullshit.

I absolutely stand by my point to completely move on if you get friend-zoned and there was no sex. The man has failed to lead, to act dominant, and to be congruent with his desires.

Think about how pathetic this is for a second: A woman, whom you never touched (and I don't mean, you, poeticlyskuac, just men in general), preemptively friend-zoned you because she never wants you to touch her.

LOL.