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Author:  Vegeeta [ Fri May 13, 2016 11:04 pm ]
Post subject:  To text or not!
Last Sunday I was out with my best friends getting pissed. As it turned out, a girl who one of them is seeing, was out with her cousin that night and they joined us. Cousin was an absolute stunner and after 1-2h of chatting we were all over each other. Unfortunately, I've had a little too much to drink and my asshole side kicked in. After making out with her for solid 30 min I went to the bathroom and when I came back she was talking to some dudes (not that it matters she's from Australia and so were they). I don't remember too much from that moment onwards but I got her number, text her the next day and no reply.

I was out last night with the same friends and one of them told me that the reason she didn't text me back was because of what I said to her when I saw here with those Australian guys. Now I didn't know/remember this until they said it to me but I walked up to her and said "You've got a minute to leave them and come join me again". She thought it was an asshole act and that's what put her off.

Question - should I text her casually mentioning that trying to get her to come out for a drink with me or do I just leave it. She was hot and I'd definitely like to fuck her but at the same time I am not sure I want to make myself look desperate. I've got other options too.

If I was to text her I was thinking of saying this:

It was brought to my attention I mightn't have been the perfect gentleman the other night. How about a drink to make it up to you?
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri May 13, 2016 11:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: To text or not!
lol, bruh you made out for 30 minutes....you cray. As for your situation, ehhhhhhhhhhh....in my opinion you're coming from a supplication standpoint.
Author:  Vegeeta [ Fri May 13, 2016 11:16 pm ]
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lol, bruh you made out for 30 minutes....you cray. As for your situation, ehhhhhhhhhhh....in my opinion you're coming from a supplication standpoint.
You make it sound like it's a bad thing.

Fair, I agree. Going to leave it. Lesson learnt - less drink less unexpected shit to be said.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri May 13, 2016 11:19 pm ]
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lol, bruh you made out for 30 minutes....you cray. As for your situation, ehhhhhhhhhhh....in my opinion you're coming from a supplication standpoint.
You make it sound like it's a bad thing.

Fair, I agree. Going to leave it. Lesson learnt - less drink less unexpected shit to be said.

Well the thing is, two people can make out for so long. I'd make out and steer the conversation to a same night lay or a future lay meet up if logistics were not in the cards or she was self conscious about her period (if she had one).


But yes, drink less. Eye on the prize
Author:  Vegeeta [ Fri May 13, 2016 11:27 pm ]
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lol, bruh you made out for 30 minutes....you cray. As for your situation, ehhhhhhhhhhh....in my opinion you're coming from a supplication standpoint.
You make it sound like it's a bad thing.

Fair, I agree. Going to leave it. Lesson learnt - less drink less unexpected shit to be said.

Well the thing is, two people can make out for so long. I'd make out and steer the conversation to a same night lay or a future lay meet up if logistics were not in the cards or she was self conscious about her period (if she had one).


But yes, drink less. Eye on the prize
Just on that - what do you normally say to go from there to a future lay meet up? Logistics weren't ideal. I've been in this kind of situation before and when I talk to the girl next day I feel like I am re-starting the whole process of building the attraction and sexual tension.
Author:  dicemaster [ Sat May 14, 2016 12:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: To text or not!
Forget her, after you said you have one minute shit, you kicked your ass self out. Wise thing is wait and go fishing.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat May 14, 2016 2:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: To text or not!
If you can't take the girl home, just keep up the sexual attraction. Don't take steps back, instead push it further, sexualize/escalate more. What you say is more of your vibe and not your words. She knows you want to fuck her. She will give you that opportunity if you keep playing your cards right.
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