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Author:  thequietlife [ Tue May 24, 2016 6:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Stop explaining yourself, when things don't add up!
Have you ever been in a situation, where a girls actions don't match up with what she's saying and somehow ends up turning into an argument,then the girl has 101 reasons as to why she's she hasn't done anything and it was all your fault.

Now this is about causing an argument for when a girl is genuinely unhappy you've done something wrong. Like saying you was going to do something and letting her down being example,not that kinda shit. The kind where you're asking yourself is this really happening? Huh.....does this doesn't make sense.

Wel great tip for you especially if it's not your partner, don't rationalise what's going on and end up arguing your point. I usually find this happens when a girls not interested and wants to create some sort of distance, ie doesn't like you( usually has someone else lined up)

Recognise when shit isn't adding up. DO NOT TRY AND EXPLAIN YOURSELF....JUST ABORT THE CONVERSATION.
Author:  JackZero [ Tue May 24, 2016 6:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop explaining yourself, when things don't add up!
What does this accomplish for you? You've let her unload the blame for something that's not your fault onto you and you aren't willing to make a stand for yourself. It seems kind of weak to me and it's the type of things that builds how interactions and the type of respect you get as the man in the relationship in the future.
Author:  thequietlife [ Tue May 24, 2016 6:42 pm ]
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the accomplishment comes realise that the girl in certain scenarios, is dicking you around. When a girls totally into you they're more compliant and give you less shit......just saying.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Tue May 24, 2016 6:46 pm ]
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What does this accomplish for you? You've let her unload the blame for something that's not your fault onto you and you aren't willing to make a stand for yourself. It seems kind of weak to me and it's the type of things that builds how interactions and the type of respect you get as the man in the relationship in the future.
Yup. Another chode w poor boundaries.
Author:  bartm [ Tue May 24, 2016 6:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop explaining yourself, when things don't add up!
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Have you ever been in a situation, where a girls actions don't match up with what she's saying and somehow ends up turning into an argument,then the girl has 101 reasons as to why she's she hasn't done anything and it was all your fault.

Now this is about causing an argument for when a girl is genuinely unhappy you've done something wrong. Like saying you was going to do something and letting her down being example,not that kinda shit. The kind where you're asking yourself is this really happening? Huh.....does this doesn't make sense.

Wel great tip for you especially if it's not your partner, don't rationalise what's going on and end up arguing your point. I usually find this happens when a girls not interested and wants to create some sort of distance, ie doesn't like you( usually has someone else lined up)

Recognise when shit isn't adding up. DO NOT TRY AND EXPLAIN YOURSELF....JUST ABORT THE CONVERSATION.

you mean girls are not rational? you mean logic doesn't mean anything to them? gasp. what a surprise.
Author:  thequietlife [ Tue May 24, 2016 8:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop explaining yourself, when things don't add up!
Just trying to help the guys who aren't in the loop, as a "seasoned " veteran by the sounds of things you would know that.

Second of all, just my input and trying to help some guys that are going in circle and asking why why why all the time. Side note, either way you don't win. Because had I said you tell the girl x y z. Then you get called a bitch for piping up. That's just my input on things, whether you take it on board merry not really my problem.
Author:  JackZero [ Tue May 24, 2016 8:17 pm ]
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Just trying to help the guys who aren't in the loop, as a "seasoned " veteran by the sounds of things you would know that.

Second of all, just my input and trying to help some guys that are going in circle and asking why why why all the time. Side note, either way you don't win. Because had I said you tell the girl x y z. Then you get called a bitch for piping up. That's just my input on things, whether you take it on board merry not really my problem.
If you're getting called a bitch for piping up, you're a bitch for staying in it. There is a clear line of respect that is being crossed. That's my point. Never put yourself in a position that allows for disrespect later down the line. Once you lose a woman's respect, you are on the road to losing the woman.

There are smart ways to dealing with disagreements, but avoiding it is one of the worst ways.
Author:  neo87 [ Tue May 24, 2016 8:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop explaining yourself, when things don't add up!
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Have you ever been in a situation, where a girls actions don't match up with what she's saying and somehow ends up turning into an argument,then the girl has 101 reasons as to why she's she hasn't done anything and it was all your fault.

Now this is about causing an argument for when a girl is genuinely unhappy you've done something wrong. Like saying you was going to do something and letting her down being example,not that kinda shit. The kind where you're asking yourself is this really happening? Huh.....does this doesn't make sense.

Wel great tip for you especially if it's not your partner, don't rationalise what's going on and end up arguing your point. I usually find this happens when a girls not interested and wants to create some sort of distance, ie doesn't like you( usually has someone else lined up)

Recognise when shit isn't adding up. DO NOT TRY AND EXPLAIN YOURSELF....JUST ABORT THE CONVERSATION.

I'm confused on what you're talking about. What is an example?
Author:  thequietlife [ Tue May 24, 2016 10:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop explaining yourself, when things don't add up!
Girl A: spoken for a while, made phone calls no answer to set a date,always pops me up with nudes or something sexual, videos using a dildo etc. Can never give me a solid date. Morning of meeting a guy in my city, she sends me nudes, to later tell me she's meeting someone.

After that i asked her what that was about, since she couldn't make time to see myself, she then started to say she didn't think i was interested( so you send pictures of you finger blasting the life out your pussy to guys you aren't interested in...oh makes sense) then i no put of speaking unless were meeting up, proceeded to text me. i ignored all texts and messages, asked her if she's ready to meet for her to turn round and go I'm not meeting someone who i don't speak to ?

Girl B: Depending on where she is (with uni mates etc) or seeing someone at the time. Shell be really cocky and insult me out of nowhere, until it suits her to want some more dick basically.
Author:  Finished [ Tue May 24, 2016 10:24 pm ]
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Girl A: spoken for a while, made phone calls no answer to set a date,always pops me up with nudes or something sexual, videos using a dildo etc. Can never give me a solid date. Morning of meeting a guy in my city, she sends me nudes, to later tell me she's meeting someone.

After that i asked her what that was about, since she couldn't make time to see myself, she then started to say she didn't think i was interested( so you send pictures of you finger blasting the life out your pussy to guys you aren't interested in...oh makes sense) then i no put of speaking unless were meeting up, proceeded to text me. i ignored all texts and messages, asked her if she's ready to meet for her to turn round and go I'm not meeting someone who i don't speak to ?
Have you ever met this girl in real life?
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Girl B: Depending on where she is (with uni mates etc) or seeing someone at the time. Shell be really cocky and insult me out of nowhere, until it suits her to want some more dick basically.
Either give her some banter back or ignore it completely. Fucking hell mate.

I don't know if this is a post giving advice or asking for advice.
Author:  thequietlife [ Tue May 24, 2016 10:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop explaining yourself, when things don't add up!
She does get lol don't worry about that ;)

Also no...but thats not the point. Theres such a big deal out of guys meeting/not meeting girls of the internet. While theres guys out there smashing them. I don't care how someone got the pussy, the idea of internet/non-internet is bizarre to me. Our end goal is the same to fuck.

Like i said prior, i don't get why theres such a big deal about internet game, when guys get laid off there constantly.Times are changing, game is to certain extent is mimic what naturals do naturally. Now I'm sure naturals are complaining they got laid off online. Naturals do it, don't see why it gets such a bad rep in pua. Just another skill in my opinion.
Author:  JackZero [ Tue May 24, 2016 10:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop explaining yourself, when things don't add up!
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Girl A: spoken for a while, made phone calls no answer to set a date,always pops me up with nudes or something sexual, videos using a dildo etc. Can never give me a solid date. Morning of meeting a guy in my city, she sends me nudes, to later tell me she's meeting someone.

After that i asked her what that was about, since she couldn't make time to see myself, she then started to say she didn't think i was interested( so you send pictures of you finger blasting the life out your pussy to guys you aren't interested in...oh makes sense) then i no put of speaking unless were meeting up, proceeded to text me. i ignored all texts and messages, asked her if she's ready to meet for her to turn round and go I'm not meeting someone who i don't speak to ?

Girl B: Depending on where she is (with uni mates etc) or seeing someone at the time. Shell be really cocky and insult me out of nowhere, until it suits her to want some more dick basically.
I'm not seeing how these things turn into an argument unless YOU are taking it to the argumentative level. Seems like they both are giving you blue balls and you may be a little sensitive.
Author:  neo87 [ Tue May 24, 2016 11:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop explaining yourself, when things don't add up!
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Girl A: spoken for a while, made phone calls no answer to set a date,always pops me up with nudes or something sexual, videos using a dildo etc. Can never give me a solid date. Morning of meeting a guy in my city, she sends me nudes, to later tell me she's meeting someone.

After that i asked her what that was about, since she couldn't make time to see myself, she then started to say she didn't think i was interested( so you send pictures of you finger blasting the life out your pussy to guys you aren't interested in...oh makes sense) then i no put of speaking unless were meeting up, proceeded to text me. i ignored all texts and messages, asked her if she's ready to meet for her to turn round and go I'm not meeting someone who i don't speak to ?

Girl B: Depending on where she is (with uni mates etc) or seeing someone at the time. Shell be really cocky and insult me out of nowhere, until it suits her to want some more dick basically.
I'm not seeing how these things turn into an argument unless YOU are taking it to the argumentative level. Seems like they both are giving you blue balls and you may be a little sensitive.

Yeah this doesn't relate to what you were saying. The first girl is either a catfish or at the very least a girl not really into you playing for attention. Calling her out or not has no impact...you haven't met and never will. So it shouldn't be about whether to explain yourself...it should be cut and move on. It's not even an Internet / not internet thing....shes not interested or a catfish. She isn't meeting because of where you met her ...she's just not interested or playing around or a dude. This is not example of a girl not meeting you because you met online.



Second girl I don't get what you're saying

Sorry but this just sounds like you're coming up with ideas and spreading them way too soon
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