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| Author: | Jetisfly [ Tue Oct 04, 2016 7:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help with complicated situation |
So I was sitting in my Class and it's in a auditorium. It's a flawless girl she purposely weaved her way through to seat next me when there were many empty seats open. End of class she starts asking me questions about the class and etc. Then she was like "you should give me your number" I did then she sent a text saying hey this is (her name). I didn't reply then 5 mins later she sent another text trying to start a conversation. We talked about meeting up on wenesday and working together on homework and stuff. I tried to end the convo and she was like "we should do HW together " I was like yes sure. But then she asked "how old are you" I replied "I'm 18 what about you?" And then she hasn't replied since yesterday. It was exciting and stuff a girl actually approached it was too good to be true. Just confused why she went cold? Should I approach her in class? Or text her again asking her if she does want to meet up? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Oct 04, 2016 8:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
In person is always going to be the best way to handle any situation. It allows for you to read the situation accurately. |
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| Author: | Jetisfly [ Tue Oct 04, 2016 9:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
Ok thank you for the hell but still super confused |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Oct 04, 2016 9:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
Quote: Ok thank you for the hell but still super confused
Not responding doesn't mean gone cold. You're fine...you'll see her again.
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| Author: | Jetisfly [ Tue Oct 04, 2016 10:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
Two scenarios: she either acts normal sits next to me again and I ask her if she is still down to meet up? Or she doesn't sit next to me I approach her and ask her? If she says yes I will eventually bring up the fact she never told me how old she was. If she tries to tell me I'm too young how do I approach this? |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Tue Oct 04, 2016 10:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
Quote: Ok thank you for the hell but still super confused
Lol maybe she's just weird? Just get used to it man. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Oct 04, 2016 10:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
It's not about her acting normal...it's you acting normal. You see her in class, ask her when she wants to meet and do homework. |
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| Author: | mojo.dojo [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 1:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
Quote: It's not about her acting normal...it's you acting normal
Amen to that.
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| Author: | Jetisfly [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 10:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
Will def let you guys know thanks for the help. A girl picked me up and I went blank lol |
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| Author: | Sonny Lofthus [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 10:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
she likes you, maybe you are sympatic and she wants just a friend in class, just avoid friendzone behavior when you want more from her. |
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| Author: | Jetisfly [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 11:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
I guess I'll find out in a hour. I just think she thought I was older. People always guess I'm like 22 or something. But I told her I was a freshman while we talked. Before we started texting. But it's college you could be sitting next to someone who is 32 and you wouldn't know. So not sure. And I thought it was weird because a girl has never approached me. And she isn't just a girl. She is a perfect 10. She is majoring in the same thing. She offered to help with stuff and it was just chill. I didn't even want more would have been happy with a friendship. It's just conflicting before me telling her my age she was all in from what I can tell. But worst case if she didn't like me being young she could have been friends with me not just leave me ignored. Maybe she is one of those "hard to get" girls she did it on purpose to see if I would try again or not idk. Just good to hear other people's opinions. I have tried to do the whole PUA thing but never have enough balls. Like when she sat next to me I was just like wow she is flawless. But never expected her to do that. I was so fuckinf nervous lol like voice was shaking but I rebounded. |
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| Author: | Jetisfly [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 11:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
I also thought it might have just been her trying to use for the class. But while we talked after class she said how we don't get any homework in the class. So then why would she offer to do homework together.. But then if she was interested why would she ignore me fuck it girls are just comfusing as hell |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 12:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
If the girl became not interested due to your age it's because you acted like a little boy. Expect her not to wonder why isn't this grown ass man not moving on my advances? |
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| Author: | Jetisfly [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 12:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
Ok so update guys!! She just texted me "hey I'm going to be late to class can you save me seat?" She stil ignored my text from earlier but she just texted me before class I'm even more co fused now lol |
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| Author: | R.C [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 1:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with complicated situation |
Fucks sake ask her to grab a coffee after class. Stop trying to escalate things via text when you can so easily do it in person. You see this girl regularly. |
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