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| Author: | matador of fun [ Tue Aug 30, 2016 11:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
So there is this cute chick i went out with 2 weeks ago.The date was okay she seemed to be laughing and stuff .did a lot of kino but no kissing or stuff like that because it was in public.i could not isolate.anyway post the date we talked on the phone quite a few times i asked her out twice.the first time she said she was busy(it seemed genuine) but the second time i asked her out and it was through text she blatantly ignored me.it was through SPAM so you know whether someone has read your message or not.i was like hey am free today if you are free lets meet up.she read my message and didn't respond.i called her out on that and she still didn't respond.i decide to freeze her out.fast forward a few days later i get a text from her asking me about how i am doing.i have not responded till now.What should i do and if i am to reply should i remind her about how she acted like a bitch by ignoring me or should i just play cool or should i just ignore her texts?any advice would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | Aqualol [ Tue Aug 30, 2016 12:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
90 % you've been dumped and you're being hung on as a resource of likes on social media. |
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| Author: | ChocolatePUA [ Tue Aug 30, 2016 1:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: So there is this cute chick i went out with 2 weeks ago.The date was okay she seemed to be laughing and stuff .did a lot of kino but no kissing or stuff like that because it was in public.i could not isolate.anyway post the date we talked on the phone quite a few times i asked her out twice.the first time she said she was busy(it seemed genuine) but the second time i asked her out and it was through text she blatantly ignored me.it was through SPAM so you know whether someone has read your message or not.i was like hey am free today if you are free lets meet up.she read my message and didn't respond.i called her out on that and she still didn't respond.i decide to freeze her out.fast forward a few days later i get a text from her asking me about how i am doing.i have not responded till now.What should i do and if i am to reply should i remind her about how she acted like a bitch by ignoring me or should i just play cool or should i just ignore her texts?any advice would be appreciated.
No need to get upset or call her out really. Simply tell her that you're waiting for her to reply to your invitation out. Then leave her. She will respond, view and ignore for a bit. See if she makes alternate plans, then decide whether or not you want to accept
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Aug 30, 2016 1:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: So there is this cute chick i went out with 2 weeks ago.The date was okay she seemed to be laughing and stuff .did a lot of kino but no kissing or stuff like that because it was in public.i could not isolate.anyway post the date we talked on the phone quite a few times i asked her out twice.the first time she said she was busy(it seemed genuine) but the second time i asked her out and it was through text she blatantly ignored me.it was through SPAM so you know whether someone has read your message or not.i was like hey am free today if you are free lets meet up.she read my message and didn't respond.i called her out on that and she still didn't respond.i decide to freeze her out.fast forward a few days later i get a text from her asking me about how i am doing.i have not responded till now.What should i do and if i am to reply should i remind her about how she acted like a bitch by ignoring me or should i just play cool or should i just ignore her texts?any advice would be appreciated.
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.
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| Author: | stringfellow on sticks [ Tue Aug 30, 2016 1:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option." This is one of the most important quotations I've ever read on this forum. So true! Well put, Heywood! |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Tue Aug 30, 2016 2:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: Quote: So there is this cute chick i went out with 2 weeks ago.The date was okay she seemed to be laughing and stuff .did a lot of kino but no kissing or stuff like that because it was in public.i could not isolate.anyway post the date we talked on the phone quite a few times i asked her out twice.the first time she said she was busy(it seemed genuine) but the second time i asked her out and it was through text she blatantly ignored me.it was through SPAM so you know whether someone has read your message or not.i was like hey am free today if you are free lets meet up.she read my message and didn't respond.i called her out on that and she still didn't respond.i decide to freeze her out.fast forward a few days later i get a text from her asking me about how i am doing.i have not responded till now.What should i do and if i am to reply should i remind her about how she acted like a bitch by ignoring me or should i just play cool or should i just ignore her texts?any advice would be appreciated.
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. |
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| Author: | Furiox [ Sun Sep 04, 2016 9:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
No need to reply to her... she was very clear in her intentions by not responding anymore... keep your dignity and delete her. |
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| Author: | swordmind88 [ Sun Sep 04, 2016 10:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: "Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option."
Agreed! This is one of the most important quotations I've ever read on this forum. So true! Well put, Heywood! Be the priority, keep options. |
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| Author: | OpusD [ Mon Sep 05, 2016 2:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: No need to reply to her... she was very clear in her intentions by not responding anymore... keep your dignity and delete her.
I don't think I'd do that. Deleting her = 0% chance of pussy. You get some chance, even if it's small with another message like "Awaiting your response..."
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Sep 05, 2016 2:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: Quote: No need to reply to her... she was very clear in her intentions by not responding anymore... keep your dignity and delete her.
I don't think I'd do that. Deleting her = 0% chance of pussy. You get some chance, even if it's small with another message like "Awaiting your response..." |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Mon Sep 05, 2016 3:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Pursuing a woman that's clearly not interested in taking these further puts you at a deficit with yourself. How do you respect yourself by engaging in such a futile endeavour? |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Sep 05, 2016 6:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: Quote: No need to reply to her... she was very clear in her intentions by not responding anymore... keep your dignity and delete her.
I don't think I'd do that. Deleting her = 0% chance of pussy. You get some chance, even if it's small with another message like "Awaiting your response..."Bro this only works if you're getting pussy on the side. I know what you're saying and girls that are not interested now suddenly are all gun ho about devouring your cock. Its like planting a bunch of seeds in a garden. Some plants grow faster than others. The upside is "i knew she would come around" the downside is you have to know what you're doing. And this method might take weeks for it to work. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Sep 05, 2016 7:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: Quote: No need to reply to her... she was very clear in her intentions by not responding anymore... keep your dignity and delete her.
I don't think I'd do that. Deleting her = 0% chance of pussy. You get some chance, even if it's small with another message like "Awaiting your response..."Learn to let go of bad bets. |
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| Author: | OpusD [ Tue Sep 06, 2016 5:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: Quote: Quote: No need to reply to her... she was very clear in her intentions by not responding anymore... keep your dignity and delete her.
I don't think I'd do that. Deleting her = 0% chance of pussy. You get some chance, even if it's small with another message like "Awaiting your response..."Learn to let go of bad bets. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Sep 06, 2016 5:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ignores me when i asked her out but keeps texting |
Quote: I get what you're saying. I just don't feel like sending a message every now and then to her would be that much investment. If she keeps saying "no", then I'd move on. But if there's a chance for recovery, I'd take it. Wouldn't put much effort in to it, though. Putting yourself in the position of giving her the opportunity to keep saying "no" and she does just that, that's even a lower chance for recovery. Deleting a number keeps you under control. If she reinitiates contact, the chance of recovery actually goes up.
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