Well now you've put your foot in it.

If she doesn't comply and you help her anyway, it's game over.

She has tried this before. Thats why she came back today asking if i ever got the email with her resume. Of which my reply was "no, i didnt get the resume or pic ( o )Y( o )"

Stick to your guns

Prrtty much. And if it never happens ill just cut her off. She really has nothin to offer besides her box lol

But.. She's not giving you her box for help. You asked for a PICTURE. I have no idea why you'd complicate sex like this. Are you going to sleep with this make it or break it picture?

Whole point of asking for the pic is to not do this favor for free.
The pic is just for eye candy while im at work as well to keep the sexual vibe between us considering its been like a year since i've seen her in person

Isn't this all pretty silly? You've assumed attraction, as you should have, so there was no reason to do this tactic. Your compliance demand is blown way out of proportion. You would have done much better with something that got you and her in the same room. That is your real goal, isn't it?

Her: Can you help?
You: Send me some nude pics and I will.
Now you look like an ass.

Her: Can you help?
You: If you make me dinner I will.
That's a fair deal and you end up on her couch starting a movie that you two won't finish.

Your absolutly right. But sometimes people read too much into a situation and forget all about the original question to begin with. The onjective wasnt a f close.
So little history of this girl.
We met at my old job about 5 years ago. She pretty much served her pussy to me on a platter. She already was living with her LTR and they have kids together. I never had to take her out or go into any heavy game. She did all the work. Would even try to take my dick out in the middle of the street and everything. Same thing at work, lots of sexual escalation/tension and i even took pics of her with her pants down after she blowed men in the bathroom. We eventually fucked one night she invited me to sleep over her house while hubby was out of town. Last time we hung out was at the gym about a year ago and the sexual vibe was still there. This girl is pretty much a slut but Our schedules conflict alot now so thats why its difficult for a meet up and thats why i only asked for a pic. So this whole thing isnt about an f-close. Its about reigniting that flame and having her jump through my loops.
Inviting her to make dinner for me? Nah never needed it before so thats asking for too much.
She posts selfies on IG all the time so i screen shotted one and sent it to her. Telling her thats what i want, just minus the extra clothes. Bra & thong only. She laughed and said there u go, take that ig pic. At this point i let her know that she playing games and the pic on IG isnt sexy enough. I want something for my eyes only.
I might think that she's over the crush and that put me into the friendzone, thats why i said if she doesnt reply back with the pic, im not doing anything for her. And if she gets mad and leave then oh well. I would only be loosing a female friend that was good company nothing else

I get the original question and had that in mind when I made my statement. What you did is the equivalent of burned a bridge and then tried to figure out how to get back to the other side. You shouldn't make bad choices and then try to come up with a strategy to fix it.

I have literally read this 5 times and still confused.

I'll make this simple

If what you want is:

a) A sexy picture from her

Ok, thats kinda a long way to get a picture of a chick by helping her with her resume. Its crazy to me if youd want a picture that bad to help and throw away the chick over a picture

b) Sex

In that case, just invite her over.

Nothing you're saying makes sense. A picture isnt worth all this. Sex doesnt require a picture to be sent. You talk abt reestablishing the flames, I dont know if you honestly think that getting a girl to send you a pic begrudgingly makes her wet. Why are you throwing up a hoop for a chick you banged, who you assumed attraction with in the first place? You would really throw away a "good company female friend" because she doesnt send you a picture? Man you are making shit way too crazy and trying to game in this weird way. I'm literally confused as fuck what kinda game you're playing.