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Author:  Vanballmoos [ Thu Sep 22, 2016 4:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Conflicted. Should I try to rekindle or is it pointless?
I was dating this girl and we had a stupid falling out and she kind of ended things. She apologized about a week later but then went silent on me for 4 days after I told everything was cool. After that we hadn't talked in weeks. She was on snapchat and she was in this BMW and said, "When he finally lets you drive his M4". The next day she reaches out me and said she left something by my front door. I wasn't home and I said thanks and that my brother had just told me. I told her I was in Short Pump (the area she lives in) and she just said "ok cool". I got back home and she left a card for me. She said she was hoping I was doing well and she heard I was moving so she got me a housewarming gift. It was my favorite movie and this TMNT place mat (gag gift). This was over a week ago and she hasn't said anything else.

I'll admit I still look at her snapchat fairly regularly I guess (at least one a week) but she never looks at mine.

I can't help but wonder about that snap with her saying, "When he finally lets you drive his M4" the day before dropping of the card and housewarming gift. I don't know...I just don't think/know if she's interested in me that way anymore...

1. Should I factor the snap into my choice of saying something to her or not
2. Is it weird that I still look at her snaps?
3. Is there a point in saying anything else besides the thank you I said before seeing the bag?
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Sep 22, 2016 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conflicted. Should I try to rekindle or is it pointless?
The important thing is what do you want and not be afraid to go after it. If you want to go for this girl, personally I wouldn't, the best thing you can do is go after her. If she doesn't fall in line with what you want, you can move on and know that you did what you needed to do.
Author:  Vanballmoos [ Thu Sep 22, 2016 5:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conflicted. Should I try to rekindle or is it pointless?
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The important thing is what do you want and not be afraid to go after it. If you want to go for this girl, personally I wouldn't, the best thing you can do is go after her. If she doesn't fall in line with what you want, you can move on and know that you did what you needed to do.
Thanks. Why wouldn't you go after her?
Author:  Vanballmoos [ Thu Sep 22, 2016 5:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conflicted. Should I try to rekindle or is it pointless?
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The important thing is what do you want and not be afraid to go after it. If you want to go for this girl, personally I wouldn't, the best thing you can do is go after her. If she doesn't fall in line with what you want, you can move on and know that you did what you needed to do.
Thanks. Why wouldn't you go after her?
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Sep 22, 2016 5:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conflicted. Should I try to rekindle or is it pointless?
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The important thing is what do you want and not be afraid to go after it. If you want to go for this girl, personally I wouldn't, the best thing you can do is go after her. If she doesn't fall in line with what you want, you can move on and know that you did what you needed to do.
Thanks. Why wouldn't you go after her?
When someone breaks things off once, it's easier to do it again the second time. Apparently, she broke it off and also took blame for it. To me, that's a huge red flag to break something off with someone and know it's your fault...implies that there is something selfish going on.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Sep 22, 2016 7:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conflicted. Should I try to rekindle or is it pointless?
Sounds like she's being friendly OP. Maybe she likes you maybe she doesn't. But questioning yourself about her intention isn't the way to figure it out.

I wouldn't make too much of the BMW snap though. It did what was suppose to do; give the appearance that she's more valuable than she actually is. So it worked on you, and everyone else like you. Maybe its true, maybe its her brothers, cousins from out in the country, or another friend of hers. Making to much of it will only further put you in a place mentally that will make you feel less adequate that you already do.

When are you moving man? That should be your focus. You're moving to a new place, and you'll move on to new people.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Sep 22, 2016 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conflicted. Should I try to rekindle or is it pointless?
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Author:  Vanballmoos [ Thu Sep 22, 2016 9:45 pm ]
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Sounds like she's being friendly OP. Maybe she likes you maybe she doesn't. But questioning yourself about her intention isn't the way to figure it out.

I wouldn't make too much of the BMW snap though. It did what was suppose to do; give the appearance that she's more valuable than she actually is. So it worked on you, and everyone else like you. Maybe its true, maybe its her brothers, cousins from out in the country, or another friend of hers. Making to much of it will only further put you in a place mentally that will make you feel less adequate that you already do.

When are you moving man? That should be your focus. You're moving to a new place, and you'll move on to new people.
Thanks. I just figured it was someone she was dating/seeing. She never said uncle, dad, brother, cousin's car. Usually when someone does that because it's someone they're seeing.

I am moving but only to a new house in the same city so it's not a big move or anything lol.
Author:  Vanballmoos [ Thu Sep 22, 2016 9:47 pm ]
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Haha oh no. So it definitely doesn't sound like she was just chummy with the guy who owns the car huh?
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 12:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Conflicted. Should I try to rekindle or is it pointless?
Regardless of the BMW, another dick has been in her, probably during the time you dated, or the next day. So I dont know why youd care WHOSE dick or what the dick drives. Have you slept with this chick?
Author:  Vanballmoos [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 12:19 am ]
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Regardless of the BMW, another dick has been in her, probably during the time you dated, or the next day. So I dont know why youd care WHOSE dick or what the dick drives. Have you slept with this chick?
Why do you think another dick has already been in her? Yea I have.
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 12:27 am ]
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Regardless of the BMW, another dick has been in her, probably during the time you dated, or the next day. So I dont know why youd care WHOSE dick or what the dick drives. Have you slept with this chick?
Why do you think another dick has already been in her? Yea I have.
Honestly you have? Because she's a chick and she wanted to walk away so prob had another man lined up
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