PUA Forum :: What is wrong with me?

i am the only guy (from my group) that has never had a single date or a gf in his life.

Soooooo, i am good looking guy (at least thats what i hear from most people)

Thanks for the help guys... The thing is i dont know how a ''opening to close a girl (mostly friends) looks like, since i've never experienced i dont know if i can simply escalate in certain moments but i'll just FUCKING TRY and see what happens =D

2nd. It is up to you to present yourself in the light that you want to be seen in…FLIRT!

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i am the only guy (from my group) that has never had a single date or a gf in his life.

Have you ever asked a girl out on a date?

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i am the only guy (from my group) that has never had a single date or a gf in his life.

Have you ever asked a girl out on a date?

Dick

It's a legitimate question. Do you realize that most guys who are considered attractive usually wait for the girls to show interest in them first and the girls move on after they realize this chump isn't going to do anything?

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The OP gave his heart out through his post and awaits some sort of advise from a specialist forum. Do you know how hard it is to find the strenght to do this for most? And then to have a smart ass with 39498 post under his belt say fuck all but a passive aggressive question?

It's not my forum and i'm new here, but fuck me if you(R.C) find the time to post then post something of meaning and keep your one liners and tough guy attitude at home.

but leave out very important details.

And then to have a smart ass with 39498 post under his belt say fuck all but a passive aggressive question?

Author:	rafaasp [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 2:04 pm ]
Post subject:	What is wrong with me?
Soooooo, i am good looking guy (at least thats what i hear from most people), i do eventually get girls BUT ONLY ,AND PAY CLOSE ATTENTION, ONLY IN PARTIES. I am 17 years old and i have never EVER hooked up with a girl out of a party, and it really makes me sad bcause i tought it was cool in the beginning to be the guy that never loves/loved a girl, but when i started to change my mind and begin to want a more serious thing with a girl i REALISED i just can't. I am not social awkward i am very nice with people, like the type of guy that can make a friend in 5 minutes, people aways like me very much, but when it comes to make the girl see me like a potential date i get the impression that they dont... My friends can do IT SO EASILY every week they have someone different while i'm stuck ONLY MAKING FRIENDSHIPS WITH GIRLS. It's really hard to explain my situation, but i dont know what is wrong with me i am the only guy (from my group) that has never had a single date or a gf in his life. And the main problem is that if i were a shy/''ugly''/awkward i would understand why these things happen to me, but i SWEAR TO GOD i am not. And in the other hand i have this one friend that i can't even describe he is ugly but THE GUY GET SO MUCH ATTENTION FROM GIRLS THAT I DON'T UNDERSTAND i try to be like him and turns out i am very like him (in social skill) but when he talks to girls they instantly fall in love with him... Really want some advice in this matter i think from what i already read that i am ''THE TOO NICE GUY''. Why the hell almost everyone loves my presence and me in general but girls dont see me as a MAN. ps: Sorry for bad english, i am from brazil. ps: And most girls i get in parties are fkin drunk or pushed by pression to do it. It really makes me sad like i cant even describe how sad it is =(.

Author:	R.C [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 3:43 pm ]
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Quote: i am the only guy (from my group) that has never had a single date or a gf in his life. Have you ever asked a girl out on a date?

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 3:54 pm ]
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1st, stop thinking relationships. That come way later, and she'll will let you know when that point comes. 2nd. It is up to you to present yourself in the light that you want to be seen in… Sexual Guy, Fun guy, Nice guy, Bad ass, Wall flower. (Hint- Go with sexual fun guy, with a touch of bad ass.) My guess here is you aren't being 'BOLD' enough to girls so your intentions are not seen in the 'wrong light'. Screw society, stop being the little bitch that worries about what everyone else thinks, it's bullshit and a waste of time. Start communicating subtly that you’re intentions are to 'hook up'. FLIRT!

Author:	Sonny Lofthus [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 5:21 pm ]
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haha, i know this... i was partyman too. drunk seducer .. start to learning some good stuff from this website.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 5:29 pm ]
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Quote: Soooooo, i am good looking guy (at least thats what i hear from most people) Just a quick tip: If you believe them when they say you're good looking you'll believe them when they say you're ugly. Theres nothing wrong with accepting compliment, but ultimately you have to know who and what you are internally. That way you can take criticism the same way you can take praise. Nothings wrong with you bro. You're 17 and have yet to push yourself beyond your comfort zones. How many women have you tried to kiss in the last 2 years? Are you even trying? Are you escalating? Are you touching at all? You're not hooking up with women because you're not doing the things the guys that hook up with women do. The forum is full of advice to help you get there. Give this a read: pua-lounge/topic190620.html

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Author:	rafaasp [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 3:45 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: What is wrong with me?
Thanks for the help guys... The thing is i dont know how a ''opening to close a girl (mostly friends) looks like, since i've never experienced i dont know if i can simply escalate in certain moments but i'll just FUCKING TRY and see what happens =D

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 4:06 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: What is wrong with me?
Quote: Thanks for the help guys... The thing is i dont know how a ''opening to close a girl (mostly friends) looks like, since i've never experienced i dont know if i can simply escalate in certain moments but i'll just FUCKING TRY and see what happens =D http://www.slideshare.net/vhie130501/16 ... tionladder

Author:	New-Dawn [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 5:40 pm ]
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Quote: 2nd. It is up to you to present yourself in the light that you want to be seen in…FLIRT! I'm thinking that this is where the problem might be. Your friend, comes across as not just a friendly guy but a sexual one; while you might not. Simple things like looking in her eyes and imagining her naked can transform the vibe you give sooo much. An ugly guy can turn a girl on like that and you, as the better looking guy being all respectful can be left wandering WTF.

Author:	New-Dawn [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 5:42 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: i am the only guy (from my group) that has never had a single date or a gf in his life. Have you ever asked a girl out on a date? Dick

Author:	JackZero [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 5:48 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: i am the only guy (from my group) that has never had a single date or a gf in his life. Have you ever asked a girl out on a date? Dick It's a legitimate question. Do you realize that most guys who are considered attractive usually wait for the girls to show interest in them first and the girls move on after they realize this chump isn't going to do anything?

Author:	DJ_Z [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 6:10 pm ]
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You are seventeen years old. Fuckin breathe it'll be okay lol.

Author:	New-Dawn [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 6:35 pm ]
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Quote: It's a legitimate question. Do you realize that most guys who are considered attractive usually wait for the girls to show interest in them first and the girls move on after they realize this chump isn't going to do anything? The OP gave his heart out through his post and awaits some sort of advise from a specialist forum. Do you know how hard it is to find the strenght to do this for most? And then to have a smart ass with 39498 post under his belt say fuck all but a passive aggressive question? It's not my forum and i'm new here, but fuck me if you(R.C) find the time to post then post something of meaning and keep your one liners and tough guy attitude at home.

Author:	JackZero [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 6:47 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: What is wrong with me?
Quote: Quote: It's a legitimate question. Do you realize that most guys who are considered attractive usually wait for the girls to show interest in them first and the girls move on after they realize this chump isn't going to do anything? The OP gave his heart out through his post and awaits some sort of advise from a specialist forum. Do you know how hard it is to find the strenght to do this for most? And then to have a smart ass with 39498 post under his belt say fuck all but a passive aggressive question? It's not my forum and i'm new here, but fuck me if you(R.C) find the time to post then post something of meaning and keep your one liners and tough guy attitude at home. Yes...you're new here. After a while, you're going to start seeing that guys will tell long stories about what they're going through, but leave out very important details. Us guys that don't mind answering questions or giving insight are used to answering questions with some detail and later find out that a very important detail is left out. For instance, if the answer is "no", we're not going to be wasting our time pointing out things that the OP may have been doing wrong that is keeping him from getting dates with girls that have been turning him down. If the answer is "Yes", we can drill down to the actual problem from his approach to asking her out. Plus, the answer to the OP's question may trigger exactly where he's going wrong. Don't get caught up in your feelings when you are reading responses.

Author:	R.C [ Sun Oct 09, 2016 8:58 am ]
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Quote: And then to have a smart ass with 39498 post under his belt say fuck all but a passive aggressive question? You know, the way you perceive a post has more to do with the way you perceive the poster rather than the content itself. I think you have a little prejudice going on about me. Anyway, Jack explained it so I won't, but I will give you an example. There was a guy posting about how to get his ex back, and after about 4 thread pages he just casually mentioned their entire relationship spanned across 10 dates where he did not even have sex with her and he kissed her a grand total of one time. But he created a thread about how this girl was his ex regardless. I don't know why you'd think my question was in any way derogatory.

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