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| Author: | d0minantsp3cies [ Sun Jul 24, 2016 11:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
So ive known this chick that works in a store i go to frequently for a couple months now. She gets excited every time im in... negs, kino and iois... number closed. She peetty much forgets all the other people when im around. Now when i talk to her over text, shes somewhat distant and non responsive. Invited her out and she ignored the text completely. Im trying to analyze this and its getting on my nerves as this usually never happens. Wtf is going on? |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Jul 24, 2016 11:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Just because you got her number doesn't mean she will go out with you. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sun Jul 24, 2016 11:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Quote: Wtf is going on? Why do you need to figure this out? You know what works and what doesn't work with her. Why not just go with what works?
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| Author: | dominantsp3cies [ Sun Jul 24, 2016 11:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Well if theres iois and kino in person why the fuck is she flaky to the point of ignoring me over text... last time i saw her she kept saying text me text me please( to make plans). It just doesnt make sense. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Jul 25, 2016 12:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Quote: Well if theres iois and kino in person why the fuck is she flaky to the point of ignoring me over text... last time i saw her she kept saying text me text me please( to make plans). It just doesnt make sense. Here's an experiment. Ask her out in person. If she tells you to text her, say okay and don't do it. The next time you see her, if she really wanted to go out with you she'll ask why you didn't text her. You're response should be that you were going to text her but the last time you did she didn't respond to you asking her out.I have a sneaking suspicion that this girl has a boyfriend since you've provided more relevant information...but that's me coming to my own conclusion. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Jul 25, 2016 12:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
She might just be being friendly cause you're a customer.... And that's her job.... |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Mon Jul 25, 2016 2:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Pay attention to what a woman does, not what she says. Her actions: not texting you back. Hard to have sex with that. Move along. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Mon Jul 25, 2016 4:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Cases like this i think its difficult to say Could be: 1) A girl who was never interested romantically; you misread her friendliness to a customer or just friendliness in general to mean something, you pushed a number close and she is just brushing you off but cant be as straightforward because you're a customer 2) she is a bit interested, but just a time waster or just not interested enough to go out 3) not interested and a time waster, attention whore 4) interested but has a bf, conflicted Dont know. I'd say ask out in person. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Jul 25, 2016 6:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Friendly girls give out their number, doesn't mean they are going to fuck you. When you get the number, make sure you tell her why you want her number me - Let's brab a drink together, sometime? Her - Sure me - what days are you free? Her- I can do Wed or Thu Me- Thu works for me, let's exchange info So that way, she is EXPECTING a text from you because you made arrangments If she starts to get all excuse-y on the texts, let it flake |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jul 26, 2016 12:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Call man. I've noticed that some women just really don't understand the concept of texting in a way that shows you're interested when you are. They could just be self consumed or used to dealing with guys who continue to make conversation with them no matter how one wordy they respond. I can't tell you how many girls I've been with that were drive boring texters that were extremely talkative and full of personality on the phone. Texting is something that everyone doesn't "get".. Try calling, and if you get the same response just leave it alone. |
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| Author: | Ricardo999 [ Tue Jul 26, 2016 7:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Quote: Call man.
Great point.....some peoples personality just doesn't come across on text.
I've noticed that some women just really don't understand the concept of texting in a way that shows you're interested when you are. They could just be self consumed or used to dealing with guys who continue to make conversation with them no matter how one wordy they respond. I can't tell you how many girls I've been with that were drive boring texters that were extremely talkative and full of personality on the phone. Texting is something that everyone doesn't "get".. Try calling, and if you get the same response just leave it alone. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Jul 26, 2016 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Another alternative is to use the voice recorder on whstapp. More personal than text and less intrusive than a call in my opinion |
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| Author: | BSN [ Tue Jul 26, 2016 10:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ioi's in person, flaky and distant over text? wtf? |
Quote: She might just be being friendly cause you're a customer.... And that's her job....
My first thought was this. She's paid to be nice to be customers. You haven't generated enough Attraction, she was just being polite.
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