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Author:  N1ck9141 [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 9:51 am ]
Post subject:  What to do when you dont get a text back?? DISCUSS

Hey all wanted to raise a bit of a discussion!, i no the obvious answer to this question...move on bye bye lol.

But i have found every now and then you find that girl whos worth at least a little effort, so theres two techniques ive found that work if she doesnt reply...

Firstly don't text again till the next day she might just have been busy you dont want to seem needy, and if you dont no what she is up to or if she has even seen your message well yea...

How secondly ive had some success with things like this, if she reads it doesnt reply but you can still see she is active, on facebook or twitter for example...
I will sometimes send a second message saying "you fainted from shock cause i text you again didnt you, you gotta get over that its ok ill wait" this seems to get a "you wish" or "haha very funny" kind of reply, and your job to lead on well from there and be short breif and sweet.

The other thing i have found specially on social media, its if your talking and have said like you just painting at home (for example) and she stops replying. HIT THE TOWN grab ya coat go out party up post a few pics only or better yet get someone else to post pics your tagged in (specially of there a female of an 8 or above) this often leads to me getting a message about, "thought u where home" or they pretend they havnt seen the pics and go "sorry i didnt reply..you have a fun night?" Etc...

Wondered if anyone else had any other ways of pulling back those ones that you want to try a little harder with ? Let me know ?

Author:  R.C [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 3:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when you dont get a text back?? DISCUSS

There's a reason why the obvious answer is the obvious one.

Author:  N1ck9141 [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 4:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when you dont get a text back?? DISCUSS

This community only excist because someone wanted to find a way to improve the known rules...

Author:  JackZero [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 4:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when you dont get a text back?? DISCUSS

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This community only excist because someone wanted to find a way to improve the known rules...
It's more of the "fix it" mentality that you have here. If a girl doesn't respond, then she doesn't. You can reopen if something new happens and that will more than likely be met with interest. Trying to force a response is not really necessary. That's just my opinion, but if it is working for you...by all means keep doing it.

However, I hate the notion of going out to post pictures to grab one persons attention. That is such a needy mentality to have. Having an "8" or above do it is just an odd idea. If you have an 8-10 woman posting and tagging pictures of you for another woman that doesn't even want to respond to you to see, I'd say that you are really not taking advantage of the opportunity in front of you.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 4:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when you dont get a text back?? DISCUSS

The thing is, it is better to steer away from this type of behavior.

Author:  dicemaster [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 5:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when you dont get a text back?? DISCUSS

Quote:
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This community only excist because someone wanted to find a way to improve the known rules...
It's more of the "fix it" mentality that you have here. If a girl doesn't respond, then she doesn't. You can reopen if something new happens and that will more than likely be met with interest. Trying to force a response is not really necessary. That's just my opinion, but if it is working for you...by all means keep doing it.

However, I hate the notion of going out to post pictures to grab one persons attention. That is such a needy mentality to have. Having an "8" or above do it is just an odd idea. If you have an 8-10 woman posting and tagging pictures of you for another woman that doesn't even want to respond to you to see, I'd say that you are really not taking advantage of the opportunity in front of you.
You perform some effort, othereise there no difference sitting ay the bar and doing nothing while you r hoping some chick come and start the topic and eeeeaaagh she just did not write me back so forget it.

OP is right here, it is better to find a working solution than doing nothing and hoping to chick is gonna call to you.

So op i think you need improve your technic but i liked yout mentality.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 5:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when you dont get a text back?? DISCUSS

Quote:
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This community only excist because someone wanted to find a way to improve the known rules...
It's more of the "fix it" mentality that you have here. If a girl doesn't respond, then she doesn't. You can reopen if something new happens and that will more than likely be met with interest. Trying to force a response is not really necessary. That's just my opinion, but if it is working for you...by all means keep doing it.

However, I hate the notion of going out to post pictures to grab one persons attention. That is such a needy mentality to have. Having an "8" or above do it is just an odd idea. If you have an 8-10 woman posting and tagging pictures of you for another woman that doesn't even want to respond to you to see, I'd say that you are really not taking advantage of the opportunity in front of you.
^^This is the way to go about it.

If she goes cold for some time, it's ok to 'ping' her, though keep it short, not obscure (which is difficult for some guys), and interesting (e.g., funny).


Jack is right on the money in that it's the energy to which you do things out of which will determine how others perceive you, and MORE IMPORTANTLY how you view yourself. I wouldn't put any effort into 'showing' a girl how cool a guy I am by uploading photos, or sharing snapchats to show my status, that's weak for sure and even if she doesn't catch on immediately, she will in due time. And if a relationship ensues its under the wrong pretense because now you're a trained fish, or dog expecting a Scooby snack everytime you do 'good'.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon May 02, 2016 1:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to do when you dont get a text back?? DISCUSS

i agree with the OP on certain things. The text to get them to respond is down my alley...I would defniitely say something cocky like that. Now, if she doesn't text me back, I forget about her. I will hit up another girl who will hit me back. Simple. Now OP, I wouldn't go as far as going out on the town JUST to rub it in her face. Just not a fun mentality to be in. Just have fun man, naturally it will pan out. It does for the better or for the worse. If you're life is fun, people will catch on naturally.


I know some people will just be like move on, but from personal experience, I just ping the girl every now and then. I don't force it, I send little funny texts here and there...I just stay on her radar. This works especially well if you are stuck in the friendzone. You place the girl back down on the list, she does not get all your attention if she is being a time waster or fucking around.

Just make sure you are improving yourself in the meantime until the girl realizes she must be a fool not to try to get your attention.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon May 02, 2016 8:46 pm ]
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I'd give this a read: pua-lounge/topic190620.html

But heres my question to you..

how many of these reengaged in conversation girls actually turn into lays for you?

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