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Author:  Ricardo999 [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 7:22 am ]
Post subject:  Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
Last Saturday I approached a girl in a supermarket and told her "You take my breath away. Can we meet up for drinks one night"? She was gobsmacked, but seemed keen, asked me a few questions about myself. We swapped numbers and I rang her mobile in front of her to make sure she got my number. We parted ways and an hour later she rang me - asking who I was as she had a missed call - she then said she didnt hear her phone ring in the supermarket. Anyway, we had a brief chat and arranged to meet Tuesday. The date was incredible, she seemd very keen and at the end of the night things got very steamy and she said she wants to come to my place next Wednesday night - 15th. I agreed, I got home and she text me saying thanks for a great night. I replied in the morning, she then told me what time she would be at mine. This was Wed lunchtime. So....no texts on either side since, but thats ok, I don't want to smother her.....my question is should I text her Saturday if Ive not heard from her? I don't want to appear too keen but on the other hand I don't want to appear too beta/needy either!
Author:  Dorian_G [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 7:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
I don't get it. Did you setup a date for Wednesday and she didnt show up?
Author:  JustSimplyAttracted [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 7:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
What happened to Wednesday, why didn't she come over? Regardless set up a date as soon as possible
Author:  Ricardo999 [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 9:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
Sorry guys I am due to see her NEXT Wednedsay - 25th. Have edited my OP.
Author:  Dorian_G [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 9:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
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Sorry guys I am due to see her NEXT Wednedsay - 25th. Have edited my OP.
Personally I would I asume the date is on and text no further, enjoy my weekend and fuck her on Wednesday.

I been trying this lately, and it works wonders so far. No aimless chatting between dates. If she text try to build on the sexual tension before the date, and end conversation when you're on top. No chit-chat.

When a date is set, I have little to win and a lot to loose by texting (I tend to fuck it up). Texting is for setting up dates, so you can seduce and fuck her IRL.
Author:  kidfromcro [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 10:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
what i always do is i send a text about 1-2 hours before our meeting if it"s been more then few days after i set it up in case she forgot or whatever her reasons might be,telling her i"ll be a bit late,postpone it by half an hour
Author:  Dorian_G [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 10:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
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what i always do is i send a text about 1-2 hours before our meeting if it"s been more then few days after i set it up in case she forgot or whatever her reasons might be,telling her i"ll be a bit late,postpone it by half an hour
Good one. I will steal this. Thank you :mrgreen:
Author:  sadDog [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 3:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
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what i always do is i send a text about 1-2 hours before our meeting if it"s been more then few days after i set it up in case she forgot or whatever her reasons might be,telling her i"ll be a bit late,postpone it by half an hour
this is a good one, I will use too. haha
Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 3:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
just text as normal drop a hint of where you're going to take her/what u'll do be vague so as to build anticipation "guess you're going to have to find out wednesday night;)" sorta thing
Author:  Ricardo999 [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 8:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
Well since I posted this she has messaged me....so all looking good. I'm convinced her being keen is because I held back a bit since our date.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Jun 10, 2016 8:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Had the best first date of my life - need advice please!
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Well since I posted this she has messaged me....so all looking good. I'm convinced her being keen is because I held back a bit since our date.
Or because she enjoyed the date. Careful with your assumptions.
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