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Author:  LenaBean [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 1:58 pm ]
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So me and this guy are 1.5/2 months in. We saw each other Saturday,Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday. All those days he asked to see me. He texted me on Wednesday and then again on Thursday after eventually not responding back the previous day. Cool, but then we went 5 days of no contact and I had to reach out to him. I'm seriously considering just cutting him off. Isn't that too much time to not say anything?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 2:09 pm ]
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So me and this guy are 1.5/2 months in. We saw each other Saturday,Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday. All those days he asked to see me. He texted me on Wednesday and then again on Thursday after eventually not responding back the previous day. Cool, but then we went 5 days of no contact and I had to reach out to him. I'm seriously considering just cutting him off. Isn't that too much time to not say anything?
Perhaps he has a life?
Author:  LenaBean [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 2:19 pm ]
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I'm sure he does. He said he's not glued to his phone but still isn't this a sign of him not giving a crap/not being that into me?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 2:32 pm ]
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I'm sure he does. He said he's not glued to his phone but still isn't this a sign of him not giving a crap/not being that into me?
It's a strong sign you are not his only 'liaison'.
Author:  LenaBean [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 2:38 pm ]
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I'm sure he does. He said he's not glued to his phone but still isn't this a sign of him not giving a crap/not being that into me?

It's a strong sign you are not his only 'liaison'.
Hmm maybe so. It's weird because he brought up being exclusive that Tuesday before.
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 2:47 pm ]
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I'm sure he does. He said he's not glued to his phone but still isn't this a sign of him not giving a crap/not being that into me?

It's a strong sign you are not his only 'liaison'.
Hmm maybe so. It's weird because he brought up being exclusive that Tuesday before.

What happened when he brought it up?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 2:56 pm ]
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I'm sure he does. He said he's not glued to his phone but still isn't this a sign of him not giving a crap/not being that into me?

It's a strong sign you are not his only 'liaison'.
Hmm maybe so. It's weird because he brought up being exclusive that Tuesday before.
Ask to use his phone. Watch for a look of terror.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 4:19 pm ]
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Ask to use his phone. Watch for a look of terror.
lol


Ya I am curious to know what your reply was to his exclusive question
Author:  LenaBean [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 7:10 pm ]
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Ask to use his phone. Watch for a look of terror.
lol


Ya I am curious to know what your reply was to his exclusive question
Well he saw that another guy was calling me and made a joke at first about me having a 'roster and said that my 'number 1' was calling. He then proceeds to say he has a number one as well but then retracts it and said that he was just kidding because he doesn't have a number 1. I'm his number 1 and only 1. Then he asked me if this other guy was really my number 1 *rolls eyes*. It was an awkward moment so I turned away and rolled my eyes and that's when he said "seriously? am I not?". I started laughing (uncomfortable laugh) and said you are but then he said I was lying because I was laughing. I said that I wouldn't lie to him.

After that we were kissing and he stops and pulls us apart and said, "can we just stop playing games it's just you and me okay?" and I just okay. Lol. That was that.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 7:15 pm ]
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Ask to use his phone. Watch for a look of terror.
lol


Ya I am curious to know what your reply was to his exclusive question
Well he saw that another guy was calling me and made a joke at first about me having a 'roster and said that my 'number 1' was calling. He then proceeds to say he has a number one as well but then retracts it and said that he was just kidding because he doesn't have a number 1. I'm his number 1 and only 1. Then he asked me if this other guy was really my number 1 *rolls eyes*. It was an awkward moment so I turned away and rolled my eyes and that's when he said "seriously? am I not?". I started laughing (uncomfortable laugh) and said you are but then he said I was lying because I was laughing. I said that I wouldn't lie to him.

After that we were kissing and he stops and pulls us apart and said, "can we just stop playing games it's just you and me okay?" and I just okay. Lol. That was that.
But you still flirt with other men right?
Author:  LenaBean [ Sat Jul 16, 2016 11:25 pm ]
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Ya I am curious to know what your reply was to his exclusive question[/quote]

Well he saw that another guy was calling me and made a joke at first about me having a 'roster and said that my 'number 1' was calling. He then proceeds to say he has a number one as well but then retracts it and said that he was just kidding because he doesn't have a number 1. I'm his number 1 and only 1. Then he asked me if this other guy was really my number 1 *rolls eyes*. It was an awkward moment so I turned away and rolled my eyes and that's when he said "seriously? am I not?". I started laughing (uncomfortable laugh) and said you are but then he said I was lying because I was laughing. I said that I wouldn't lie to him.

After that we were kissing and he stops and pulls us apart and said, "can we just stop playing games it's just you and me okay?" and I just okay. Lol. That was that.[/quote]

But you still flirt with other men right?[/quote]


A few weeks ago he asked me to go on a 4 day he trip with him. I ran into him last night and he pretty much said that he jumped the gun with asking about the trip and feels like we're moving too fast but tried to kind of pin it on me while saying "he's not good at this".Wth? HE asked me to go. HE said all that stuff to me about not seeing other people and spilling his feelings (despite being drunk) and then a week or so later we're moving too fast? He even told his roommate that I was going on the trip so he seemed excited about it, but we're moving too fast? Yea ok.

Then other guys were trying to talk to me while we were out and my girlfriends said he was watching me all night and he looked pissed when they were talking to me. Eventually he came over to where I was sitting on the couch and then positioned himself on the back of the couch so that I was between his legs and then he tried rub my shoulder but I just nudged him off.
Author:  LenaBean [ Sat Jul 16, 2016 11:25 pm ]
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Ya I am curious to know what your reply was to his exclusive question[/quote]

Well he saw that another guy was calling me and made a joke at first about me having a 'roster and said that my 'number 1' was calling. He then proceeds to say he has a number one as well but then retracts it and said that he was just kidding because he doesn't have a number 1. I'm his number 1 and only 1. Then he asked me if this other guy was really my number 1 *rolls eyes*. It was an awkward moment so I turned away and rolled my eyes and that's when he said "seriously? am I not?". I started laughing (uncomfortable laugh) and said you are but then he said I was lying because I was laughing. I said that I wouldn't lie to him.

After that we were kissing and he stops and pulls us apart and said, "can we just stop playing games it's just you and me okay?" and I just okay. Lol. That was that.[/quote]

But you still flirt with other men right?[/quote]


A few weeks ago he asked me to go on a 4 day he trip with him. I ran into him last night and he pretty much said that he jumped the gun with asking about the trip and feels like we're moving too fast but tried to kind of pin it on me while saying "he's not good at this".Wth? HE asked me to go. HE said all that stuff to me about not seeing other people and spilling his feelings (despite being drunk) and then a week or so later we're moving too fast? He even told his roommate that I was going on the trip so he seemed excited about it, but we're moving too fast? Yea ok.

Then other guys were trying to talk to me while we were out and my girlfriends said he was watching me all night and he looked pissed when they were talking to me. Eventually he came over to where I was sitting on the couch and then positioned himself on the back of the couch so that I was between his legs and then he tried rub my shoulder but I just nudged him off.
Author:  LenaBean [ Sat Jul 16, 2016 11:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 5 days no contact?
Ya I am curious to know what your reply was to his exclusive question[/quote]

Well he saw that another guy was calling me and made a joke at first about me having a 'roster and said that my 'number 1' was calling. He then proceeds to say he has a number one as well but then retracts it and said that he was just kidding because he doesn't have a number 1. I'm his number 1 and only 1. Then he asked me if this other guy was really my number 1 *rolls eyes*. It was an awkward moment so I turned away and rolled my eyes and that's when he said "seriously? am I not?". I started laughing (uncomfortable laugh) and said you are but then he said I was lying because I was laughing. I said that I wouldn't lie to him.

After that we were kissing and he stops and pulls us apart and said, "can we just stop playing games it's just you and me okay?" and I just okay. Lol. That was that.[/quote]

But you still flirt with other men right?[/quote]

No, not on purpose.

A few weeks ago he asked me to go on a 4 day he trip with him. I ran into him last night and he pretty much said that he jumped the gun with asking about the trip and feels like we're moving too fast but tried to kind of pin it on me while saying "he's not good at this".Wth? HE asked me to go. HE said all that stuff to me about not seeing other people and spilling his feelings (despite being drunk) and then a week or so later we're moving too fast? He even told his roommate that I was going on the trip so he seemed excited about it, but we're moving too fast? Yea ok.

Then other guys were trying to talk to me while we were out and my girlfriends said he was watching me all night and he looked pissed when they were talking to me. Eventually he came over to where I was sitting on the couch and then positioned himself on the back of the couch so that I was between his legs and then he tried rub my shoulder but I just nudged him off.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Jul 16, 2016 11:35 pm ]
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Ask to use his phone. Watch for a look of terror.


I second this lol.


OP let him be. To be quite honest, seems like he's dicking around a bit. I used do that back in my younger days, flip flop like a pancake when I was unsure about my options.


Yeah, he probably has other girls.
Author:  dannmann1992 [ Sat Jul 16, 2016 11:47 pm ]
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Ask to use his phone. Watch for a look of terror.


I second this lol.


OP let him be. To be quite honest, seems like he's dicking around a bit. I used do that back in my younger days, flip flop like a pancake when I was unsure about my options.


Yeah, he probably has other girls.
That's always a possibility but he was perfectly fine until he said all that stuff drunk to OP then he started to pull back. Asking a woman to go on a 4 day trip before being bf/gf means dude was looking to get serious. I think he scared himself because he got super emotional when he got drunk. Plus your response to him wasn't bad but it wasn't good. You laughed at this guy when he asked if he was your number one after he told you that you're his 1 and only person. He even went so far as to say that he thought you were lying when you did say he's your number one, which by the way you never said he's the only one. When he said it's just you two all you said was "ok". I wouldn't be completely sold it I was him.

So he was fine with the trip right before he spilled his feelings and then a week after he started to withdraw. Yea,he doesn't want to be made a fool and is backtracking.

How old are y'all?
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