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Author:  salsifter [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 10:06 am ]
Post subject:  When the lady wants to go back to her friends
I was dancing tonight and I met this lady from out of town, who is leaving tomorrow. There was a small dance festival so there were a bunch of new ladies for the weekend.

We had like 3 dances and I asked her to come get a cup of tea (avoiding drinks!) after Salsa. She declined saying she was seeing (or staying at?) __CITY__ friends tonight.

Later I asked her to exchange numbers incase we visit each others cities. So she write down her number and I was saying goodbye. However the new me wants to pull HARD

I kissed her on the cheek. I think she wanted a lip kiss. I. What should I do in situations where the lady wants to go back to / with her friends; but I wanna rock her world?

I think in a similar situation I would kiss her on the cheek and say "let's go outside for a real kiss" and from then lead her to a quiet nearby place :D

I didn't kiss her cause I felt like there would be no reason if she was going tomorrow; but NOW I'm gonna make sure I chip away at these "road blocks" and not give up easily!
Author:  kidfromcro [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 11:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: When the lady wants to go back to her friends
We had like 3 dances and I asked her to come get a cup of tea (avoiding drinks!) after Salsa. She declined saying she was seeing (or staying at?) __CITY__ friends tonight.

you just got rejected

Later I asked her to exchange numbers incase we visit each others cities


you know that"s probably never gonna happen
Author:  R.C [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 1:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the lady wants to go back to her friends
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I kissed her on the cheek. I think she wanted a lip kiss. I. What should I do in situations where the lady wants to go back to / with her friends; but I wanna rock her world?
This is like asking what you should do if you just lost a flight but really wanna ride that plane. Get there on time.
Or in this case, make her want to be with you rather than her friends.
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I think in a similar situation I would kiss her on the cheek and say "let's go outside for a real kiss" and from then lead her to a quiet nearby place :D
This is a girl you barely met. I can guarantee you that if you start talking about your intentions she'll be so turned off she'll start running. Women want you to lead, not talk about leading.
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I didn't kiss her cause I felt like there would be no reason if she was going tomorrow; but NOW I'm gonna make sure I chip away at these "road blocks" and not give up easily!
You may as well stop eating since you're gonna die someday anyway.

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Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 2:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the lady wants to go back to her friends
Most girls aren't going to be comfortable shoving their tongue down some dudes throat in front of all of their friends. She may never see you again but she's gotta wake up and be cute, sweet little Becky again in the morning. She's got to protect her image.

All the poo-ah guys will probably tell you just keep pushing, but I'll tell you this, from experience I've found that if you show that extreme level of social intelligence and awareness of a woman's feelings, it will get you much further in the long run than trying to get her to "come outside for a real kiss."

You're a grown man. Act like it. ;)
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 3:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the lady wants to go back to her friends
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I asked her to come get a cup of tea (avoiding drinks!)
Avoid drink at all cost, she's probably allergic. WTF?
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I kissed her on the cheek. I think she wanted a lip kiss.
Also a good idea to back off from what she really wants??
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 6:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the lady wants to go back to her friends
At that point you're playing with the rubber band. You can pull on it, and pull on it, which will build up the tension, but pull too hard or for too long and it will pop and the tension and attraction will no longer be there. However, in these case of a girl thats not even going to be in your city after that day, why not just pop the rubber band if you have to? Go for it. See how far you can pull before it pops. Just know how to back off at that moment. When you can feel the tension completely deleted. The kiss could of been a good way to build the tension up, which would of built up her level of compliance to your request btw.

Some lays come easy, some involve more persuasion and pushing. Just don't neglect the dozens of other women in the same area that you could be taking home as well.
Author:  salsifter [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 10:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the lady wants to go back to her friends
Oh I forgot to mention I was being all sexual in my dances with her already, with good response. Duh. Thanks for the input guys, I'll move on. :)

Majikal I read some of your website posts, material is really golden.
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