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Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
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Author:  ACtheunderdog [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 1:20 am ]
Post subject:  Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
Hey guys I'm new to pick up and I have some questions regarding this one girl, (the background will be vague in the story so let me know anything else you want to know about the situation). We got to know each other a little bit towards the end of high school, had good vibes. I always thought she was cute but never really tried to pursue her in that way. A few weeks ago(this is a year after we graduated and the last time I've seen her) I messaged her on snapchat about a mutual interest I noticed we had, and we chatted a bit on there. A couple of days later she told my friend to invite me over to a party her friend was having and was excited to see me when I got there. Nothing happened between us at the party and since she wasn't around much. A day later she randomly messaged me in the afternoon says my how happy she was to see me and that we should hang out again. So I invited her to my friends party(she ended up not coming). In between she snap chatted me a few times and yesterday when we were snapchatting I told her we need to hang out soon. She said "we should!!" and I told her "hmu whenever". She replied with "same here✅" should I ask her out? I was thinkIng to a movie or something, or does it seem like I have no shot with her?
Author:  ACtheunderdog [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 1:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
When I say in between I meant in between her not coming to the party and today
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 1:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
Just pull the trigger.
Author:  ACtheunderdog [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 1:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
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Just pull the trigger.
So it seems like she has some interest?
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 1:37 am ]
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Just pull the trigger.
So it seems like she has some interest?
I'm not saying if it seems like she has interest or not. You believe that she may have interest. If you believe that the possibility is there, you should ask her out.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 1:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
Yeah, why even make a thread. Just do it and then make a thread where there is an actual situation for a thread to be made

You miss 100% of the shot's you don't take:

lay-reports/you-miss-the-shots-you-don- ... 0100%%20of
Author:  xopow [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 1:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
I would not use the word "hang out", that has a friend zone vibe to it. Never tell her to hit you up, either. YOU must set the time and place.
Author:  ACtheunderdog [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 2:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
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Yeah, why even make a thread. Just do it and then make a thread where there is an actual situation for a thread to be made

You miss 100% of the shot's you don't take:

lay-reports/you-miss-the-shots-you-don- ... 0100%%20of
My bad dude I'm new to this forum and that does seem to make a lot more sense thanks
Author:  ACtheunderdog [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 2:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
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I would not use the word "hang out", that has a friend zone vibe to it. Never tell her to hit you up, either. YOU must set the time and place.
That's one of my problems, I must've not wanted to look to desperate so I told her to hmu and asked to "hang out" I gotta work on that
Author:  Autoregressive [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 3:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
I don't think the "hang out" part is any problem whatsoever. The wording is irrelevant. Unless you two are into the same hobbies and are going to hang out to play video games (or whatever), to me "hang out" in this context (two single, opposite sex people) might as well mean "let's (maybe) have sex." Just get her out where you can have fun with her and get intimate. Set a concrete time and place. Good luck.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 11:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
How do you say " We should hang out" and the girl says " We should!!" And you reply" Hmu whenever" instead of figuring out a day for you guys to actually hang out? This has to be a troll post. That or social media is truly ruing the social skills of the upcoming generation.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 10:32 pm ]
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Yeah, why even make a thread. Just do it and then make a thread where there is an actual situation for a thread to be made
Ouch.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Jul 28, 2016 10:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
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I would not use the word "hang out", that has a friend zone vibe to it. Never tell her to hit you up, either. YOU must set the time and place.
That's one of my problems, I must've not wanted to look to desperate so I told her to hmu and asked to "hang out" I gotta work on that
So.. you were trying to not look desperate by playing it safe and halfassing it as to not expose yourself to the possibility of rejection? Dude, that IS desperate.
Author:  ACtheunderdog [ Fri Jul 29, 2016 12:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mixed signals...Should I ask her out?
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I would not use the word "hang out", that has a friend zone vibe to it. Never tell her to hit you up, either. YOU must set the time and place.
That's one of my problems, I must've not wanted to look to desperate so I told her to hmu and asked to "hang out" I gotta work on that
I'm well aware

So.. you were trying to not look desperate by playing it safe and halfassing it as to not expose yourself to the possibility of rejection? Dude, that IS desperate.
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