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Author:  blackinak [ Thu May 05, 2016 7:28 pm ]
Post subject:  How to control the nice guy syndrome ?
So I got an issue I seem to either be too nice or too much of a dick. What I hate the most is when a girl figures out you're a nice guy they either see that as a sign your're inferior and girls looking for something serious will go after or a hot chick will dump quickly.

What are some general guidelines or typical everyday tips a nice guy can go over so he doesn't get put into that zone? I am a bit socially awkward so that adds a bit more of the niceness to it. I just graduated college with a tough degree so i plan to work on my social life again now.

Thanks for any input!
Author:  dicemaster [ Thu May 05, 2016 7:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to control the nice guy syndrome ?
You ask for how to balance yourself? I do not have magic stick bro. Best thing is approach to more women, you van balance yourself, not us. It is a pretty newbie question.
Author:  JackZero [ Thu May 05, 2016 7:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to control the nice guy syndrome ?
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So I got an issue I seem to either be too nice or too much of a dick. What I hate the most is when a girl figures out you're a nice guy they either see that as a sign your're inferior and girls looking for something serious will go after or a hot chick will dump quickly.

What are some general guidelines or typical everyday tips a nice guy can go over so he doesn't get put into that zone? I am a bit socially awkward so that adds a bit more of the niceness to it. I just graduated college with a tough degree so i plan to work on my social life again now.

Thanks for any input!
If you're socially inept, then that will be a problem. Otherwise, all you have to do is be comfortable being you. Nice guy or too much of a dick unless you are a pushover or a guy that pushes away. People that know me in person think I'm a nice guy but they know they can't push me around.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu May 05, 2016 8:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to control the nice guy syndrome ?
Quote:
So I got an issue I seem to either be too nice or too much of a dick. What I hate the most is when a girl figures out you're a nice guy they either see that as a sign your're inferior and girls looking for something serious will go after or a hot chick will dump quickly.

What are some general guidelines or typical everyday tips a nice guy can go over so he doesn't get put into that zone? I am a bit socially awkward so that adds a bit more of the niceness to it. I just graduated college with a tough degree so i plan to work on my social life again now.

Thanks for any input!
Be a challenge. Stand by your convictions. Be true to who you are. It's not about being an asshole or a nice guy. It's about being a confident male presence.
Author:  blackinak [ Thu May 05, 2016 9:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to control the nice guy syndrome ?
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So I got an issue I seem to either be too nice or too much of a dick. What I hate the most is when a girl figures out you're a nice guy they either see that as a sign your're inferior and girls looking for something serious will go after or a hot chick will dump quickly.

What are some general guidelines or typical everyday tips a nice guy can go over so he doesn't get put into that zone? I am a bit socially awkward so that adds a bit more of the niceness to it. I just graduated college with a tough degree so i plan to work on my social life again now.

Thanks for any input!
Be a challenge. Stand by your convictions. Be true to who you are. It's not about being an asshole or a nice guy. It's about being a confident male presence.

what I hate the most I guess is when a girl figures out you're a nice guy and tries to expect pushover tendencies from you. That pisses me off the most but then again I need to break out of my shell and get out there more i guess.

Good replies by everybody appreciate it.
Author:  R.C [ Fri May 06, 2016 6:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to control the nice guy syndrome ?
Stop being a supplicant tool. There, problem solved.
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