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Author:  dicemaster [ Sun May 08, 2016 1:44 am ]
Post subject:  Over dressing

A quick question, what is the effect of dressing well on women?

According to psychology people feel comfortable around people who have similarities such as dressing, age group, background etc.

My question is, if dress very well like tuxedo kind of stuff in parties in your opinion , cause this feel other people divided by you, or respect you.

For me i am trying to dress according to type of parties but i wonder if you dress overly well cause this to people have some complexes?

Another point is one of my exes said that after i figured out that she lied about her graduation from university that she can never be upon me after that moment and feel always lower than me as status.

At that point i am aiming to understand the dynamics of complexes from people.

What is your opinion? Appreciate for opinions

Author:  Dragula [ Sun May 08, 2016 8:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Over dressing

This is life

When your mate's make fun of you and the girls compliment you, you know you have your style down to a tee

This is why most guys dress average is because of the fear of their friends and perhaps some near by haterz that see you making the girl's they like..Giggle and enjoy their attention

Be smart with it though, don't turn up to a beach volleyball game with a tuxedo, be calibrated and relevant

Author:  dicemaster [ Sun May 08, 2016 12:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Over dressing

Quote:
This is life

When your mate's make fun of you and the girls compliment you, you know you have your style down to a tee

This is why most guys dress average is because of the fear of their friends and perhaps some near by haterz that see you making the girl's they like..Giggle and enjoy their attention

Be smart with it though, don't turn up to a beach volleyball game with a tuxedo, be calibrated and relevant
I share the same opion with you thx. But the thing is, maybe dressing avarage can bring some advantage with. I dress classy , but when i take a look around most of the chicks have avarage dress so i dunno dressing classy is good or bad.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sun May 08, 2016 11:37 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
This is life

When your mate's make fun of you and the girls compliment you, you know you have your style down to a tee

This is why most guys dress average is because of the fear of their friends and perhaps some near by haterz that see you making the girl's they like..Giggle and enjoy their attention

Be smart with it though, don't turn up to a beach volleyball game with a tuxedo, be calibrated and relevant
I share the same opion with you thx. But the thing is, maybe dressing avarage can bring some advantage with. I dress classy , but when i take a look around most of the chicks have avarage dress so i dunno dressing classy is good or bad.

Once again, if you feel good, then that is what matters. Always try to look your best.

Author:  neo87 [ Mon May 09, 2016 1:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Over dressing

You can dress one step above the environment and qualify for being stylish, but not out of place. So if a party has most guys in T-shirts and jeans, throw on a fitted buttoned up shirt. If a club has guys in dress shirts, throw on a blazer.

Also, common sense is important. You WEAR clothes. So you have to consider what you're gonna be doing physically and dress accordingly. I wont wear a nice blazer and expensive shoes to a wild house party because people are smoking which the fabric will soak up, people are gonna be bumping into each other and drinks are going to be spilt on my shoes or jacket. Plus if you're dancing all night, you dont want to be in something stuffy like a tuxedo. You want to dress well, but not too inappropriate to the environment that people are wondering why are you wearing a suit to a rave.

Author:  Dragula [ Wed May 11, 2016 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Over dressing

Quote:
Quote:
This is life

When your mate's make fun of you and the girls compliment you, you know you have your style down to a tee

This is why most guys dress average is because of the fear of their friends and perhaps some near by haterz that see you making the girl's they like..Giggle and enjoy their attention

Be smart with it though, don't turn up to a beach volleyball game with a tuxedo, be calibrated and relevant
I share the same opion with you thx. But the thing is, maybe dressing avarage can bring some advantage with. I dress classy , but when i take a look around most of the chicks have avarage dress so i dunno dressing classy is good or bad.
Not concerned with everyone else, I don't see it as a bad thing approaching girls who are dressed 'Average'

Looks good, feel good, seduce good...

Author:  n2thevoid [ Thu May 12, 2016 12:10 am ]
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I usually just wear a bowtie, oh and underwear of course.

Author:  rest02 [ Sun May 15, 2016 3:06 am ]
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I'm willing to argue that looking "out of place" can be good. Although, the phrase "out of place" be interpreted differenty. Semantics. Well anyway.. These days I'm not so out of the ordinary. But I can recall back in 2006, my first year of high school. I was into what's known as being "hood". Yep. I had moved to a rich town but dressed like the black and latinos from the ghetto I was originally from. That turned some heads. What ended up happening was, a girl who was in the top 3 hottest/most popular girls in the grade fell for me like a skydiver. I didn't even open my mouth! Nope. I rarely would said hello to her. She would hug me out of the blue, give me Get Well Soon cards, made a facebook group called "I Love [insert my name]". Had a look at it, girls on there discussing my clothes, they said I literally dressed like a pimp. Yep, I had overdressed. Going to class I wore a fucking gold jacket with fur on it. Other girls in the popular click hit on me as well, but not as hard. This girl was all over me. My guess is the unexpected uniqueness of seeing a "ghetto pimp" in a 98% white town with an avg income of 120,000 knocked her socks off. Certain girls didn't really show interest. But it depends. It can be good.

Another example. I heard of "jersey shore" northern, city, types getting major lays in the southern countryside.

And yes, haha, if men make fun of you, or even insult you, then you're good. I got that too.

Author:  Dragula [ Sun May 15, 2016 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Over dressing

Fact is most people dress average so it's easy to look edgier than the average joe

Author:  rest02 [ Mon May 16, 2016 12:58 am ]
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Fact is most people dress average so it's easy to look edgier than the average joe
Ali G :)

Author:  dicemaster [ Mon May 16, 2016 1:42 am ]
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You attract any women if even dress like shit. The matter here is the numbers. You should dress to get most not less.

I tries to say i cannot afford that mentality, which most women or and men have.

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