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Author:  smarterthanone [ Sat Oct 01, 2016 11:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
I am 99% sure women want to date me and marry me but do not consider me acceptable to hook up with. It really aggravates me.

Do you guys actually fuck decent enough girls the same day you meet them? I almost don't believe it even happens!

I really go out of my way to not appear to be marriage material now, almost ridiculously so but it doesn't help.

I am probably like a 9 looks. Net worth 1 mil, 28 years old. Borderline genius IQ (not with women though), dominant guy, No kids.

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EXAMPLES if you think I am coming to the wrong conclusion. (feel free to skip unless you want to analyze my reasoning)

- College girl I met off Tinder for netflix and chill and told her I will absolutely not get in a relationship for a long time, like years! I just want to fuck! And still she tells me she is a huge slut and wants to fuck but goes home. Then she texts me and promises all the freaky sex I want next time! So obviously I do that, but then she starts asking me what it would take to be my girlfriend!

- Amateur Pornstar Ive known for a long time and fucked once a long time ago, we go out and she tells me she doesn't do it anymore. She tells me no fucking on the first "date" (old friends meeting for a drink?), she wants a second one bad, then a third and then we fuck. Only problem is I found out she is still working as a pornstar... why is she putting me through the relationship SPAM? I already fucked her and we know each other, what Bullshit!

- I start talking to a girl at a bar. She is like shaking nervous talking to me and is super into me. She makes it super obvious she will not hook up but asks me for my phone number. Now she is texting me wanting to go out and told me all about the sexual things she wants to do with me. UGH why not hook up with me though?
Author:  groovy_boy [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 7:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
Good looking, intelligent, successful, well off financially. Why wouldn't any woman want to date you seriously? They see you as a catch and they try not to be perceived as sluts / easy so that that they get you for the long run. I don't see any problem of not getting laid, it is just that they delay the lay because they see you as a provider. I feel that you are being impatient in general and you just want the immediate lay from all women that you meet. This might be possible only at limited times or when you have a really tight game. Are you sexual with them early on?

I would say be more patient. It is good to define your intentions from the beginning that for the time being and for the foreseeable future you are focused after your self, your plans, business etc and not looking into getting into any relationship / need to be single to achieve your goals. You said you already do that? I believe you should be able to sleep with multiple girls but might take few dates. Then you can keep them as fuck buddies / open relationships but it won't work with everyone. Most will want exclusivity.
Author:  groovy_boy [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 7:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
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- I start talking to a girl at a bar. She is like shaking nervous talking to me and is super into me. She makes it super obvious she will not hook up but asks me for my phone number. Now she is texting me wanting to go out and told me all about the sexual things she wants to do with me. UGH why not hook up with me though?
You are being extremely impatient. A girl really likes you and she wants to prolong the interaction with you. She wants to see you again and doesn't want it to happen so fast and end quickly. You need to give the vibe of reassurance, giving her the feeling she can trust you before she does anything. Women who are horny might fuck a guy they somewhat like at the same night and leave it there. But one they really like might put some resistance at first for the reason I said in the previous post. Personally I prefer to be patient and have the options to have multiple lays with the same girl (and others if possible in the same period) than to just go for a one night thing.

If you are not interested for this, you might try to tell to someone who looks already into you that you have a limited time and that you would be unavailable/ out of town for the next 2 months due to business and see if the same night lay works.
Author:  smarterthanone [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 9:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
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If you are not interested for this, you might try to tell to someone who looks already into you that you have a limited time and that you would be unavailable/ out of town for the next 2 months due to business and see if the same night lay works.
I actually have not tried this. I will give it a go. Thanks for the suggestion.
Author:  JackZero [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 3:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
There's something missing here. My guess is that you take the "no sex" thing literally and not escalate. But that's just a guess.

And what the hell is an amateur porn star? She does porn for free?
Author:  bartm [ Sun Oct 02, 2016 3:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
my understanding is that you dont plan sex. like "first date we dont touch, second date we only kiss, third date we have sex"
it happens naturally
attraction is not a choice

and how the fuck are you worth one million at 28? did mommy and daddy give you that or you earned it yourself?
Author:  nr32 [ Mon Oct 03, 2016 4:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
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and how the fuck are you worth one million at 28? did mommy and daddy give you that or you earned it yourself?
I'm worth 100k and I'm 20. If you're into business you'll find that money isn't a zero-sum game, like pussy.
Author:  smarterthanone [ Mon Oct 03, 2016 9:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
Amateur porn star is a girl who shoots for sites like bang bros and she has her own website she runs herself.

To keep it vague I changed the names but heres the idea. I came up with an algorithm for lets say Twitter that improves their trending results and I sold it to them. Except the company is not Twitter and thats not exactly it but some other well known big company like them and something like that. I then invested all the money and my investments are killing it.

But what should I do to escalate in these situations? Maybe im not doing that. Im not sure exactly what you mean.
Author:  masterm1ne [ Mon Oct 03, 2016 2:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
The feedback your getting from the girls says you need to spend more time with them. Why are you in such a rush? You need to have sex that night? Some girls I've had sex with it took MONTHS to get there... Not every girl you meet is going to go jump into bed immediately. Not like you can't wait for one to come around while you go out and talk to others.

If I gave up as easy as you my dick would be 2x drier.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Mon Oct 03, 2016 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
Dude if they fuck you, who cares if they would rather date you? It doesn't force you into a relationship. You can't get agitated as soon as things don't go exactly as you want.
Author:  smarterthanone [ Mon Oct 03, 2016 5:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
I have a bit of a hang up. Like if she makes me work a week to get it, and then I find out she hooked up with some random guy one night stand before, I just feel like I wasn't good enough to make her want me that bad and it makes me not want to be in a relationship with her. Now am I looking for a relationship at the moment?, no, but I would like to feel like I am good enough and try to get over this hang up I have. I know its something inside me that is making me feel this way, its not the girls fault or anything, but I just want to make a girl not be able to control herself and see me as just raw sex at least like once or twice in my life.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Oct 03, 2016 6:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
You're not being sexual enough and you aren't being dominant enough. You can say XYZ but if you don't follow through then you're nothing but a barking dog with no bite.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Oct 04, 2016 1:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
Sounds to me like they see that they can benefit from you a great deal more if they hold out in attempt to extract resources.

Its the vibe you're putting out. If they know that they can turn you down for sex but still keep your interest and keep you wanting to see them why are they going to put out and risk their chances of obtaining more than just helping you get laid from the interaction? Whats in it for them? Now if they felt like sex was the only way to secure your interest you would be dealing with a completely different dynamic.

I wrote an article called "Men vs. Women What Do We Want? " that will give you further clarity on this issue.
Author:  smarterthanone [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 6:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
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You're not being sexual enough and you aren't being dominant enough. You can say XYZ but if you don't follow through then you're nothing but a barking dog with no bite.
^^^This was it. I totally changed my game up to be more dominant and sexual and I fucked a girl the first day! And closed 4 out of 4 since OP just tweaking myself a bit. Thanks!

I figured if they want me so bad I make sure they realize im only interested in sluts. That was the key!!!!!
Author:  cunning_stunt [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 9:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls want to marry me, not fuck me, I am sick of it!
You have to remember that guys and girls see sex differently.
Us guys, we just need to see something and we want to fuck. Girls, its an emotion for them. Telling a girl you want to fuck her and her having to agree isnt going to work. By getting a girl turned on and being dominant (as already advised) is they key. Dont plan the fuck. Plan the escalation = which leads to the fuck.
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