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| Author: | eddieb02 [ Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | She gives me a dead-end re-opener after ghosting |
Short background. Met chick about a year ago at a bar - pick up, attraction, seduction, number Date 1) out drinking, kiss close, both had to go to other plans (again this was a while ago so dont remember all the details) Date 2) some logistical issues, hook up, but PG13, wouldnt let me advance - fall sleep summer time in NYC so both away on weekends, doing our thing. momentum seems to fade. When we do meet up for whatever reason its in a group, not great vibe i dont get IOI's. texting game goes on, she initiates but doesnt follow thru on plans, etc meet like 1 a month or 2, hook up but again doesnt let me take it too far. i get the sense she is fking with me so i pretty much move on. but the texting every now and then, as whats the harm, im out gaming others and just keep it in the background. fast forward almost a year later i decide after some incidents where she texts me and i put myself out there and ask her out / try to make plans - Hey blah blah blah, this thursday night HER: sure sounds good but i may have ___ let me get back to you, doesnt get back to me but re initiates a few days later usually HER: hey sorry, blah blah blah, whats your weekend like? this goes on til finally we have plans and she goes ghost on day of and i just assumed that level of disrespect means she has no interest. Then about a month goes by and i get a random text which i cant see anyway of responding to so i havent (3-4weeks ago now) HER:[b]hey i was just thinking of you. im sorry i was an Asshole before. i'd been seeing someone and wanted to hang but i felt guilty/weird. if you want to hangout again lmk, but i understand if you dont. hope you are doing well[/b] I obviously would like to bang her as she is hot but figured there is no self respecting way to respond bc either way you reduce your value... any thoughts? |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She gives me a dead-end re-opener after ghosting |
Square peg square hole. In other words, if your intention is to bang her and she's making herself available... "Tomorrow night Bar X, Time X sharp. See you then:)" |
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| Author: | eddieb02 [ Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She gives me a dead-end re-opener after ghosting |
she basically admitted to fking with me for a year, and that just recently (last few months) started dating someone else - so me = 2nd choice, but now that it didnt work out, can i keep fking with you some more and dangling vag in your face but never letting you get hands on it. i think if i say bar x tomorrow, she will string me along - oh i cant tomorrow but whats next week look like - then eventually flake and just wanted the satisfaction of fking w me again. in all seriousness i think she hates men |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She gives me a dead-end re-opener after ghosting |
Quote: she basically admitted to fking with me for a year, and that just recently (last few months) started dating someone else - so me = 2nd choice, but now that it didnt work out, can i keep fking with you some more and dangling vag in your face but never letting you get hands on it.
Nope, only if you allow her to.i think if i say bar x tomorrow, she will string me along - oh i cant tomorrow but whats next week look like - then eventually flake and just wanted the satisfaction of fking w me again. in all seriousness i think she hates men If she responds to anything other than agreeing to meet up, ignore and move on. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Sep 01, 2016 8:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She gives me a dead-end re-opener after ghosting |
Quote: she basically admitted to fking with me for a year, and that just recently (last few months) started dating someone else - so me = 2nd choice, but now that it didnt work out, can i keep fking with you some more and dangling vag in your face but never letting you get hands on it.
Send her this "Today I saw something that reminded me of you. But don't worry, I flushed and everything went back to normal."i think if i say bar x tomorrow, she will string me along - oh i cant tomorrow but whats next week look like - then eventually flake and just wanted the satisfaction of fking w me again. in all seriousness i think she hates men Set something up. BE SURE she's coming. Be an hour late. Suggest has she been having a rough time, she looks like she's aged some. Tell her we should stop doing this because she's not really your type anyway. Then fuck her. Real GOOD. |
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| Author: | swordmind88 [ Sat Sep 03, 2016 4:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She gives me a dead-end re-opener after ghosting |
sounds like she is testing you / checking you out to see if you are what you are. that means interest but not attraction (necessarily). She is insecure about you and want to see how you respond. After all she did make out with you and is still texting (that is an IOI). BUT! You need to play it reeeeeal cool. and i believe you still have a small chance as long as youre more careful. and yeah, see other women just in case. at least dont disrespect her n shit, unless you wanna get shitted on. |
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| Author: | Aqualol [ Sat Sep 03, 2016 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She gives me a dead-end re-opener after ghosting |
Quote: Quote: she basically admitted to fking with me for a year, and that just recently (last few months) started dating someone else - so me = 2nd choice, but now that it didnt work out, can i keep fking with you some more and dangling vag in your face but never letting you get hands on it.
Nope, only if you allow her to.i think if i say bar x tomorrow, she will string me along - oh i cant tomorrow but whats next week look like - then eventually flake and just wanted the satisfaction of fking w me again. in all seriousness i think she hates men If she responds to anything other than agreeing to meet up, ignore and move on. |
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| Author: | eddieb02 [ Mon Sep 05, 2016 2:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She gives me a dead-end re-opener after ghosting |
interesting take on it thanks. seems like there are 2 ways to go - ignore her frame (prior disrespect) and just have aggressive response back - "lets meet here, you are paying" or just move on but its been a month, so im not inspired to go back to trying to fire it up bc i could see starting again. i.e get her out have a good time and get held up by the 3rd base coach. then all the power is back with her as she will keep dangling the carrot while not letting me Fk her and prob pursing other dudes she actually wants to date. so seems like a huge waste of time to try to get her out |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Mon Sep 05, 2016 4:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She gives me a dead-end re-opener after ghosting |
Quote: interesting take on it thanks.
YOu're viewing it all wrong.
seems like there are 2 ways to go - ignore her frame (prior disrespect) and just have aggressive response back - "lets meet here, you are paying" or just move on but its been a month, so im not inspired to go back to trying to fire it up bc i could see starting again. i.e get her out have a good time and get held up by the 3rd base coach. then all the power is back with her as she will keep dangling the carrot while not letting me Fk her and prob pursing other dudes she actually wants to date. so seems like a huge waste of time to try to get her out |
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