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Author:  HBwarm-Cph [ Thu Sep 15, 2016 5:40 pm ]
Post subject:  What to do in this situation
I have been seeing this girl for about 4 months (beside 6 weeks in the middle).

Yesterday she wrote me during the day (after we had spend a great night together), that she was really horny and wanted to do all sorts of things with me - so far great.

I asked if I could come over at 11 pm after watching football with the boys, but she later replied no because she had had a rough weekend without much sleep (music festival), which was completely fair and understandable and then wrote "maybe tomorrow evening if I'm feeling fresh again (she felt a bid sick last couple of days) and then wrote "I will text you how I feel tomorrow (kiss smiley)"

Well since then she has been sending a few snapchats to me, but she didn't wrote which was not what we agreed to.. In my previous relationships I have often been kind of "walked on" because I didn't stood up for my self... and now I am finding my self asking me if this is one of these times where I should actually tell her that it annoyed me that she did not answer me as promised.

At one point it makes it obvious that it is not cool to break a deal and on the other point it makes me seem kind of needy and insecure if I bring it up, it after she texts me again (which i guess I am a bid, but really working on it).

So should I confront her next time she reaches out to me or should I just leave it behind? - My own feeling is that I am currently my worst own enemy and should just quit being so focused on this small issue and forget about it and act like a man :P
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Sep 15, 2016 6:04 pm ]
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My own feeling is that I am currently my worst own enemy and should just quit being so focused on this small issue and forget about it and act like a man
You nailed it.

Instead of being a bitchy whiny girl, be a sexy flirty MAN.
Author:  Mr. Nobody [ Thu Sep 15, 2016 8:03 pm ]
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In my opinon dont take this to serious. Even if she didnt reply at the next day that doesnt have to mean anything. She wrote that she wants sex you. Thats a wonderful thing. What do you want more? Just call her and say that you want to meet and ignore what happend. Enjoy the time.
Author:  Darkie [ Thu Sep 15, 2016 8:26 pm ]
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I would say that she had cyber sex with you just to validate the fact that you want to fuck her. Alot of women do this to test waters to see how alpha or beta you are. Also at times To see if your needy. I usually call a girl out on being a tease if she gets sexual through txt. I let her know "actions speak louder than words" and not to start something that she "isn't" going to finish. This puts pressure on them. The ones with good game will counter it withsome back handed response but the flakes will right away flake!

My advice to you, get her out. Isolate and escalate. See where it goes physically. You might have to warm her up all over again but if she is totally resistant to any of your escalations then you can confirm that she was only teasing you or have marked you off as not alpha enough for the pussy
Author:  HBwarm-Cph [ Fri Sep 16, 2016 6:13 pm ]
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My own feeling is that I am currently my worst own enemy and should just quit being so focused on this small issue and forget about it and act like a man
You nailed it.

Instead of being a bitchy whiny girl, be a sexy flirty MAN.
Thanks! She wrote me the next day and said that she had planned to text me, but a friend of hers broke up with a guy and she had to focus on her! So we met up last night instead and fucked each other brains out and again this afternoon after she texted me to come over during a brake between my classes :P
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 16, 2016 6:23 pm ]
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My own feeling is that I am currently my worst own enemy and should just quit being so focused on this small issue and forget about it and act like a man
You nailed it.

Instead of being a bitchy whiny girl, be a sexy flirty MAN.
Thanks! She wrote me the next day and said that she had planned to text me, but a friend of hers broke up with a guy and she had to focus on her! So we met up last night instead and fucked each other brains out and again this afternoon after she texted me to come over during a brake between my classes :P
See how much easier this can be?
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Sat Sep 17, 2016 7:48 pm ]
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Good work. With relationships or FWB situations, 90% of the time the best move is to make none at all.

Women are unstable creatures, and need to work things out in their head alone most of the time, and then they move on better than men do. Just let them do it, and they will come back sweet and horny and all over you. Women love when men give them space. These are the men they cannot let go of.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sun Sep 18, 2016 9:56 am ]
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Your big problem is you put watching football (being a cheer leader for other men) over pleasing a woman in need of pleasing.

Strike while the iron is hot my friend. Stop jerking off and maybe you'll get the urge to fuck a girl instead of watch football with the boys.... Could ya be any more of an average joe? You might as well put a blow dryer on her pussy.
Author:  HBwarm-Cph [ Tue Sep 20, 2016 5:37 pm ]
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Your big problem is you put watching football (being a cheer leader for other men) over pleasing a woman in need of pleasing.

Strike while the iron is hot my friend. Stop jerking off and maybe you'll get the urge to fuck a girl instead of watch football with the boys.... Could ya be any more of an average joe? You might as well put a blow dryer on her pussy.
Call it what you want but I invited friends over for football and I am not cancelling on my friends who rarely I rarely have time to see, just because of a girl...
Author:  HBwarm-Cph [ Tue Sep 20, 2016 5:38 pm ]
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Good work. With relationships or FWB situations, 90% of the time the best move is to make none at all.

Women are unstable creatures, and need to work things out in their head alone most of the time, and then they move on better than men do. Just let them do it, and they will come back sweet and horny and all over you. Women love when men give them space. These are the men they cannot let go of.
Couldn't agree more!
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Sep 21, 2016 3:04 am ]
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Your big problem is you put watching football (being a cheer leader for other men) over pleasing a woman in need of pleasing.

Strike while the iron is hot my friend. Stop jerking off and maybe you'll get the urge to fuck a girl instead of watch football with the boys.... Could ya be any more of an average joe? You might as well put a blow dryer on her pussy.
Call it what you want but I invited friends over for football and I am not cancelling on my friends who rarely I rarely have time to see, just because of a girl...

Don't get mad cause it's not what you want to hear lol

I could tell you that it has nothing to do with the fact that you didn't cancel. It could be because in her eyes, you're like every other average schmuck who sits around watching football with his buddies. Were you drinking craft beer too? Managing your fantasy team?

How fucking exciting that must seem to her.... Maybe if you were playing football, she'd think "oh cool, he's got a life." But you might as well tell her after you're finished with your dungeons and dragons tournament.

If I were a hot girl, I could totally understand why you'd turn down a fine piece of ass over that. And I'd totally sit around waiting for you.... Not.
Author:  HBwarm-Cph [ Wed Sep 21, 2016 8:18 am ]
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Your big problem is you put watching football (being a cheer leader for other men) over pleasing a woman in need of pleasing.

Strike while the iron is hot my friend. Stop jerking off and maybe you'll get the urge to fuck a girl instead of watch football with the boys.... Could ya be any more of an average joe? You might as well put a blow dryer on her pussy.
Call it what you want but I invited friends over for football and I am not cancelling on my friends who rarely I rarely have time to see, just because of a girl...

Don't get mad cause it's not what you want to hear lol

I could tell you that it has nothing to do with the fact that you didn't cancel. It could be because in her eyes, you're like every other average schmuck who sits around watching football with his buddies. Were you drinking craft beer too? Managing your fantasy team?

How fucking exciting that must seem to her.... Maybe if you were playing football, she'd think "oh cool, he's got a life." But you might as well tell her after you're finished with your dungeons and dragons tournament.

If I were a hot girl, I could totally understand why you'd turn down a fine piece of ass over that. And I'd totally sit around waiting for you.... Not.
You make it sound as I am a lazy middle aged man who only sit around and drink beer and watch football with my friends, which couldn't be further away from the truth. I work hard at my work, I spear hunt, do extreme obstacle runs and much more, so when I finally have a couple of hours with some friends, I choose not to cancel in the last minute over a girl.

If I, as you suggest, cancel on my friends in the last minute to go see a girl, it not only makes me a bad friend, it also makes me kind of needy, possible also in her eyes.

But hey different views on the subject and thanks for your contribution... But I will warn you, if you always drop everything in your hands to see girls, you might come of as someone who is always available and hasn't got anything else going for you. A guy who is needy and a guy who doesn't value his friends and other social relations.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Sep 21, 2016 8:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do in this situation
It's not need. It's wanting. Sexual desire. Make her feel hot and sexy.... "I ditched my friends to ravish your pussy."

You might as well tell her you'd rather stare at Jay Cutlers ass instead of hers. It's not needy if she wants you. Get all the PUA mentality bullshit out of your head. If a girl likes you, stop playing the stupid games.

Like I said, you've gotta strike when the iron is hot. And if you don't jump at the opportunity, someone else will get it.

And most guys would understand if you've got some sexy girl waiting for you to dick her down. At least the guys that I would consider "friends."
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