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Author:  Billions94 [ Thu May 05, 2016 5:02 pm ]
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What if I fail something on the midgame? I mean do you just say "well, if you made a good opener and a good impact then you're still on" or is it that bad failing the next time after the opening?
Author:  GenesisPUA [ Thu May 05, 2016 5:25 pm ]
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I'm confused.
Author:  Dragula [ Thu May 05, 2016 5:42 pm ]
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I'm confused.
+1
Author:  JackZero [ Thu May 05, 2016 5:47 pm ]
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You're thinking way too much about opening, mid game and closing. It's all one interaction and you flow with it.
Author:  Billions94 [ Thu May 05, 2016 5:48 pm ]
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I mean I made a good opener, played kinda well my game the first time I met this HB7 but the second time I wasn't just in the right mood so I played half good (got one or two IOI's) and was half shitty. You think I still got time? I don't know what to do next
Author:  Billions94 [ Thu May 05, 2016 5:51 pm ]
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JackZero, yeah but I need time because I still got to figure out how to not overthink
Author:  Dragula [ Thu May 05, 2016 5:52 pm ]
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I mean I made a good opener, played kinda well my game the first time I met this HB7 but the second time I wasn't just in the right mood so I played half good (got one or two IOI's) and was half shitty. You think I still got time? I don't know what to do next
I know people want a linear structure with game but the sooner you take that shit out of your head the better

The first 5 seconds of your interaction will determine whether you're fuckable or not, all you need to do is let it flow and vibe, just like how you'd interact with a friend/family member. This transition story telling, push pull shite will only make you look like you're trying

Let it flowwwwwwwwwwwwww

Once she is into you, turn on 'Do not fuck it up Mode' and then lead to eventually to a place to boink
Author:  Billions94 [ Thu May 05, 2016 6:06 pm ]
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I guess I still have to learn to let it flow. I'll try
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu May 05, 2016 6:11 pm ]
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If she's still with you, your still in.
Author:  JackZero [ Thu May 05, 2016 6:15 pm ]
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I guess I still have to learn to let it flow. I'll try
You'll find out that your best game will be when you're on cruise control, not worried about what you'll say first, next, and before you get the first kiss in. Like the missing in action Dragula said, you'll be in your head if you are linear.
Author:  Finished [ Thu May 05, 2016 7:05 pm ]
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When it comes down to it, the most important thing is closing.

You can dribble the ball around in circles and do all the tricks that you want but if you don't close the deal (or to continue the metaphor, put it in the back of the net) nothing else matters at all.

That being said, the other dudes are right, and I've been saying the same thing for a very long time now, you are more likely to get laid when you just see the thing as one interaction that flows and it should all feel like it's happening naturally. Even though you are the one in the driving seat and you know where you're taking it.

Why do you feel like you're failing 'midgame'? What is happening after the opener that is fucking it up for you regularly?
Author:  dicemaster [ Thu May 05, 2016 7:44 pm ]
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If you even overthink before sex, you cannot even fuck. So follow the flow. Let the blood flow through your weins from your brain to penis. If you fuck up no worries, you cannot fuck everyone in this planet but there are POF.
Author:  Billions94 [ Thu May 05, 2016 7:57 pm ]
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Well guys, thank you all for helping out, this starts to help me. I think I half fucked up because I was half interacting naturally and she was responding and half stuck, I felt my face becoming red (it didn't help the fact that it was really hot in that place at that moment) so I was like keeping it going for a moment,then the moment later I was like I didn't know what to say and my body language was starting to become awkward, then the moment later I was still back in the game. Metaphorically speaking I was on press trying to get inside of her mind, trying to go forward, but the moment later I felt my defence like crap so the "other team" could counterstrike easily cause I was all forward. I talked to this girl like twice, got some IOI's but I don't if it's the right time to hit. I don't wanna look like I go too fast, you know what I mean?
Author:  Dragula [ Thu May 05, 2016 8:04 pm ]
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Well guys, thank you all for helping out, this starts to help me. I think I half fucked up because I was half interacting naturally and she was responding and half stuck, I felt my face becoming red (it didn't help the fact that it was really hot in that place at that moment) so I was like keeping it going for a moment,then the moment later I was like I didn't know what to say and my body language was starting to become awkward, then the moment later I was still back in the game. Metaphorically speaking I was on press trying to get inside of her mind, trying to go forward, but the moment later I felt my defence like crap so the "other team" could counterstrike easily cause I was all forward. I talked to this girl like twice, got some IOI's but I don't if it's the right time to hit. I don't wanna look like I go too fast, you know what I mean?
No lol
Author:  Billions94 [ Thu May 05, 2016 8:05 pm ]
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Like.. we've talked just twice and I'm already trying to kiss you? I don't wanna look needy
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