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| Author: | sonOfSatan [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 5:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | kindness and empathy vs bad boy |
I was about to change my paradigm and becoming a total bad boy, but something weird happened: I am currently organizing a surprise bday party for a really good friend of mine (shes a girl), and i spoke to a lot of her friends, and i always showed a kind atitude and non judjamental posture towards them. Now it came to my ears that 2 of her girl friends have a crush on me.. So i dont have to be a bad boy after all, and tbh my kindness was a sort of mask, cuz i act kind to them but in reality i dont really give a shit about them... So: If i am a bad boy i might get some girls, i suppose, but if i am kind , use kino and be assertive (i have become a lot more assertive lately) i thinjk has more effect than being bad boy. pls discuss |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 5:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kindness and empathy vs bad boy |
Being a nice guy isn't an unattractive thing. Most guys want to be a bad boy because they see them getting girls while the nice guy isn't. The reason that nice guys have a hard time is because they tend to be pushovers and hide sexual attraction. It's possible to be a nice guy without displaying those unattractive qualities. |
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| Author: | sonOfSatan [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 6:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kindness and empathy vs bad boy |
Quote: Being a nice guy isn't an unattractive thing. Most guys want to be a bad boy because they see them getting girls while the nice guy isn't. The reason that nice guys have a hard time is because they tend to be pushovers and hide sexual attraction. It's possible to be a nice guy without displaying those unattractive qualities.
Maybe the trick has to do with being kind but at the same time knowing to say "hell no" to a girl and being able to lead them instead of kneeling before them. what u guys think?
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 6:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kindness and empathy vs bad boy |
Quote: Quote: Being a nice guy isn't an unattractive thing. Most guys want to be a bad boy because they see them getting girls while the nice guy isn't. The reason that nice guys have a hard time is because they tend to be pushovers and hide sexual attraction. It's possible to be a nice guy without displaying those unattractive qualities.
Maybe the trick has to do with being kind but at the same time knowing to say "hell no" to a girl and being able to lead them instead of kneeling before them. what u guys think? |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 9:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kindness and empathy vs bad boy |
Quote: Quote: Being a nice guy isn't an unattractive thing. Most guys want to be a bad boy because they see them getting girls while the nice guy isn't. The reason that nice guys have a hard time is because they tend to be pushovers and hide sexual attraction. It's possible to be a nice guy without displaying those unattractive qualities.
Maybe the trick has to do with being kind but at the same time knowing to say "hell no" to a girl and being able to lead them instead of kneeling before them. what u guys think?Like Jack, says, "there's no maybe to it". I once had a girl tell me after sex that "she loved how I didn't bow down to her". It matters. A lot. you can still be a fun, chill guy and not kiss ass. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Oct 03, 2016 8:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kindness and empathy vs bad boy |
Don't be a nice guy, be a good guy. Quote:
Maybe the trick has to do with being kind but at the same time knowing to say "hell no" to a girl and being able to lead them instead of kneeling before them. what u guys think?
This pretty much sums it up.
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Oct 03, 2016 6:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kindness and empathy vs bad boy |
Quote: Don't be a nice guy, be a good guy.
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Maybe the trick has to do with being kind but at the same time knowing to say "hell no" to a girl and being able to lead them instead of kneeling before them. what u guys think?
This pretty much sums it up.Yeah, girls and white knights will label you a bad boy regardless because you're able to say no to women. Girls probably think you're a bad boy with a good heart which is what i get all the time. I love it when girls come to me with like "shouldn't you treat women like XYZ" and then I go on and give a good ol "bad boy" tongue lashing. |
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