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Author:  Johnny Utah [ Sat Apr 23, 2016 4:42 am ]
Post subject:  What to say when you know she will flake?
There is this really sexy Brazilian woman I cross paths with once in a while, but she is always on her way to work. I managed to get her number but I know without a doubt, she will say she is busy when I call her up. What do you say when calling up a woman like this? Act apathetic? Neg her playfully? Just say you will you be hanging out some place and subtly invite her? I want to at least give it a shot with her.
Author:  Chief [ Sat Apr 23, 2016 5:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
One of the things you'll learn here is that a big part of this "game" is changing the way you think.

You're assuming that she's definitely going to flake or say that she's busy before even giving her a chance. Sounds like you're very likely coming from the wrong perspective here.

One of the most important things to develop regarding your Inner Game is optimism. So start expecting better things and slap a smile on that face! :)

We become pessimistic as a self-defense mechanism; we think that if we have low expectations, we'll get hurt less when things fail to meet our best possible expectations. This sort of mentality and behavior is unattractive and will actually decrease your chances for success. Ultimately, you should realize that ALL self-defense mechanisms like this are products of immaturity and are inherently unattractive.

Get optimistic and face the world like a man ;)
Author:  Johnny Utah [ Sat Apr 23, 2016 5:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
Yes, I know what you mean but we have crossed paths twice and both times I was very confident and optimistic talking with her. She did seem more responsive the second time as she gave me her number(it could be a fake number).

Aside from continuing to be optimistic, I'm looking for advice on what to say when I do call to get her to agree to meet, rather than end with her claiming she is too busy?
Author:  dicemaster [ Sat Apr 23, 2016 3:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
Flake means lack of interest. IMO. If chick flakes just do nothing and game on others. Do not waste a time to what for her call. Low expectations, maximum satisfucktion.
Author:  paxis [ Sat Apr 23, 2016 3:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
Assuming she's not seeing someone, flaking without her proposing another day happens because of: lack of attraction or lack of comfort.

Seeing that, flirt with her and build some comfort before you ask her out.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Sat Apr 23, 2016 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
I never call girls out for flaking, the only response is to ignore. And if she contacts you after, ignore her text for a few days. This ability to resist her can help with attraction.

I will easily call out women for lying, disrespect, etc. But not this. Because it looks like you are way too invested. All it says is, "I want you more than you want me" and "I'm a needy, whiny bitch".

The other night, my exclusive gf went out with her roommate and told me she would hit me up after. At the end of the night, she texted she couldn't make it. I just ignored her text instead of complaining. She got the message and came over the next morning before work with breakfast, coffee, and gave me a backrub and blew me.
Author:  neo87 [ Sun Apr 24, 2016 12:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
Why would you get a number you felt wasnt solid?
Author:  Johnny Utah [ Sun Apr 24, 2016 3:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
Well, how would I go about flirting to build comfort when everytime I see her, she is in a hurry to work?

Would building comfort over the phone just be strange? Anyone know any playful phrases or things to say on the phone?

I'm willing to move on, but she is really hot.

I wouldn't say it was solid, but she seemed somewhat interested, just tight on time.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Sun Apr 24, 2016 4:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
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Well, how would I go about flirting to build comfort when everytime I see her, she is in a hurry to work?
That's a bad sign. A woman who wants you has trouble pulling away. If she hurried away once or twice, then other times kind of orbited you, I'd say continue. But right now it seems you have to show up with a woman around your arms next time you see her. This works wonders for women on the fence.
Author:  Johnny Utah [ Sun Apr 24, 2016 9:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
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Well, how would I go about flirting to build comfort when everytime I see her, she is in a hurry to work?
That's a bad sign. A woman who wants you has trouble pulling away. If she hurried away once or twice, then other times kind of orbited you, I'd say continue. But right now it seems you have to show up with a woman around your arms next time you see her. This works wonders for women on the fence.
This is great advice, I must try this out thanks!
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Apr 25, 2016 3:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to say when you know she will flake?
When you assume a woman will flake your are submitting to the idea that you are unworthy.

I don't ever assume a girl would flake on me because I am an opportunity. It would be like you canceling on an interview with "google" just because you were busy. Be google. Girls should be flaking on their meet up with their friends to spend time with you. To get there though you have to be willing to walk away from the women now who aren't acknowledging what you know yourself to be. Delete her number, approach more women, and grow yourself into someone who women cancel plans for, and not someone women may flake on. Women of any quality. The way a woman looks should not control your frame. She didn't choose her looks. She's was given them.
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