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Author:  Colorado710 [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 11:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
So I met this girl from my old school and we really got along. I was very beta in my actions so we remained friends but always knew she liked me. 2 months down the road she decided to start escorting. She's now been doing it for half a year but since we've gotten closer. I got her on a "day 2" actually just hanging out with her alone. I escalated when for The kiss as soon as I saw her. She gave me the cheek but I persisted we held hands and I made out with her. She offered to pay for the tab. She tells me she sees potential in me for something greater. Possible LTR? She doesn't have many people she can trust. What makes it hard is that I knew her before she started doing this and she's told me she has feelings for me. We click really well. I just don't know where to go from here. Any thoughts? I realize she most likely won't stop immediately but I really do like her and I feel confident enough to stick with her. Definitely a 10btw.
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 11:57 pm ]
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Huh? I mean, seriously, huh? You're basically asking us what to do next with a prostitute that sees a potential relationship with you. You're going to have to dig deeper on the question you're wanting us to answer because we don't know what you're willing to deal with.
Author:  AlexanderTG [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 12:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
Would she be no longer hooking if you dated?
I mean you could see that as a bad thing.. Or you could see it like every other chick that's been in most of our lives gave it away for free..
Author:  DJ_Z [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 1:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
Whether she is a 10 or a 5 really has no bearing on this. She is a hooker. You should probably game more girls and see what's going on in the rest of the world.
Author:  Colorado710 [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 1:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
Yea I try to see her perspective too. That's the next thing I guess, I'll have to talk with her about stopping. How would that go? Lol might as well just call it quits
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 2:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
Rule of thumb is to take everything a girl says with a grain of salt.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 7:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
*dies on the inside*
Author:  n2thevoid [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 8:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
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So I met this girl from my old school and we really got along. I was very beta in my actions so we remained friends but always knew she liked me. 2 months down the road she decided to start escorting. She's now been doing it for half a year but since we've gotten closer. I got her on a "day 2" actually just hanging out with her alone. I escalated when for The kiss as soon as I saw her. She gave me the cheek but I persisted we held hands and I made out with her. She offered to pay for the tab. She tells me she sees potential in me for something greater. Possible LTR? She doesn't have many people she can trust. What makes it hard is that I knew her before she started doing this and she's told me she has feelings for me. We click really well. I just don't know where to go from here. Any thoughts? I realize she most likely won't stop immediately but I really do like her and I feel confident enough to stick with her. Definitely a 10btw.
Let me give you a bit of advice, for you to heed.

One of my last relationships was with a girl who had an escort past. I found out about her history through someone else who had happened upon an 'old' add of hers online. I was not privy to this little tidbit of information until about half a year into the relationship, and after confronting her on it (to which she'd completely denied the ad as being hers) I had ended things only to foolishly allow her back into my life weeks later. I continued on with this person. I sacrificed some of my core values. I have since put them in the past, and have grown considerably from that experience.

It was, to put things mildly, a living hell I had chosen to endure.

It is sad, especially when it is someone you truly care about, but the reality is that women who escort always have a bit of a taint to them. They have a mentality of easy money and entitlement - they learn that there are suckers out there they can bilk to live the 'easy' life, but in reality their existence rings rather shallow.

When her and I reconnected, it was surreal - part of me knew her, yet part of me didn't. Even stepping foot back into her apartment felt alien to me in spite of me having been there hundreds of times prior to my discovery. You cannot change her. I could not change her, in spite of my mental health background, my training, my life experience. Remember where you are in life now is the sum result of all the choices you've made up to this point. Make better choices, live a better life. More often than not they're lone wolves and can't hold friends, especially female friends because others can often smell it on them like a cheap perfume. They will refuse to hold a 'normal' job, and at that point why would they as they can make several times the amount of money serving tables or at a bar. Their minds are wired for that quick fix. As the old saying goes "Can't turn a hoe into a housewife".

For a time I chose the former at the expense of the later. I still care about this person and have since moved on to something far healthier (even being alone would have been a healthier option). An escort is a prostitute. Many escorts and sugar babies will try to lend an air of respect to their profession in differentiating themselves from prostitutes on some trivialities (e.g., "I don't stand on street corners" "I don't have a pimp" or "I thought if I could find love then even a bonus").


These are women with damaged histories. Avoid them like the plague.
Author:  Colorado710 [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 4:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
I feel like I know what's gonna happen. I just like her a lot, we have that chemistry. It just suck cause I knew her before she started. I think I'm still going to give it a shot for references. These are probably the best experinces that in someway I feel make you icy. I could be wrong but why not? I feel secure enough that if it didn't work out I could pull any girl. Idk if that's cocky or grounded lol
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 5:09 pm ]
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Captin' Save A Hoe, You can't turn a hoe into a house wife - Became terms for a reason.

Don't let a flux of hormones being pumped into your system via intimacy with a women delude you into disregarding logic.

Are you choosing this women because you want her, or is she just the best you have available at the moment? On the flip side, does she really want you, or are you just one of the semi decent guys that would ever consider her for something beyond a FWB Relationship? How do you think her career path is going to influence her ability to function in a healthy happy relationship? Nothing is impossible, but when making a education decision you want to go with the one that has the highest probability for success. You can do better man. Just because you known someone before they became a serial murder doesn't mean you should trust them with your children after the fact. How would you feel if you had a daughter become an escort? Would you approve? Well if things get serious enough, this is the very influence that will be surrounding your potential daughter.

You're obviously posting this here for a reason. You just want someone to tell you that "its ok" so you can feel comfortable moving forward. No one can tell you what to do, but lets be serious...What exactly can this woman provide for you that an attractive, mentally stable woman that is not an escort can not?
Author:  Colorado710 [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 5:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
You make good points.
Author:  Sonny Lofthus [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 5:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
prostitutes are very manipulative. beware of her.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 2:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
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I feel like I know what's gonna happen. I just like her a lot, we have that chemistry. It just suck cause I knew her before she started. I think I'm still going to give it a shot for references. These are probably the best experinces that in someway I feel make you icy. I could be wrong but why not? I feel secure enough that if it didn't work out I could pull any girl. Idk if that's cocky or grounded lol

You're wrong. Specifically, you are wrong to engage in mental gymnastics to justify making a decision that is just plain bad. You're not that smart, you will get burned, and the costs will far outweigh any benefits. You can have chemistry with ten other girls by this day next week if you actually go out and try.
Author:  Autoregressive [ Fri Oct 07, 2016 7:02 am ]
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Rule of thumb is to take everything a girl says with a grain of salt.
You could say that about guys, too.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Oct 12, 2016 8:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I was friends with turned to a trick
She's a prostitute. Not a good girl. If you want a relationship with a good girl, then go find a good girl who likes you. Don't get into the relationship with a prostitute try to turn the prostitute into the good girl.

Don't be the guy stupid enough to think you've got the power to turn a hoe into a housewife.
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