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| Author: | ecto666 [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 5:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Freeze out, am i doing it right? Advices? |
First of all, hello! I'm far from being and pua, i lived half of my life with depression, this condition made me a failure on social life. Thus i am trying to improve this part of my life, this is the story. I found and awesome girl, she is really nice and beautifull and we have much in common. Well, everything was going just fine, we had an meet schedule and she was giving a lot of clues showing that she was into me. Until last sunday she come to tell me that she meet another guy and kissed, and she sent pics of this "hot guy''. Well, of course i was mad with her, but i was cold and said "nice'', she then apologize and i told "why? we married and i did not know?'' Well, then i start to freeze out, she tried contact me 12 hours ago and i was cold, answered her but did not give a hook to continue texting. I am very new at this pua thing, then i know i'm making a lot of mistakes, anyway, what you toughts on this? I lost this girl? Thanks |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 5:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Freeze out, am i doing it right? Advices? |
Explain to me how you got upset that she was with another guy, but then told her " i didn't know we were married" after she apologized? Could you make sense of that for me? A freeze out isn't about deliberately applying a freeze just to get a desired result. Its about genuinely understanding why you should leave the girl alone. You can let her back into your life if you feel like she's earned that right by making whatever it is she did to deserve to be let go up to you or you can move on all the way. If you're freezing a girl out but you secretly don't mean it and really want to talk to her it will backfire when you do decide to return her messages, and things will quickly fizzle out. It's all self worth.. Are you still interested in a girl that sent you pictures of her and the guy she was making out with? If yes, why |
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| Author: | ecto666 [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 11:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Freeze out, am i doing it right? Advices? |
Quote: Explain to me how you got upset that she was with another guy, but then told her " i didn't know we were married" after she apologized? Could you make sense of that for me?
You're right my friend.A freeze out isn't about being deliberately applying a freeze just to get a desired result. Its about genuinely understanding why you should leave the girl alone. You can let her back into your life if you feel like she's earned that right by making whatever it is she did to deserve to be let go up to you or you can move on all the way. If you're freezing a girl out but you secretly don't mean it and really want to talk to her it will backfire. When you do decide to return her messages things will quickly fizzle out. It's all self worth.. Are you still interested in a girl that sent you pictures of her and the guy she was making out with? If yes, why I cant loose my time thinking about a girl that dont respect me. Thanks for the advice, i was enchanted by her beauty and thats all. |
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| Author: | Autoregressive [ Wed Oct 12, 2016 6:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Freeze out, am i doing it right? Advices? |
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You're right my friend.
You sound like you have the typical issue of being stuck on one very specific type of girl. Are you sure you know what you're looking for in a girl and what is available out there?
I cant loose my time thinking about a girl that dont respect me. Thanks for the advice, i was enchanted by her beauty and thats all. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Wed Oct 12, 2016 7:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Freeze out, am i doing it right? Advices? |
Keep in mind that if you're not exclusive she can do whatever she wants. Also keep in mind that sending you pics of a guy she did whatever she wants is quite frankly stupid. Unless that's the dynamic that was set between you two from the beginning. So yes, have some self respect. |
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| Author: | Ricardo999 [ Wed Oct 12, 2016 1:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Freeze out, am i doing it right? Advices? |
Quote: First of all, hello!
Considering she sent you pics of another guy that is reason alone for you to cease ALL contact with her FOREVER.
I'm far from being and pua, i lived half of my life with depression, this condition made me a failure on social life. Thus i am trying to improve this part of my life, this is the story. I found and awesome girl, she is really nice and beautifull and we have much in common. Well, everything was going just fine, we had an meet schedule and she was giving a lot of clues showing that she was into me. Until last sunday she come to tell me that she meet another guy and kissed, and she sent pics of this "hot guy''. Well, of course i was mad with her, but i was cold and said "nice'', she then apologize and i told "why? we married and i did not know?'' Well, then i start to freeze out, she tried contact me 12 hours ago and i was cold, answered her but did not give a hook to continue texting. I am very new at this pua thing, then i know i'm making a lot of mistakes, anyway, what you toughts on this? I lost this girl? Thanks |
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