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| Author: | RichardTheFrog [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 2:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Take time and get to know them as a person and not just sex |
This is probably the most brilliant thing I've ever written. I need to take time and get to know them as a person and not just a collection of sex holes. This seems obvious, but I do believe this is my actual sticking point, other than shyness, introversion, and creepiness. And there are many guys that don't do this. Many of them will not talk about sex at all, but they are just skirting the issue, pretending that sexual nature doesn't exist or that you can just ignore it. Other guys will take the opposite route and be aggressively or offensively sexual. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 3:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Plus, you have to start genuinely liking women. You don't speak about women in any positivity and every time I read something you're saying about women, I know that you are going to struggle with them. You have to attack that demon that's causing you to have so much disdain for women. You can't keep looking at them with hatred and expect them to want to have sex with you. |
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| Author: | nr32 [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 3:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Quote: You can't keep looking at them with hatred and expect them to want to have sex with you.
Quoted for truth
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| Author: | RichardTheFrog [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 4:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Quote: Plus, you have to start genuinely liking women. You don't speak about women in any positivity and every time I read something you're saying about women, I know that you are going to struggle with them. You have to attack that demon that's causing you to have so much disdain for women. You can't keep looking at them with hatred and expect them to want to have sex with you.
I think I have to figure out why I hate them. I can come up with theories involving biological differences between the genders.I hate the way they think so much of themselves for no reason despite the fact that many of them sit on their ass all day. Here's an example: one time I was at a bar and there was a girl sitting next to me by accident all dressed up in makeup and everything. I asked her what she did for a living. She heard me but ignored me. I asked her again. This time, she spent her "precious" time answering me and she said "I'm taking a break right now." In other words, she was unemployed and probably living off someone else's dollar. But since she can dress herself up in makeup, she thinks she's worth something based on her "looks," (every girl smells like shit when you get close enough, by the way, just like any human being does). Have you ever seen old people pissing and shitting themselves in hospital beds? That's what all of these "beautiful" women will be some day, just saying. They're just trying to get the most out of their "beautiful" years, but they use it as an excuse to be an awful pretentious bitch to everyone. The only time they stop being a bitch is when you get angry at them or if you're constantly giving them money, which I would never do even if I had $1,000,000. Not to mention my example of the girls who work in the air conditioning while the men slave their asses off and break their backs. What is the difference between hatred and the domination that I think is necessary to be successful at this? These women don't respect my life experience and I'm pretty sure they are just busy doing selfish things anyway. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 4:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
You have some deep seeded issues. You sound judgemental, insecure, and entitled. Any of those things alone make you socially unappealing, and you have all three at an extra strength amount. How do you know that girl didn't lose her job and living on her savings and didn't want to explain to a stranger that she wasn't currently employed? Why say everyone smells like shit? You view everyone as if they are below you. Most people like you try to bring people down to try to feel better about themselves. You want people to respect what you've done with your life but you speak about them in a disrespectful way. You are your own worst enemy but you'll probably try to disprove that by coming up with another bullshit story/scenario to protect your ego and justify your negative attitude. |
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| Author: | HT23VWY67 [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 2:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Wait, so the first words out of your mouth were, "So, what do you do for a living?" Well, it's a legit question but it's a very serious question. I mean, that is an important thing but you don't go up to a stranger and start shooting interview questions. Secondly, so what if she's presumably unemployed and living off of someone else's dollar (perhaps her parents?)? Is she supposed to not wear makeup? Is she supposed to feel like shit all of a sudden? I think your line of thinking there went like, "How dare she think she's valuable when she doesn't have X, Y and Z? How dare she reject me? Where you rejected a lot, is that why you hate women so much? Because I've encountered men like you. They want women but they act like total asses to them. Or lash out when they get rejected. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 2:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Quote: Quote: Plus, you have to start genuinely liking women. You don't speak about women in any positivity and every time I read something you're saying about women, I know that you are going to struggle with them. You have to attack that demon that's causing you to have so much disdain for women. You can't keep looking at them with hatred and expect them to want to have sex with you.
I think I have to figure out why I hate them. I can come up with theories involving biological differences between the genders.I hate the way they think so much of themselves for no reason despite the fact that many of them sit on their ass all day. Here's an example: one time I was at a bar and there was a girl sitting next to me by accident all dressed up in makeup and everything. I asked her what she did for a living. She heard me but ignored me. I asked her again. This time, she spent her "precious" time answering me and she said "I'm taking a break right now." In other words, she was unemployed and probably living off someone else's dollar. But since she can dress herself up in makeup, she thinks she's worth something based on her "looks," (every girl smells like shit when you get close enough, by the way, just like any human being does). Have you ever seen old people pissing and shitting themselves in hospital beds? That's what all of these "beautiful" women will be some day, just saying. They're just trying to get the most out of their "beautiful" years, but they use it as an excuse to be an awful pretentious bitch to everyone. The only time they stop being a bitch is when you get angry at them or if you're constantly giving them money, which I would never do even if I had $1,000,000. Not to mention my example of the girls who work in the air conditioning while the men slave their asses off and break their backs. What is the difference between hatred and the domination that I think is necessary to be successful at this? These women don't respect my life experience and I'm pretty sure they are just busy doing selfish things anyway. Maybe you should be with a guy? Or just pay for sex? As I said in the other thread, you need therapy, and maybe women arent for you. It sounds like you, A guy who works DOESNT work a back breaking job, is not attracted to women cause they dont do back breaking jobs. There are many men out there who fit that bill, eg construction workers, and if thats your thing, thats your thing. My sincere guess is this is repressed homosexuality. Either way...THERAPY. |
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| Author: | RichardTheFrog [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 2:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
How do you know I don't work a backbreaking job? I do pay for sex. But sometimes, they like it so much that I do it for free any time after that. |
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| Author: | RichardTheFrog [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 2:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Quote: Wait, so the first words out of your mouth were, "So, what do you do for a living?"
I get hit on very often. Sometimes when I go to clubs, every girl there is looking at me and wants me to talk to them. How do I know? Because people tell me.Well, it's a legit question but it's a very serious question. I mean, that is an important thing but you don't go up to a stranger and start shooting interview questions. Secondly, so what if she's presumably unemployed and living off of someone else's dollar (perhaps her parents?)? Is she supposed to not wear makeup? Is she supposed to feel like shit all of a sudden? I think your line of thinking there went like, "How dare she think she's valuable when she doesn't have X, Y and Z? How dare she reject me? Where you rejected a lot, is that why you hate women so much? Because I've encountered men like you. They want women but they act like total asses to them. Or lash out when they get rejected. I've turned down hundreds of girls. |
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| Author: | HT23VWY67 [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 2:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
You've turned down hundreds of girls? But you're stuck on that one unemployed chick with makeup on? I don't understand you Richard. But I think you have an over inflated sense of self worth aka big time narcissist. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 2:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Quote: You've turned down hundreds of girls? But you're stuck on that one unemployed chick with makeup on?
I don't understand you Richard. But I think you have an over inflated sense of self worth aka big time narcissist. I actually agree on your cold reading for once.... |
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| Author: | HT23VWY67 [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 2:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Wow. Let's take out the champagne. |
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| Author: | RichardTheFrog [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 3:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Quote: You've turned down hundreds of girls? But you're stuck on that one unemployed chick with makeup on?
I didn't say I was stuck on her. I don't even know her name or care. I was giving an example of stupidity that I run into. I was giving an example of how many girls are overvalued, including the unemployed (would be homeless and starving if someone else didn't feed her) girl at a bar that thinks she's worth a lot because of her dress and makeup.I don't understand you Richard. But I think you have an over inflated sense of self worth aka big time narcissist. Over-inflated sense of self? I've been through a lot of shit. I've had to spend the better part of a year recovering from a spinal cord injury that almost left me permanently paralyzed. My back still hurts every day. I've lived homeless on the streets. I could go on and on about the stuff that I've done that no girl (or even any person) could do. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 3:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Bro seek a psychologist help. I don't think we are qualified to help you with deep seeded issues like the ones you are describing. All you're gonna end up doing is arguing with license plate lady. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 3:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Take time and get to know them as a person and not just |
Quote: How do you know I don't work a backbreaking job?
I do pay for sex. But sometimes, they like it so much that I do it for free any time after that. Because a guy who works a physically tough job is more down to earth and normal. Also, because you supposedly have some back injury. Also because you claim to flip houses and money for that would be difficult with a back breaking job. The rest of what you're saying is just trolling, or you're more delusional than I thought. Guy who talks like you, yeah he could get laid alot if he has confidence. But you don't. Not real confidence. Hence you know its bs half the shit you're saying about turning down chicks, and prosititutes fucking you for free. Lol. Why do guys come here pretending to not be virgins, but asking questions that guys who arent virgins would already have handled? And for the record, medical issues and being homeless doesnt make you some prize. |
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