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Author:  faro1977 [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 7:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Major Complicated! cant figure it out
Hi All

Need some advice for a fairly complex situation.

I'm basically an owner of a company, im 39, married, in good shape, relatively good looking and pretty wealthy. One hot girl that works for me (has long term BF etc) is a real interest. Shes 25 and we are really close.

We have recently got really close, she lets me touch her wherever I want (side of boobs, butt, just above pussy, hands, face etc etc) she likes it and lets me kiss her

We were in a hotel room together the other night she let me get close to her physically but I didnt escalate.

the only thing is when I go to kiss her on her lips she turns her head away.

Im thinking this is ASD and the situation is a tad complicated with work etc. She always says she wont sleep with me with a smile but then lets me do whatever to her

She squeezes my hand when I hold hers etc etc

Any advice appreciated

oh and please dont judge me :D
Author:  n2thevoid [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 7:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Major Complicated! cant figure it out
You're married. Don't be a jackass. If you can't keep your dick in your pants you should have thought twice before you put a ring on it (your wife's finger not your cock).


"Please don't judge" doesn't exempt you from judgment anymore than prefacing a jerky statement to your friend with "I don't mean to sound like an asshole but...". Things don't work that way, sorry.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 7:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Major Complicated! cant figure it out
What's the goal here? What do you expect?
Author:  Finished [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 7:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Major Complicated! cant figure it out
You are always going to want to fuck hot girls through biology so I don't judge you at all. Marriage in the case of traditional monogamous relationships is not natural for a man. I do however think you made a mistake in marrying, because now you want to fuck the hot 25 year old just like every other man in the world would but there's potential repercussions of that because of your situation.

Anyway...

What exactly are you seeking advice for... fucking this hot 25 year old piece of ass and cheating on your wife or, moral advice on whether you should actually take that action or not and what the consequences of doing so would be?
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Major Complicated! cant figure it out
Careful OP, you may lose your business and wife over this.
Author:  HBwarm-Cph [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 8:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Major Complicated! cant figure it out
What's there to figure out?

STOP thinking with you dick and try to get some blod flowing to your brain again! You are married, and you are at the same time risking your entire business by sleeping with a girl, whom is employed in you company...

Think for another second and then try to figure out what to do next... it's pretty obvious.
Author:  faro1977 [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 9:19 pm ]
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I'm not asking for advice from a moral perspective as to whether this is right or wrong, I know it's wrong.

I'm more interested in what you guys think she is thinking, why she's let me get close to her physically and emotionally but moves away when we kiss ( we have kissed on the lips a couple times but nothing long or lingering)

Is she worried about repucussions? Shes like totally hot and seems into it
Author:  nr32 [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 11:45 pm ]
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Don't shit where you eat. Or sleep.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jun 22, 2016 12:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Major Complicated! cant figure it out
She's thinking about your fat wallet Bro.
Author:  Finished [ Wed Jun 22, 2016 9:43 pm ]
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Don't shit where you eat. Or sleep.
He'll be sleeping on the fucking sidewalk if there's no prenup involved.
Author:  nr32 [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 5:10 am ]
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Don't shit where you eat. Or sleep.
He'll be sleeping on the fucking sidewalk if there's no prenup involved.
Yep, a cousin got divorced recently and the judge ordered 65% of all of his earnings, including his house, to go to the ex.

OP is walking a thin line.
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 5:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Major Complicated! cant figure it out
Next time just simply leave out the 'married' part and then you would actually get some practical advice for the 25-year-old lol

I think it's a simple case of LMR, you didn't try hard enough. Kiss her neck, suck her nipples, turn her on like crazy. (The kissing things makes me ponder if she is a virgin or not)

Anway, the fact you're in a hotel and not your own place only highlights you're up to something shady which itself can cause resistance
Author:  R.C [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 7:22 am ]
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My only question is why would you risk your business and/or marriage over this?

I'm not judging, I'm just curious. She can complicate both your personal and professional life if, or rather when, things go bad.

Best case scenario you get to satisfy your craving.
Worst case scenario you lose both your wife and your business goes to shit.

It's simply a bad bet.
Author:  faro1977 [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 11:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Major Complicated! cant figure it out
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Next time just simply leave out the 'married' part and then you would actually get some practical advice for the 25-year-old lol

I think it's a simple case of LMR, you didn't try hard enough. Kiss her neck, suck her nipples, turn her on like crazy. (The kissing things makes me ponder if she is a virgin or not)

Anway, the fact you're in a hotel and not your own place only highlights you're up to something shady which itself can cause resistance
thanks for this, I do kiss her neck etc and she doesnt back away, she lets me touch her wherever I want. we were in a hotel because it was work related. She came to my room because she said she wanted to come and see me, before long we were laying in bed together. Maybe I should have escalated more

we held hands I had my hands below her belt, I had my hands on her boobs

shes not a virgin

maybe I should have left the marriage bit out, but I wanted to tell you guys the full situation

Any help without pressing me on the marriage thing would be appreciated,
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Jun 24, 2016 12:05 am ]
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Any help without pressing me on the marriage thing would be appreciated,
I understand you want to hear what you want to hear. The problem is that you're dick is doing all of the thinking. Everyone is looking out for your best interests and your best interests don't coincide with what you want.
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Maybe I should have escalated more
Ding ding ding...the man gets a prize.
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