I can finance a car, and then finally move on to looking for women. However I don't know what I want between a LTR, marriage, or sleeping around.

The one big hurdle in my life(or so I think) was fixed when I got my diploma(not gonna use that other term) in March. Now the next big thing is to find a good hiring job with that that I would like. Once I have the job after a maybe a couple weeks I can finance a car, and then finally move on to looking for women. However I don't know what I want between a LTR, marriage, or sleeping around.

There are some kinks that still need to be worked out.

It's good that you're getting your shit together with regards to finance and what not. But you must realise, why postpone looking for women until you've a job, comfy bank balance, a car etc.? Every day is a gift, and every day is a chance to get something, or to miss out on something. You're missing out on numerous opportunities man.

With regards to what you want with women, baby steps my dude. Don't go in expecting anything or looking for anything. If you go out to meet women looking for a GF/wife you're going to fail most of the time, and the other times you'll end up with someone who in the long run doesn't make you happy because your brain told you "we need a GF/wife now" and that's not reality. Go in there and see what happens, have the best of expectations, but give yourself room to have fun with it, to fail, to adapt, to be free.

Being conservative and precise about every detail of your life limits you incredibly my dude. Give yourself space to be free.

-D

Because I have no money to be able to do those things right now. I need a decent paycheck to be able to or a car. I live in a average sized town where the dating pool is small and I am agoraphobic as well in this town. Besides hasn't it been said women want men with money, jobs, etc? The only outlet I may have is dating sites and I am not going to be able to provide the transportation.