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| Author: | Ricardo999 [ Fri May 13, 2016 6:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
Approached a hot blonde in the supermarket about 18:30 UK time.....our chat went well so I now have her number. Should I leave it till the morning to tex as I don't want to appear too keen? Made that mistake loads of times in the past. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri May 13, 2016 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
Right then and there. While standing in front of her. |
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| Author: | Ricardo999 [ Fri May 13, 2016 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
Quote: Right then and there. While standing in front of her.
She already has it as I rang her. Right in front of her.
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Fri May 13, 2016 7:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
text her the following day the wait a few days stuff is nonsense ... if she's an Avoidant type she'll frame you as needy regardless, if she's Secure she'll be responsive and I am assuming you want someone who's secure and wont play game. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri May 13, 2016 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
Strike whilst the iron is hot Soon |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Fri May 13, 2016 8:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
The "looking too keen" and waiting thing is a bunch of crap. Why? 1) if you're needy/clingy your behavior will soon be known, you're just masking it by playing the waiting game - all the while building her up in your head 2) contacting early is a good way to weed-out (or 'qualify') seeing as you want somebody responsive to your needs; better off knowing this off the get-go rather than some time later 3) if she has a secure style of attachment and you wait some time before texting (probably well beyond a few days) she'll likely have already written you off, and will be indifferent about it framing it as you playing games and she'll simply move onto the next 4) ensures you'll stay fresh in her mind and aren't afraid to take initiative 5) gives you the chance to see how interested she really is, if she's 'short fuse' she'll make things easy for you (as it SHOULD be), but if she's a long fuse and requires a lot of work you can decide to put your energies elsewhere |
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| Author: | Ricardo999 [ Fri May 13, 2016 9:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
Quote: The "looking too keen" and waiting thing is a bunch of crap. Why?
Good advice bro. Its 22:22 UK time, so I reckon tommorow morning would be good to tex? Don't want to leave it any longer than that.
1) if you're needy/clingy your behavior will soon be known, you're just masking it by playing the waiting game - all the while building her up in your head 2) contacting early is a good way to weed-out (or 'qualify') seeing as you want somebody responsive to your needs; better off knowing this off the get-go rather than some time later 3) if she has a secure style of attachment and you wait some time before texting (probably well beyond a few days) she'll likely have already written you off, and will be indifferent about it framing it as you playing games and she'll simply move onto the next 4) ensures you'll stay fresh in her mind and aren't afraid to take initiative 5) gives you the chance to see how interested she really is, if she's 'short fuse' she'll make things easy for you (as it SHOULD be), but if she's a long fuse and requires a lot of work you can decide to put your energies elsewhere |
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| Author: | dicemaster [ Sat May 14, 2016 12:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
Op you should avoid texting fucking at 13.00. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat May 14, 2016 7:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
Quote: Op you should avoid texting fucking at 13.00.
Why? |
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| Author: | dicemaster [ Sat May 14, 2016 8:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
Cuz it is unholy |
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| Author: | kidfromcro [ Sat May 14, 2016 6:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
you get a number,text her right away,or just ring her so she could save your phone number,ask her what is she doing tonight or tomorow,set up a date,that way she will be expecting you to text her,call her out and... |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sat May 14, 2016 7:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
Howd it go? |
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| Author: | paxis [ Sun May 15, 2016 2:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to tex a girl after getting her number in the day? |
She gives you her number, you call right away while in front of her and chat through your phones. It's silly, but also funny. Say something like "I'm that handsome guy you met minutes ago." Don't wait, because waiting builds anticipation in your while it decreases her attraction. |
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