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Author:  thequietlife [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 7:12 pm ]
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Ok, if i had the answers to the question i wouldn't be wasting 5 minutes of my life writing this out. Anyway, noticing this trend online/real life. Girls (when ever they do) that have attraction for me, its usually luke warm, or low attraction. I've been in the "game" to long to know/experienced different levels of attraction.

Most of the girls that tend to give me lots of interest are the girls i have 0 interest in. But girls that have mild-low interest in me ends up fading quickly time and time again.

Has anyone in the experience had this patch, where they were stuck in this loop of low attraction the fades into nothing, or even when high fades out. Now obviously theres something I'm doing that causing this, hence why I'm asking people with experience in a similar situation.

Side note: especially when i try to escalate for numbers,dates etc just goes cold.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 8:19 pm ]
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Go to the gym
Author:  thequietlife [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 8:40 pm ]
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i do, my body is fine. Im happy with my looks aspect of life.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 10:40 pm ]
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Stop watching porn
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 10:47 pm ]
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Ok, if i had the answers to the question i wouldn't be wasting 5 minutes of my life writing this out. Anyway, noticing this trend online/real life. Girls (when ever they do) that have attraction for me, its usually luke warm, or low attraction. I've been in the "game" to long to know/experienced different levels of attraction.
Gym.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 10:48 pm ]
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i do, my body is fine. Im happy with my looks aspect of life.

That's real nice, but get in the kind of shape that raises women's attraction for you (which you've admitted is a problem).

Work hard, be what you want to attract. That's how it works. No shortcuts.

Or enjoy the 6's.

I'm a 40 year old guy dating a 21 year old underwear model. Once in a while, I make sure she sees me right after the gym. This shit works. It's at the point where I have my choice of whomever. I don't date anyone over 30. This is because I work hard at attracting the women I'm actually attracted to.

No excuses. No complaints. No couch. No TV. No video games. Pick up a book. Hit the gym, discover new music. Experiment with new things. Always keep moving, like a shark. Evolve or wake up next to 6's.
Author:  Autoregressive [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 11:18 pm ]
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That's real nice, but get in the kind of shape that raises women's attraction for you (which you've admitted is a problem).

Work hard, be what you want to attract. That's how it works. No shortcuts.
Unless he's going to stroll around town naked, going to the gym is going to have relatively little impact on his ability to raise attraction, particularly in the short-term. Much better ways to use his time to increase attraction in the most immediate sense (styling and grooming).

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Or enjoy the 6's.


I'm a 40 year old guy dating a 21 year old underwear model. Once in a while, I make sure she sees me right after the gym. This shit works. It's at the point where I have my choice of whomever. I don't date anyone over 30. This is because I work hard at attracting the women I'm actually attracted to.

No excuses. No complaints. No couch. No TV. No video games. Pick up a book. Hit the gym, discover new music. Experiment with new things. Always keep moving, like a shark. Evolve or wake up next to 6's.
I know fat 40 year old men dating (to my eyes) attractive girls about half their age. No gym required.
Author:  JackZero [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 11:44 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:

That's real nice, but get in the kind of shape that raises women's attraction for you (which you've admitted is a problem).

Work hard, be what you want to attract. That's how it works. No shortcuts.
Unless he's going to stroll around town naked, going to the gym is going to have relatively little impact on his ability to raise attraction, particularly in the short-term. Much better ways to use his time to increase attraction in the most immediate sense (styling and grooming).

Quote:
Or enjoy the 6's.


I'm a 40 year old guy dating a 21 year old underwear model. Once in a while, I make sure she sees me right after the gym. This shit works. It's at the point where I have my choice of whomever. I don't date anyone over 30. This is because I work hard at attracting the women I'm actually attracted to.

No excuses. No complaints. No couch. No TV. No video games. Pick up a book. Hit the gym, discover new music. Experiment with new things. Always keep moving, like a shark. Evolve or wake up next to 6's.
I know fat 40 year old men dating (to my eyes) attractive girls about half their age. No gym required.
Yeah...people get their confidence and usually point at it and say that it's the reason for their success, therefore it will be the reason for everyone else's. Everyone has their own personal qualities that will cause them to be attractive but group think tends to get people to follow someone else's strengths instead of embracing our own individual strength. The guys that get that when starting out will do way better than the guy that follows someone else's formula in the long run.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Tue Jul 19, 2016 12:49 am ]
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Unless he's going to stroll around town naked, going to the gym is going to have relatively little impact on his ability to raise attraction, particularly in the short-term.
Science matters.

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I know fat 40 year old men dating (to my eyes) attractive girls about half their age. No gym required.
The gym is always required. Be the best you can be at all levels.
Author:  Autoregressive [ Tue Jul 19, 2016 1:13 am ]
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Science matters.

You're going to have to elaborate quite a bit here.
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The gym is always required. Be the best you can be at all levels.
Sure, but this doesn't help the OP in the short or medium term. Just focusing on the long-term fixes isn't going to fly with most people.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Tue Jul 19, 2016 2:09 am ]
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Reducing your carb intake in order to repair the classic "carb face" that 97% of people have can happen very quickly and with tremendous results.
Author:  Autoregressive [ Tue Jul 19, 2016 2:39 am ]
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Reducing your carb intake in order to repair the classic "carb face" that 97% of people have can happen very quickly and with tremendous results.
Interesting.

Source?
Author:  neo87 [ Tue Jul 19, 2016 4:14 am ]
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I think Arch's point is valid, in that OP, youve been here for over a year, and you're still in the same place. There is no short or medium term solution. I dont know what you can do within a short time frame to get girls from being "ehh" to "yeah" about you. That requires alot of things to change. Maybe its your body, your style, your escalation, your vibe, your conversation...maybe its a combination. You're basically saying attractive women arent interested in you. So you're not attractive. If you'd like to change that, I'd recommend accepting that its not overnight, and its not a line or 2 thats gonna change it. I'd also recommend starting a journal here and getting actual advice on how to improve your looks/style, while working on the other things. Be prepared to make more approaches and experiment.
Author:  Dragula [ Tue Jul 19, 2016 5:10 am ]
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In my opinion

Your style is THE quickest thing you can do for yourself that will give you FAST results. It is the 1st thing a girl will notice about you and says SOOO much about you. I have a friend who is a PT instructor but he wears straight legged jeans and a t-shirt but I get way more attention than him despite being in a bad shape

Gym is great and Carb face is a great way to become good looking, but this takes some time. Do both! but your style you can literally solve this very weekend if you wanted to.

My friend started to dress better though and now get's more attention now that his style is up to par, but now he got his adonis body working for him.

Now, I think where most guys go wrong is, you do not get attention in such way where a girl will approach you and say 'OMG, you're hot' - it will be more subtle like standing near you but you just know when you say hi they are ready to talk to you. That's what I mean by getting attention. So if you still having crippling AA and blaming your looks. ..then being in shape, or dressing well or having the best jawline ain't gonna do shit.
Author:  thequietlife [ Fri Jul 29, 2016 2:24 pm ]
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Without knocking anyone, as i have already mention, I'm quite confident in my looks and dress sense. For the job role I'm in, its the MAIN reason you get employed.Obviously without divulging too much, its may be hard for without photo evidence to take my word, but hey ho.
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