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Author:  Romania [ Thu Apr 28, 2016 10:11 pm ]
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So i started talking to a girl not so long ago on fb, then we switched to phone texts, everything went very well, she seemed interested, conversations were fun and i can almost tell she liked me. she was also initiating conversations frecquently.

Then some days ago we went out, but it didnt go very well, as i am a little bit shy when i meet someone for the first time...i still managed to do some kino, grabbing her waist, but overall the date wasn't a succes.

Now we talk less than before...we still talk, she still initiated, but i can tell its not the same enthusiasm as before. is it possible than she saw me a little bit boring..or some of the attraction was killed?what should i do, try to take her out again and be more bold and assertive over the fact that i want her?

Author:  dicemaster [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 12:54 am ]
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Just do the opposite , what ever your decision is.

Author:  Romania [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 8:55 am ]
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Very encouraging, thanks.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 5:34 pm ]
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Become more sexually assertive. Let me ask you. honestly do you think it was 'shyness'? Or actual fear? Or your perceived fear.

Author:  Romania [ Sat Apr 30, 2016 3:41 pm ]
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Now that she doesnt seem interested anymore how should i approach her?

Author:  dicemaster [ Sat Apr 30, 2016 4:16 pm ]
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Now that she doesnt seem interested anymore how should i approach her?
Nope.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon May 02, 2016 9:08 pm ]
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is it possible than she saw me a little bit boring..or some of the attraction was killed?
Absolutely.

Its also possible that you guys just didn't have chemistry and so the connection wasn't made.

Bad dates happen. Its apart of life. You try again or you move on. Do you actually like the girl though or was she just hot so you want to give it another go?

Author:  Romania [ Mon May 02, 2016 11:10 pm ]
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is it possible than she saw me a little bit boring..or some of the attraction was killed?
Absolutely.

Its also possible that you guys just didn't have chemistry and so the connection wasn't made.

Bad dates happen. Its apart of life. You try again or you move on. Do you actually like the girl though or was she just hot so you want to give it another go?
I actually like her, she still initiates and said she wants to see me these days...thats still a good thing right?

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue May 03, 2016 12:48 am ]
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is it possible than she saw me a little bit boring..or some of the attraction was killed?
Absolutely.

Its also possible that you guys just didn't have chemistry and so the connection wasn't made.

Bad dates happen. Its apart of life. You try again or you move on. Do you actually like the girl though or was she just hot so you want to give it another go?
I actually like her, she still initiates and said she wants to see me these days...thats still a good thing right?
What is it that you like about her?

Author:  R.C [ Tue May 03, 2016 7:53 am ]
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You're very invested in a girl you had a bad date with, which is usually an indicative towards the fact that you have very few options.

Author:  Romania [ Tue May 03, 2016 2:21 pm ]
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What is it that you like about her?

A lot of things, its hard to explain.. if i may ask, how should i approach the second date?
I really appreciate your help, thanks.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue May 03, 2016 2:29 pm ]
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What is it that you like about her?

A lot of things, its hard to explain.. if i may ask, how should i approach the second date?
I really appreciate your help, thanks.
Because this one is different?

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue May 03, 2016 3:02 pm ]
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What is it that you like about her?

A lot of things, its hard to explain.. if i may ask, how should i approach the second date?
I really appreciate your help, thanks.
How can a lot of things be hard to explain? One or two things maybe.

We often let good looks convince us that a girl is a lot more interesting than she actually is. Don't mistake attraction for chemistry. Doesn't sound like there was much of any connection between you two guys on the date. Has a second date been set up already? Have you heard from her since the first date?

But if you want date tips, just read this: closing-and-day/topic189168.html

Author:  Dragula [ Tue May 03, 2016 6:21 pm ]
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She ain't different

Guys should NEVER assume a future direction with a girl till you have had sex with her, anything else. She is just a oneitus right now,

Megan Fox is hot, but if she ain't good at oral pleasure and lays on her back, then she isn't a keeper no matter hot she is

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Tue May 03, 2016 10:04 pm ]
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She ain't different

Guys should NEVER assume a future direction with a girl till you have had sex with her, anything else. She is just a oneitus right now,

Megan Fox is hot, but if she ain't good at oral pleasure and lays on her back, then she isn't a keeper no matter how she is

haha yep.

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