Change your clothes and the band-aids on your herpes blisters.

Change your clothes and the band-aids on your herpes blisters.

Turns out, they were just pimples lol.

I have a new sex friend that I picked up off the street from sarging one night. I never told her I'm married, but we will go to a love hotel tonight and I don't want to come home smelling like a woman. I can shower but the smell sometimes lingers in my clothes. Wearing cologne to mask it will only be more obvious. Maybe I need to throw my clothes once in the hotel, but in a way that comes off as sexy not desperate. Is it better to sometimes not tell a sex friend you have a wife if you think it will end the relationship? She is my hottest sex friend, so I want to be careful.

I don't think prostitutes are really all that discerning.

Do the moderators do anything on this forum or do they just let people fling shit at each other like caged apes?

Ok, so she is not a prostitute lol. Do the moderators do anything on this forum or do they just let people fling shit at each other like caged apes?

I think the best approach is to let them know before you get involved with them. She could be getting herself into something she isn't prepare for. You can't be so selfish that you'll use someone else for your own benefit at their expense. Make sure the air clear.

I also would suggest you letting your wife know that you still have interest in being with other women. It'd save you a lot of the paranoia and sneaking around. I personally have no interest in stressing myself out unnecessarily. You'll be surprised with what a woman is willing to accept if you approach her confidently and honestly.