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Author:  BSN [ Wed Aug 17, 2016 1:28 am ]
Post subject:  Small Steps First (some Questions)
A little background. I've been interested in this material for a while, I've applied advice I've sourced simply when the opportunity arose, kind of willy-nilly, and never really structured my learning. These following questions are to give the opportunity to get this part of my game out of confusion and into organisation.

I have started from scratch and I'm now taking Small Steps First. Everything I've done up until now was all learning, gaining reference experiences and social experiments that I made up from a place of insecurity and unknowing. Granted I never had the right advice to take the right steps so I'm starting over.

Small Steps First.

1. Basic Inner Game. What is it? What are the key inner game fundamentals I need to get me taking action?

2. Approach Anxiety. What is it? What are the key fundamentals I need to overcome AA that I can take action on?

3. Approaching and Opening. What is it? What are the key fundamentals I need to learn so I can take action?

As a side note, I'm going to tackle each of these separately and in the order, I asked.

Please feel free to share your tips with me.
Author:  Cross De Lena [ Wed Aug 17, 2016 9:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Small Steps First (some Questions)
Quote:
A little background. I've been interested in this material for a while, I've applied advice I've sourced simply when the opportunity arose, kind of willy-nilly, and never really structured my learning. These following questions are to give the opportunity to get this part of my game out of confusion and into organisation.

I have started from scratch and I'm now taking Small Steps First. Everything I've done up until now was all learning, gaining reference experiences and social experiments that I made up from a place of insecurity and unknowing. Granted I never had the right advice to take the right steps so I'm starting over.

Small Steps First.

1. Basic Inner Game. What is it? What are the key inner game fundamentals I need to get me taking action?

2. Approach Anxiety. What is it? What are the key fundamentals I need to overcome AA that I can take action on?

3. Approaching and Opening. What is it? What are the key fundamentals I need to learn so I can take action?

As a side note, I'm going to tackle each of these separately and in the order, I asked.

Please feel free to share your tips with me.
Stop being lazy, there are already answer to all those questions here on forum.
Author:  kidfromcro [ Wed Aug 17, 2016 10:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Small Steps First (some Questions)
the only way to beat aa is to approach,try to do that logically and you"ll never get it done,approach and open,say whatever,better and more useful then thinking about it,as for inner game you"ll find a lot of different explanations,your beliefs,how you feel,frame of mind,it"s not a science
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Aug 17, 2016 10:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Small Steps First (some Questions)
Approach Anxiety

Physical Escalation anxiety

Logistics & Leading

Master these 3 things and everything else in between will self-correct.

How to master them?

Search the forum/Google/Youtube for:

'How to approach a girl'

'How to make a move on a girl'

'How to Lead a girl home'

Watch and read all you can on each search and then apply it in real life. Don't fucking skip ahead and start reading up on NLP and threesome game or any of that crap. You need to focus on the core aspects that get you RESULTS. Not mental masturbation.

Once you are competent at these things, then whether it be a shopping mall, club, Tinder, you will have the meat of potatoes of seduction in your arsenal. Then you can work on threesome game, NLP, qualification, push/pull that will supplement the core principles. These things on their own will probably not work.

(Working on your looks should go without saying)
Author:  J.Daniels [ Wed Aug 17, 2016 12:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Small Steps First (some Questions)
Pretty much what Dragula said.

I fucking wish I went out and did all my approaches BEFORE reading up on shit. If you read all the material first, it makes your first approach a fucking big deal and adds so much pressure.

Because I did it wrong, I found myself in my first approach using inappropriate negs, trying too hard to force constant eye contact, and generally getting a worse response than I would if I'd walked over like a complete beginner with "Hey.. sooo... come here often?" lol. Worst part is that I'd approached girls before (not very many at all and rarely ever sober so it hardly counts), but that was my first "post PUA" approach so it was somehow a big deal lol.

Some things you can YouTube for now, though:

Ryan Magin
Alpha M
Something to do with mens hairstyles but I don't know which one or anything.

Infact, that's about it. They're just help with working on your look - some tips for colour matching, hair cuts for your head shape, grooming tips, better fitting clothes etc. A good haircut changes your fucking life :lol:
Author:  kidfromcro [ Fri Aug 19, 2016 7:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Small Steps First (some Questions)
Quote:
Pretty much what Dragula said.

I fucking wish I went out and did all my approaches BEFORE reading up on shit. If you read all the material first, it makes your first approach a fucking big deal and adds so much pressure.

Because I did it wrong, I found myself in my first approach using inappropriate negs, trying too hard to force constant eye contact, and generally getting a worse response than I would if I'd walked over like a complete beginner with "Hey.. sooo... come here often?" lol. Worst part is that I'd approached girls before (not very many at all and rarely ever sober so it hardly counts), but that was my first "post PUA" approach so it was somehow a big deal lol.

Some things you can YouTube for now, though:

Ryan Magin
Alpha M
Something to do with mens hairstyles but I don't know which one or anything.

Infact, that's about it. They're just help with working on your look - some tips for colour matching, hair cuts for your head shape, grooming tips, better fitting clothes etc. A good haircut changes your fucking life :lol:
yea,i wish that too
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