Hi all,
I've tried searching for an answer throughout the forums, but I couldn't find anything. Just to paint a simple picture, I've taken a girl I've been talking to on a date. I would say that the date itself was a success since we both enjoyed each other's company, had fun, etc. At some point during the date we talked about Phantom of the Opera and how great of a play/movie it was. Since I haven't seen it before, I suggested that we could watch it together at my place(dormroom). She agreed enthusiastically and told me that she would come over, but first drop off a Captain America poster she bought during our movie date. I only agreed to go on a movie date since she really wanted to see the movie. Anyways, she dropped off her stuff and brought her laptop over too since she wanted to work on a paper due tomorrow at the same time. That annoyed me a bit for some reason.
So we get back to my room and got her to take off her shoes and coat to get more comfortable. Instead of watching The Phantom of the Opera we decided to switch movies, not really all that important since the internet was crap and had difficulties playing the movie. Since this was a dormroom the only place we could sit down together was on the bed. To get into a more comfortable position we laid in bed together and had some sexual talk about certain things on snapchat etc. Note: She is a virgin, never kissed before, never been in a relationship. At some point I asked her how she felt about me since she asked me how I felt about her back then. She said she liked me all embarassed and stuff and at that point I asked her if she wanted to kiss me. She responds with, "really? maybe" I proceed by saying let's find out. She gave me a whole bunch of diversions and I just played it off making it not a big deal.
If my memory serves me correctly, she mentioned that she should leave soon or something. I probably said that's fine. So as she was leaving I gave her a hug and a small peck on the cheek. At this point she said "what the hell" and said that she would kiss me if I turned off the lights. She worried about this since she kept saying that she's never kissed before. So she kept saying "oh im a bad kisser, ive never done this before, I don't have experience." My response was something like, "no worries, there's a first time for everything." To keep things going, I offered a chance to keep going by saying we can continue practicing. (I'm probably not that good of a kisser either so it'll be cool if someone has a really good guide for it
) On the bed, we continued for a bit then I suggested that we could cuddle or something and she agreed. We made out for a bit more and I tried to escalate things a bit. I can't remember all to well what I did to somehow manage to touch her ass but I continued with it with a message. I probably touched her ass too much since i kept rubbing it. Probably wasn't that arousing. Anyways, I tried to make a move on her by slipping my hands onto her bare ass without the pants in the way. She put up resistance. I took it a step back and said I'm not going to do it if she's not comfortable with it. I've probably talked too much in this process. I don't know if talking too much is a bad thing. Also, I had some music playing from my phone that was on the relaxing side. I managed to pull that off by saying that it's to block the noise from my suitemate next door. I kept touching her back and butt, lots of resistance. I'm not that good with dealing with it. Any tips would be great. So I moved on to her upper back and mentioned that a lot of guys don't know how to unhook a bra and that it's harder to solve than a rubik's cube. She let me play with it until I managed to unhook it. Again she put on move resistance when it came to touching her breasts and I only was allowed to make small touches or passes. By the way, during the massage therapy, it was difficult to get through it since she was ticklish and such. Throughout the session I did mention that I had a thing going on downtown in my pants and she didn't really seem to mind. We talked a bit about fetishes and stuff. At this point my memories are mixed up, so I'll do my best to not omit details and keep things in order. Also this session went on for hours, it was very hard for me to proceed to the next step because of her resistance. I kept reassuring her that I'm not a fuckboy or whatever I that I understood how she felt. I tried freezeouts but it seemed to only kinda work since it allowed me to move a bit more. Later on, I managed to get her to touch my dick a bit, but she immediately backed out once I said that she could use her mouth a bit and that I'll guide her on what to do. At this point boom tons of resistance. Saying stuff like, "it's not me, I seem easy, I'm not that kind of girl, hoe." That she couldn't do it and she should head back. I said that's fine, but at this point I've kinda lost my nonchalant attitude a bit. I tried to play it off cool but I've probably made a few slip ups at this point. We talked a bit and about relationship/testing the waters. Anyways there will be some details omitted here. So I didn't walk her back since she should be safe since it's pretty much the morning time at this point. She seemed okay with that. She still seemed to like me since she kept asking if I was mad. I probably said that I'm fine, not giving her as much attention. Now this is where I need help. How to proceed from this situation. Should I continue as if nothing happened and remain friends, talk to her less/responding less frequently, be passive agressive? Thanks in advance.