PUA Forum :: Flakes, what to do?

My last flake wasnt in the last minute. A night before the date a send a playful message about the date, this time for the first time I got flaked. I just said "ok cool", since she doesnt offer a reschudule, I just did nothing.

Most people will say, next her, plenty of woman in the world blabla. Other will say, 2 chances, first flake freeze out and make a second attempt. theres no third attempt.

Today she said I hate her bla bla bla...I just said "I hate the distance between our lips hahahha", and fluffy talk, next week I will make another move(I am travelling). But the situation made me think, "I am conveying a message of hurt/weak?"...sugestions?

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Are you hurt/weak?

How did you meet this girl? How long have you been talking etc?
Seems to be on the low probability side that she doesn't want to meet up.

Author:	sadDog [ Wed Apr 27, 2016 5:28 pm ]
Post subject:	Flakes, what to do?
My last flake wasnt in the last minute. A night before the date a send a playful message about the date, this time for the first time I got flaked. I just said "ok cool", since she doesnt offer a reschudule, I just did nothing. Most people will say, next her, plenty of woman in the world blabla. Other will say, 2 chances, first flake freeze out and make a second attempt. theres no third attempt. Today she said I hate her bla bla bla...I just said "I hate the distance between our lips hahahha", and fluffy talk, next week I will make another move(I am travelling). But the situation made me think, "I am conveying a message of hurt/weak?"...sugestions?

Author:	JackZero [ Wed Apr 27, 2016 5:40 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Flakes, what to do?
Quote: My last flake wasnt in the last minute. A night before the date a send a playful message about the date, this time for the first time I got flaked. I just said "ok cool", since she doesnt offer a reschudule, I just did nothing. Most people will say, next her, plenty of woman in the world blabla. Other will say, 2 chances, first flake freeze out and make a second attempt. theres no third attempt. Today she said I hate her bla bla bla...I just said "I hate the distance between our lips hahahha", and fluffy talk, next week I will make another move(I am travelling). But the situation made me think, "I am conveying a message of hurt/weak?"...sugestions? Are you hurt/weak?

Author:	sadDog [ Thu Apr 28, 2016 4:39 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Flakes, what to do?
Quote: Quote: My last flake wasnt in the last minute. A night before the date a send a playful message about the date, this time for the first time I got flaked. I just said "ok cool", since she doesnt offer a reschudule, I just did nothing. Most people will say, next her, plenty of woman in the world blabla. Other will say, 2 chances, first flake freeze out and make a second attempt. theres no third attempt. Today she said I hate her bla bla bla...I just said "I hate the distance between our lips hahahha", and fluffy talk, next week I will make another move(I am travelling). But the situation made me think, "I am conveying a message of hurt/weak?"...sugestions? Are you hurt/weak? Nope, in fact she seems more interested. I already knew she is unstable(hb9, low self esteem, insecure), so I just accepted. But, I dont if what I am doing is the right choice. I had a great date in mind, but after the flake, I will just say "coffee day X, time Y"

Author:	TinderMagic [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 8:08 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Flakes, what to do?
How did you meet this girl? How long have you been talking etc? Seems to be on the low probability side that she doesn't want to meet up.

Author:	sadDog [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 8:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Flakes, what to do?
Quote: How did you meet this girl? How long have you been talking etc? Seems to be on the low probability side that she doesn't want to meet up. Could be, she is part of one of my social circle...I am not that active there, we've known each other now for quite some time. But I have some brief contact(not directly) in a SPAM group(friends), where I flirt with other girls hahahha. I have a image of player in this social group.

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Author:	Arch Stanton [ Fri Apr 29, 2016 9:23 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Flakes, what to do?
First flake, ignore. Hit her up again a week or two later, if she flakes next her. However, if she contacts you again, give it another shot. Sometimes girls are in a FWB situation or have a boyfriend and have pretty legitimate reasons for flaking. But what you NEVER want to do early on is call a girl out for flaking, lol. Makes you look like a completely desperate loser. Not responding to the flakes conveys value and that you have options, which in turn can sometimes get a girl off the fence.

Author:	TinderMagic [ Sun May 01, 2016 12:18 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Flakes, what to do?
Assuming there isn't a proper reason or she wants to reschedule preferably offering another time, she flakes because she's not attracted or you're not her best thing at that point. Just leave it, she'll message you if interested.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Mon May 02, 2016 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Flakes, what to do?
Read that: pua-lounge/topic190620.html I have a no flake rule. You get one shot with me and you're out. If you flaked on your interview with Google just because you were tired do you think would you get a second interview with the company? Now if you flaked on Walmart you could probably get another interview. Hell, but since its walmart, you probably wouldn't give a damn if you did or not because those opportunities are everywhere. Be google bro.

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