I've been called "creepy" quite a few times. I am a lot better than I was.

Is this something that's possible to fix?

I'll give you an example of my thought process. I see a girl in short shorts and I can see her pussy through her pants and I can even smell it and even smell her butthole. Lol.

Is that creepy or normal? I read in "Models" that in order to be successful with women, you have to realize that you will creep some of them out sometimes. But I don't want to over do it. Is there a way to fix this or is this a permanent part of me? My dad is pretty creepy. Is it genetic?

I feel like if I fixed this, I would get a lot more, but I don't know where to start or if it's possible to fix this.

What are you supposed to think about when you see a girl in short shorts in front of you?

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And to add to this and to another thread where I talked about "toxic shame," a part of that is hating your own sexuality. Thinking that it is wrong and bad. Maybe this is why it comes across as creepy. I don't know. But it's hard to just "let it out" naturally. That being said, I don't think I'm the only guy with this problem.

I don't think 'pussy' should be your top priority right now.

You need to dig deep.

I suggest books by Karen Horney. You will find yourself in her books. Amazon her.

He probably searched her thinking she's a porn star

She was a psychiatrist. Most of her books were on narcissism. Very on point.

She didn't get him kicked off the forum, lol.

I've been called "creepy" quite a few times. I am a lot better than I was.

Is this dude some sort of Redstar variation?

I kind of picked up on that in one of his last threads. He has the exact same "I could have" utopia going on.

I kind of picked up on that in one of his last threads. He has the exact same "I could have" utopia going on.