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| Author: | Aitch1 [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 4:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | where to look during lull? |
when I instant date some girls that don't talk much, there can be this awkward 10 second silent gap where I am thinking what to say next. should I look her in the eye in these gaps, or look away? |
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| Author: | The_Professor [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 4:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: where to look during lull? |
Quote: when I instant date some girls that don't talk much, there can be this awkward 10 second silent gap where I am thinking what to say next. should I look her in the eye in these gaps, or look away?
Look in her eyes. Build sexual tension. The more you saw the greater the chance of you saying the wrong thing. Ideally she should do most of the talking. Be comfortable with silence, and not having the need to talk. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 7:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: where to look during lull? |
Look in her eyes, sure, make it even more awkward. You guys need to learn how to listen. The reason you run out of things to say is because you're not trying to make conversation, you're just trying to figure out what to ask next. Listen to what she responds with, and deviate from there. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 1:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: where to look during lull? |
The objective is to not be considering small minute details such as this. Being overly concerned with where and how you place your eyes helps the energy you give off come across far less attractive than just being chill and relaxed. Conversation is all about being present in the moment and letting two streams of consciousness just flow. How successful have you instant dates been? Awkward 10 second moment only aside. |
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